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famtastic Mon 03-Jul-17 18:26:22

Ok so she sent me a few more messages about how they just assumed I knew what they needed and didn't think they needed to spell it out for me! Saying that they do not know how they are expected to pay for childcare that they hadn't budgeted for as they was relying on me to provide it. And I shouldn't of said I could help if I wasn't willing to do so.

I've not replied to any messages

JustDontGetItAtAll Mon 03-Jul-17 18:26:58


JustDontGetItAtAll Mon 03-Jul-17 18:27:19

Does she think you have some kind of responsibility to her kids or something?! X

Foundwantingalways Mon 03-Jul-17 18:27:24

What the actual fuck?

LeannePerrins Mon 03-Jul-17 18:27:24

Good for you, fam. No point engaging any further with the crazy.

juneau Mon 03-Jul-17 18:27:59

Never 'assume'. You make an ass of u and me. I presume she's never heard that one!

FurbysMakeSexNoises Mon 03-Jul-17 18:28:07

Ah all those silent imaginary phonecalls and agreements!

Your children = your responsibility to have firm plans = you might need to pay

They could have redeemed themselves by saying they assumed they'd be paying if they reasoned they'd got it wrong.

Zero obligations here! They can do one.

Mamabear14 Mon 03-Jul-17 18:28:10

That will teach them for relying on someone else to sort out their children without even the manners to ask! Don't feel an ounce of guilt. She is batshit crazy.

Hortonlovesahoo Mon 03-Jul-17 18:28:23

I wonder if she's got the balls to still come around?

If you've got anxiety, it might be worth blocking her number so you're not getting yourself worked up about it?

TobleroneBoo Mon 03-Jul-17 18:28:25


rainbowpie Mon 03-Jul-17 18:28:41

She cannot be serious!!

JustDontGetItAtAll Mon 03-Jul-17 18:28:41

An ex of mine once said: "Assumptions are the root cause of all f**k ups!!"

NellieFiveBellies Mon 03-Jul-17 18:28:47

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

youmayfoldunderquestioning Mon 03-Jul-17 18:28:54

Tell the mad cow to do one. She's clearly a twat.

FurbysMakeSexNoises Mon 03-Jul-17 18:29:00

Shows how little they value you and your life and thoughts and opinions and your children and what you and they'd like. Wonder how they actually parent their poor children.

Thebluedog Mon 03-Jul-17 18:29:24

It's not very often I'm speechless but on this I am

It amazes me how she thinks being rude and swearing will get her what she wants. Especially as it's actually a favour she's asking for. It's not like she's even paying for a service, not that, that's any excuse for her rude behaviour.

I hope your DH sends her on her way in no uncertain terms

Well done OP flowers

KingJoffreysRestingCuntface Mon 03-Jul-17 18:29:28

Not up to you to manage either their children or their finances.

QueenieGoldstein Mon 03-Jul-17 18:29:45

She's got more front than Brighton that one!

SpaghettiAndMeatballs Mon 03-Jul-17 18:29:50

This is insanity right?

Mine are going to a kids club, its booked, paid for, and confirmed, same as last year and I'm still going to double check in a couple of days if I don't receive their timetables - because it's really important, so of course I check it's all going to go smoothly.

The idea of thinking that asking for a favour over summer implies that you'd look after someone's kids for hours from early every morning is just, well, I don't have the words - who thinks that! Who asks someone for that and then gets angry when they say they can't?

HaudYerWheeshtBawbag Mon 03-Jul-17 18:29:55

Have I missed a post, can someone link to the previous thread please?

Mouse510 Mon 03-Jul-17 18:30:00

Did she purposely ask in a vague manner so that she could then railroad you into being her free childcare?
Now you've caught her out and her plan is failing! Well done standing up to her.

Msqueen33 Mon 03-Jul-17 18:30:29

She's unreal!

ClopySow Mon 03-Jul-17 18:30:31

She's going to turn up and shout isn't she?

Pollydonia Mon 03-Jul-17 18:30:41

Fucking hell, she is deranged.

rollonthesummer Mon 03-Jul-17 18:30:42

Is she still saying she's coming round?!

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