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Floisme · 15/04/2023 13:48

Thanks. noblegiraffe. I also asked,
'Are you saying you think that should be good enough for, let's say a Labour supporter like me?'
Because I've been a Labour supporter my entire life but I don't think it's good enough to kick my rights to single sex spaces into the long grass.

Datun · 15/04/2023 13:49

noblegiraffe · 15/04/2023 13:42

My point there was that some people assert that a Labour government would be unthinkable (where a Tory government would not) because Labour would introduce self-id.

This was a reasonable concern during the 2019 election when reforming the gender recognition act was in the Labour manifesto.

However, I don't think it presents as strong a concern now. Certainly Starmer has been making noises about it not being a priority. If this leaked document is true, then 'working towards a consensus' is, as I said, kicking it into the long grass. It's basically what the Tories did when they realised it wasn't going to be an easy progressive win.

I don't think, particularly given what has been happening in Scotland around the legal challenges with the incompatibility with the Equality Act, that self-id is something that they are going to want to get bogged down with as a new Labour government with a lot of other challenges on their plate.

So I think they're gearing up for it not being in the manifesto.

If it's not in the manifesto, if Labour went mad and decided to go for it anyway, I think it could well get bogged down elsewhere.

As a general response to 'you can't vote Labour, they'll introduce self-id' that came up earlier in the thread.

Really?

Why don't they just bloody well say so, then!

The latest thing they have said is that some women have penises!

noblegiraffe · 15/04/2023 13:50

Datun · 15/04/2023 13:24

Personally the Hilary Cass recommendation that no child be socially transitioned without medical support sounds like a good one to me.

Therefore it doesn't matter if a parent wants it to happen, it doesn't happen without medical guidance. The child has no leverage. And the school doesn't, either. Peer group pressure would be ineffectual.

It puts it firmly back in place as a medical issue, rather than a social one.

Which is all very well moving forward (although we are not moving forward as the government has not yet decided that this is the guidance), but it doesn't address the issue of those children without that medical support who may or may not have genuine dysphoria and who probably have zero chance of accessing any medical diagnosis within any reasonable timescale.

They are now to have the rug abruptly pulled from under them?

EndIessTea · 15/04/2023 13:51

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noblegiraffe · 15/04/2023 13:52

Floisme · 15/04/2023 13:48

Thanks. noblegiraffe. I also asked,
'Are you saying you think that should be good enough for, let's say a Labour supporter like me?'
Because I've been a Labour supporter my entire life but I don't think it's good enough to kick my rights to single sex spaces into the long grass.

Did you vote for them in 2019 when self-id was in the manifesto?

EndIessTea · 15/04/2023 13:53

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NotHavingIt · 15/04/2023 13:53

noblegiraffe · 15/04/2023 13:52

Did you vote for them in 2019 when self-id was in the manifesto?

I've been spoiling my ballot since 2016, personally. On the baisis of Labour stance on Self Id and on saying that FPFW and WPUK were 'hate groups'.

EmotionalSupportHyena · 15/04/2023 13:54

noblegiraffe · 15/04/2023 13:50

Which is all very well moving forward (although we are not moving forward as the government has not yet decided that this is the guidance), but it doesn't address the issue of those children without that medical support who may or may not have genuine dysphoria and who probably have zero chance of accessing any medical diagnosis within any reasonable timescale.

They are now to have the rug abruptly pulled from under them?

There IS NO RUG under them!

Schools who transitioned children without a gender dysphoria diagnosis have not provided a comfortable rug! They’ve done more damage than good 🤦‍♀️

noblegiraffe · 15/04/2023 13:54

But, I am also taking the piss out of the idiots who believe in it.

Given that you are referring to children who have adopted a transgender identity in that fashion, perhaps you should be more considerate about who it may seem that you are taking the piss out of.

Datun · 15/04/2023 13:57

noblegiraffe · 15/04/2023 13:46

The concept of transubstantiation is frequently used with regards to gender ideology. Perhaps you didn't know that?

Your assertion, Datun that Endlesstea meant "magical transubstantiating children' in a totally neutral inoffensive way, despite the otherwise offensive context of their posts is rather undermined by the other deliberately offensive content, and the subsequent post suggesting that they don't care if it's offensive.

Eh?? I didn't say she meant it in a 'totally neutral inoffensive way'! Are you confusing me with someone else? I said I have no way of knowing how she meant it.

I told you that the concept is used a lot. It doesn't mean it's not offensive to some people.

Personally, I don't care if it's offensive. It exactly describes what's happening.

