All my life I've lived in the shadow of my older sister. Unlike me she's confident, outgoing. Always did well at school without having to try. Landed good jobs, well paid, company cars, travel etc.
This is all great and I should be really pleased for her. However along with this comes the attitude. The bragging, the looking down on me. She always has to be the best and the greatest and it's all performance. The problem is she always manages to get to me. We moved in March. Invited her over and she puts her house up for sale in weeks. She's just moved to a massive house without selling her old home. The builders have been in and place is perfect. Her cars have to be bigger, her holidays have to be better. Now she's flipping pregnant with her first baby. She's started weight watchers (again) so she doesn't put weight on. Her unborn baby is already booked into the best nursery in the area so she can go back to work after 4 months! The cleaners, gardeners etc all lined up ready. Honestly I'm dreading it. I know her child will always have to be better. She will be the better parent. Her house will always need to be cleaner, her garden landscaped.
Everyone congratulates her. Is soooo happy for her. Isn't she marvellous. Actually I think she's horrible to me. It's all for show, it's all false and she can't wait to show off.
I'm sick of feeling like this. I'm fed up of being the underdog. I'm exhausted with my 2dc. I live on 4 hours sleep a night and have done for 7+ years. My dh is a messy untidy person who works 12-14 hours a day. I work FT hours on part time childcare. No cleaners/gardeners. Financially we normal. We manage but it's only by being very careful.
I'm a bitch. I'm wishing her child not to sleep and be a complete handful. I'm longing for her to be exhausted and not cope. I'm longing for something to happen to make her live in the real world.
How do I get out of this silly game. I don't want to be like this.
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Living in the shadow of my sister :(
Rinkydinkypink · 10/01/2015 07:52
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