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Friend spends the weekend with me then ‘reviews’ her experience, wtf!? Continued

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Biscusting Mon 11-Jun-18 13:28:07

Lost the other thread, can’t believe it filled up so fast.
CF ex friend has sent further message to say how sad she is about the loss of our long standing friendship, all she can do is try her best under difficult circumstances...

Thank you everyone for helping me form measured responses.

Now is it possible to block someone from sending messages or calling?

<Trots off to google>

Maelstrop Mon 11-Jun-18 13:31:47

Block her on FB, this means she can't message you. I'm surprised at her audacity saying this is so sad. She has entirely brought this on herself.

Bearlover16 Mon 11-Jun-18 13:32:04

This was just on loose women

Aeroflotgirl Mon 11-Jun-18 13:34:36

I wanted to start a new thread, but I thought it wasent my place, but shamelessly looking out for a new one grin. YOur on TV Biscusting It is look at your contacts bit of your phone, at the side there is an option to block.

LaContessaDiPlump Mon 11-Jun-18 13:36:34

Oh I bet she's desperate to make up without admitting fault so she can stay with you for free grin she's so cheeky!

IamPickleRick Mon 11-Jun-18 13:36:47

Just seen this on Loose Women catch up and I would give Coleen's massively rehearsed “so this mate, right, says I’m in the area, right, can I come and stay, right” introduction;

2 stars.

expatinscotland Mon 11-Jun-18 13:37:15

I still think you need to make it very clear there will be no hosting in July because this gal is cheeky enough to still show up! You were far too nice to her with that postponement nonsense.

I'd text her back ONCE: You humiliated me on social media, unfriended me when I messaged you about it, only took it down when you realised your free place to stay was in jeopardy, have the cheek to ask to still stay, then rant at me over your issues. GO AWAY! You are not welcome in my home or in my life. And then block her.

mplINsTA Mon 11-Jun-18 13:37:21

original thread

Biscusting Mon 11-Jun-18 13:37:23

Whaaaat!? Hope she doesn’t watch daytime TV! That’s really not going to help her MH.

Aeroflotgirl Mon 11-Jun-18 13:38:38

Wow she was one hell of a CF, masqurading as mental health my arse. Who does that. Even if she did not have a good stay, it sounds like she had a lovely time at yours, you just do not do that, find alternative accommodation next time. If she wanted to document it, keep a private journal. Like others have said, I don't think a reputable therapist would advise documenting your personal feelings on social media for all to see and scrutinise.

Aeroflotgirl Mon 11-Jun-18 13:40:01

Ha ha it won't, her fault, she should not have posted it so publically, its coming round to bite her in the arse.

kissthealderman Mon 11-Jun-18 13:40:57

Bloody hell, LW picked that up quickly!

Aeroflotgirl Mon 11-Jun-18 13:41:13

I agree, you have been too restrained, I would have told her something along the lines of what expat has said, I have no time for crap like that.

MsHomeSlice Mon 11-Jun-18 13:42:52

oh Loose Women! ...man I wish I watched daytime tv!

I hope your friend did see it, and it now realising that her anxiety and MH issues are NOT the GetOutOfJail card she always wanted!

FiestaThenSiesta Mon 11-Jun-18 13:45:50

Did Loose Women mention it was on mumsnet or just social media? She would probably think someone screen captured her FB post and be flattered.

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Ninabean17 Mon 11-Jun-18 13:46:10

Really hoping the cf saw loose women today!

KittyHawke80 Mon 11-Jun-18 13:47:41

She hasn’t been ‘trying her best’, though, has she? She wouldn’t have had to put any effort at all into not writing that ‘hilarious’ post.

IamPickleRick Mon 11-Jun-18 13:48:06

FiestaThenSiesta Coleen sort of told it like she’d heard it in the queue at Asda. No mention that researchers had robbed it off MN 😂

Bridezilla2be Mon 11-Jun-18 13:58:35

Coleen sort of told it like she’d heard it in the queue at Asda.

Yes! Really annoys me how they shamelessly do this to MN all the time!

AllyMcBeagle Mon 11-Jun-18 13:59:01

I'm just going to put a link to the old thread here in case anyone clicks on this new thread and wants to read part 1:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3273378-Friend-spends-the-weekend-with-me-then-reviews-her-experience-wtf

Biscusting Mon 11-Jun-18 14:00:01

Hrmmm... before blocking, should I send the link for the loose women episode on catch up?

Don’t know if i’m being immature or whether this would be the perfect lesson.

Aeroflotgirl Mon 11-Jun-18 14:07:39

I would leave it, she will hear about it in due course, just carry on being dignified.

expatinscotland Mon 11-Jun-18 14:09:59

Wouldn't send her a link. Just make sure she knows she's not welcome in your home or life first or she's likely to show up in July, anyway.

Leeds2 Mon 11-Jun-18 14:11:55

What did Loose Women say about it all? That she was a CF, or that she had done nothing wrong?

Biscusting Mon 11-Jun-18 14:13:36

Yes Expat, good point

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