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LadyCapybara · 25/10/2026 08:02

Helleofabore · 25/10/2026 07:51

200+ bed is not tiny though.

It is a reasonable sized regional hospital.

It really isn’t. 200 beds is small in comparison to most.

Really not sure why I’m being argued with here. I live in the area and know what the hospitals here are like. I’m not arguing for Dr Upton.

SirChenjins · 25/10/2026 08:05

LadyCapybara · 25/10/2026 08:02

It really isn’t. 200 beds is small in comparison to most.

Really not sure why I’m being argued with here. I live in the area and know what the hospitals here are like. I’m not arguing for Dr Upton.

Probably because you asserted that it was not possible to ask for a female Dr (it is) because the hospital is tiny (it isn't).

LadyCapybara · 25/10/2026 08:08

NotBadConsidering · 25/10/2026 07:57

Because the sex ratio of doctors in Australia is almost a 50:50 split, and a hospital that has a 24 hour ACEM-accredited ED is likely to be staffed with a roster of both emergency trainees and general trainees.

So on the basis of probabilities, the likelihood of there being not a single actual female doctor of any grade working that particular shift, is low.

Besides, it would have been mentioned if there were no women available.

…. but it’s still unlikely any request for a female doctor would be honoured. The ED want to assess/treat patients and move them on. I agree with @2021x - the DM is colouring in this story or left a great deal out.

LadyCapybara · 25/10/2026 08:08

SirChenjins · 25/10/2026 08:05

Probably because you asserted that it was not possible to ask for a female Dr (it is) because the hospital is tiny (it isn't).

Do you live there, @SirChenjins?

Helleofabore · 25/10/2026 08:09

LadyCapybara · 25/10/2026 08:02

It really isn’t. 200 beds is small in comparison to most.

Really not sure why I’m being argued with here. I live in the area and know what the hospitals here are like. I’m not arguing for Dr Upton.

And yet, that is a reasonable size for a regional hospital. I guess, maybe it depends on where you are. The regional hospital where I grew up still only has maybe 300 beds and the closest one with double that is a flight away.

If you consider 200+ tiny, goodo. But I think you perhaps have very high expectations for Australian regional hospitals with emergency departments.

And still the issue is, if that hospital cannot provide one female doctor when requested, then that is an issue for NSW Health to consider about their service delivery levels.

SirChenjins · 25/10/2026 08:11

LadyCapybara · 25/10/2026 08:08

Do you live there, @SirChenjins?

Do I need to live there to know that a 228 bed, level 5 regional hospital isn't "tiny"? Or that it's absolutely possible to request a female Dr? Given you live there, I would have thought you would know this.

2021x · 25/10/2026 08:12

Helleofabore · 25/10/2026 07:47

“It might be because Dr Upton is not Australian.”

This seems unlikely. As an Australian, I have been well used to expecting recently immigrated doctors. Even in the 70s in rural communities there has been doctors who have immigrated to Australia being employed in those communities. It is more likely that the woman correctly identified Upton’s sex category and wanted a female doctor.

As NotBad says, it is a regional hospital and the A&E department would have more than one doctor on shift. If there were no female doctors on shift at all, then that is also an issue that needs to be considered by NSW Health.

As a British person working in both Zone 5. Rural NT and NZ, as a clinician, I can confirm there have been several incidents of Australians and Kiwis whose behaviour changes when they hear my accent. One patient told me that they were going to call immigration and refused to be seen by me when I started speaking another screamed "Dirty Pom" at me when I was assisting a nurse.

In my post I was pointing out that we actually don't know why this happened and offering that as an explanation. The patient may have needed a translator.

nicepotoftea · 25/10/2026 08:13

LadyCapybara · 25/10/2026 08:08

…. but it’s still unlikely any request for a female doctor would be honoured. The ED want to assess/treat patients and move them on. I agree with @2021x - the DM is colouring in this story or left a great deal out.

Wouldn't the patient have the right to refuse treatment?

Again, there is a difference between the hospital saying "We will respect your request, but this means that you will have to wait for treatment" and "You have requested treatment from a female doctor, but we don't define what that means".

LadyCapybara · 25/10/2026 08:13

SirChenjins · 25/10/2026 08:11

Do I need to live there to know that a 228 bed, level 5 regional hospital isn't "tiny"? Or that it's absolutely possible to request a female Dr? Given you live there, I would have thought you would know this.

Wow. Okay.

NotBadConsidering · 25/10/2026 08:14

LadyCapybara · 25/10/2026 08:08

…. but it’s still unlikely any request for a female doctor would be honoured. The ED want to assess/treat patients and move them on. I agree with @2021x - the DM is colouring in this story or left a great deal out.

So which is it? There wouldn’t be a woman available or there would be a woman available but the request wouldn’t be honoured?

And is the hospital too busy to be able to honour such requests because they would want to assess/treat/move on, or is it so quiet and small that the roster isn’t likely to have a woman available?

Unless the problem was significantly urgent, most departments would do their best to accommodate such a request.

