I posted previously regarding achieving a promotion and I am super happy about this and I love the promotion. However, I have had a meeting today about a complaint from one of our senior managers. Before coming back from maternity leave I liked to be very glamourous, high heels, make up, etc. However, since coming back from maternity I prefer a nice flat shoe or a small heel and minimal or no make up. If I am at home doing video conferences I will rarely wear make up, when travelling I will wear a bit (lots of photos taken).
Last week I was taking part in a training conference for managers across the world. It was a 5 day conference and on 4 of the days I wore no make up, on the second day I was presenting at the conference and decided to wear some make up. I have just had a meeting with a senior manager who has told me it was very unprofessional of me to not wear make up and that my face is part of selling the company and it needed to look professional. I feel absolutely awful and cried all through my lunch.
Someone please reassure me that I am not in the wrong and the senior manager at my work is. I haven't seen him since I was 4 months pregnant so I know my look has changed a lot.
Thank you
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ZebraGiraffe12 · 25/03/2024 13:47
fluffycloudalert · 25/03/2024 14:06
Send him an email: "Dear sexist prick senior manager, further to your conversation with me earlier today, please would you put your expectations regarding my appearance in writing to me. Many thanks".
skilpadde · 25/03/2024 13:55
Gov.uk advice states:
It is advisable to avoid gender specific prescriptive requirements. For example, any requirement to wear make-up, have manicured nails, wear hair in certain styles or to wear specific types of hosiery or skirts is likely to be unlawful, assuming there is no equivalent requirement for men.
assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/5b03ec7840f0b65520fd4297/dress-code-guidance-may2018-2.pdf
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