I suspect that being crystal clear about what is happening is what some people find offensive.

But can I ask again, do you subscribe to gender ideology, in that case? Do you think that children have an innate sense of whether or not they are male or female irrespective of their biology?

Floisme · 15/04/2023 13:57

noblegiraffe · 15/04/2023 13:52

Did you vote for them in 2019 when self-id was in the manifesto?

I did and I regret that now. I have no intention of doing it again or of giving them the slightest benefit of the doubt. I want them to nail this down and so far they haven't.

EndIessTea · 15/04/2023 13:57

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NotHavingIt · 15/04/2023 13:57

noblegiraffe · 15/04/2023 13:50

Which is all very well moving forward (although we are not moving forward as the government has not yet decided that this is the guidance), but it doesn't address the issue of those children without that medical support who may or may not have genuine dysphoria and who probably have zero chance of accessing any medical diagnosis within any reasonable timescale.

They are now to have the rug abruptly pulled from under them?

Dysphoria, by definition, is a mental health issue. Nobody should be treating dysphoria as significator of being 'genuinely trans' and thus transitioning them. CAMHS certainly requires more funding.

Datun · 15/04/2023 13:58

noblegiraffe · 15/04/2023 13:50

Which is all very well moving forward (although we are not moving forward as the government has not yet decided that this is the guidance), but it doesn't address the issue of those children without that medical support who may or may not have genuine dysphoria and who probably have zero chance of accessing any medical diagnosis within any reasonable timescale.

They are now to have the rug abruptly pulled from under them?

I don't think anyone is recommending any abrupt rug pulling. Most people are talking about a process by which schools and teachers stop affirming a dangerous ideology.

NotHavingIt · 15/04/2023 14:00

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Theer definitely are some activist teachers, who are doing more than trying to 'be kind'. They are actively pushing trans ideology and teaching it as fact. My daughter has seen this in several schools in the course of the last year. all it takes is for one or two - who tend to be younger - to bring it up in lessons. My daughter saw one teacher actively bring it up in an English lesson.

Roadtrips · 15/04/2023 14:01

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I think that should be part of KJKs parliamentary candudate campaign take the piss out of woke teachers, she did a Dr Wobberly one.

Datun · 15/04/2023 14:01

noblegiraffe · 15/04/2023 13:54

But, I am also taking the piss out of the idiots who believe in it.

Given that you are referring to children who have adopted a transgender identity in that fashion, perhaps you should be more considerate about who it may seem that you are taking the piss out of.

Yeah, trying to guilt trip a woman who is fully aware of the dangers of this ideology to all children, by invoking offended mythical children that no one has met, seen, or had any knowledge of?

Not the most persuasive argument I've ever seen.

EndIessTea · 15/04/2023 14:02

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noblegiraffe · 15/04/2023 14:04

Datun · 15/04/2023 14:01

Yeah, trying to guilt trip a woman who is fully aware of the dangers of this ideology to all children, by invoking offended mythical children that no one has met, seen, or had any knowledge of?

Not the most persuasive argument I've ever seen.

You've never met or seen a child who has adopted a transgender identity?

That might explain why you are so readily dismissive of them tbh.

Datun · 15/04/2023 14:04

noblegiraffe

Are you struggling because you believe it, and you're beginning to see the catastrophic effects?

Or because you don't believe in it, and are desperately worried about the children who do?

BatshitCrazyWoman · 15/04/2023 14:04

3peassuit · 14/04/2023 09:11

I don’t think I could bring myself to ever vote Tory so it looks like I’ll just have to spoil my ballot paper. I live in an area where any idiot with a blue rosette will automatically get in and don’t feel too bad about my decision.

I do too, and it's always seemed that voting for any other party was just pointless. But I can't bring myself to vote Tory, nor can I stomach Labour's stance on this. I will also be spoiling my ballot paper.

noblegiraffe · 15/04/2023 14:05

Datun · 15/04/2023 13:58

I don't think anyone is recommending any abrupt rug pulling. Most people are talking about a process by which schools and teachers stop affirming a dangerous ideology.

So the suggestions of a whole school assembly dismissing gender identity and insisting a reversion to sex-based pronouns, reinforced by teachers in lessons and corrected in conversation isn't an abrupt rug-pulling?

EndIessTea · 15/04/2023 14:06

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Datun · 15/04/2023 14:06

noblegiraffe · 15/04/2023 14:04

You've never met or seen a child who has adopted a transgender identity?

That might explain why you are so readily dismissive of them tbh.

I've never met the fictitious children that have expressed offence about what endless has just said, no. 😁