SirChenjins · 25/10/2026 08:16

LadyCapybara · 25/10/2026 08:13

Wow. Okay.

Okay indeed.

Remember - many of us here have family who work in healthcare in Australia, have colleagues who have worked in healthcare there, or who work on building projects in their health sector. Or, we read the news.

LadyCapybara · 25/10/2026 08:18

SirChenjins · 25/10/2026 08:16

Okay indeed.

Remember - many of us here have family who work in healthcare in Australia, have colleagues who have worked in healthcare there, or who work on building projects in their health sector. Or, we read the news.

And? So?

2021x · 25/10/2026 08:18

NotBadConsidering · 25/10/2026 08:14

So which is it? There wouldn’t be a woman available or there would be a woman available but the request wouldn’t be honoured?

And is the hospital too busy to be able to honour such requests because they would want to assess/treat/move on, or is it so quiet and small that the roster isn’t likely to have a woman available?

Unless the problem was significantly urgent, most departments would do their best to accommodate such a request.

I think the point is we don't know.

There are hardly any details and the Daily Mail is biased on these things.

You can request a female doctor, but that might not be accommodated, at which point you can decline a medical assessment or wait it out.

Port Macquarie is quite far from other medical centres, so the patient may have waited it out, or they may have a preferred clinician (it is small) and wanted to see them. It might have nothing to do with Dr. Upton being trans or it might. We simply don't know.

Helleofabore · 25/10/2026 08:18

2021x · 25/10/2026 08:12

As a British person working in both Zone 5. Rural NT and NZ, as a clinician, I can confirm there have been several incidents of Australians and Kiwis whose behaviour changes when they hear my accent. One patient told me that they were going to call immigration and refused to be seen by me when I started speaking another screamed "Dirty Pom" at me when I was assisting a nurse.

In my post I was pointing out that we actually don't know why this happened and offering that as an explanation. The patient may have needed a translator.

That is grim!! I am sorry that you experienced this.

However, I would hope it is rare.

Helleofabore · 25/10/2026 08:19

nicepotoftea · 25/10/2026 08:13

Wouldn't the patient have the right to refuse treatment?

Again, there is a difference between the hospital saying "We will respect your request, but this means that you will have to wait for treatment" and "You have requested treatment from a female doctor, but we don't define what that means".

“there is a difference between the hospital saying "We will respect your request, but this means that you will have to wait for treatment" and "You have requested treatment from a female doctor, but we don't define what that means".”

^^ this

2021x · 25/10/2026 08:22

Helleofabore · 25/10/2026 08:18

That is grim!! I am sorry that you experienced this.

However, I would hope it is rare.

Not as much as the non-white staff but yeah it was pretty awful.

I once had a patient who was creepy the whole time, answering all my questions with, "Where did you grow up?" "Why did you move here?" "Why are you stealing our jobs?" If I had known you were foreign, I wouldn't have booked to see you "Do you think you belong here". She just kept getting closer and closer and backed me into a corner. Was very creepy.

SirChenjins · 25/10/2026 08:22

It seems more likely from the news report that it was to do with Dr Upton being male - the woman saw he was male, and didn't want to be bullied into having treatment from him. Given his very publicly stated intentions regarding treating women who say no, I would say she was right to be concerned.

LadyCapybara · 25/10/2026 08:23

SirChenjins · 25/10/2026 08:16

Okay indeed.

Remember - many of us here have family who work in healthcare in Australia, have colleagues who have worked in healthcare there, or who work on building projects in their health sector. Or, we read the news.

That you think this trumps someone who actually lives in the region is remarkable.

Imdunfer · 25/10/2026 08:23

Helleofabore · 25/10/2026 07:51

200+ bed is not tiny though.

It is a reasonable sized regional hospital.

Isn't the internet wonderful 😊

SirChenjins · 25/10/2026 08:24

LadyCapybara · 25/10/2026 08:18

And? So?

And so my previous post stands.

LadyCapybara · 25/10/2026 08:25

SirChenjins · 25/10/2026 08:24

And so my previous post stands.

I’m glad it does.

SirChenjins · 25/10/2026 08:25

LadyCapybara · 25/10/2026 08:23

That you think this trumps someone who actually lives in the region is remarkable.

Given your previous 2 inaccurate assertions, yes, it appears it does.

Imdunfer · 25/10/2026 08:28

nicepotoftea · 25/10/2026 08:13

Wouldn't the patient have the right to refuse treatment?

Again, there is a difference between the hospital saying "We will respect your request, but this means that you will have to wait for treatment" and "You have requested treatment from a female doctor, but we don't define what that means".

This this this!

And the icing on the cake that Upton declared themselves a biological female and would put themselves forward to examine a woman who has requested only a biological female.

Personally, it would have to be life or death before I would consent to be treated by a doctor who didn't understand human biology and is sufficiently mentally disturbed to say and believe the things Upton says.

Newname26 · 25/10/2026 08:31

2021x · 25/10/2026 02:58

I had a bit of a revelation this morning about the difference between transsexual people and transgender people.

Transsexual people want to be their chosen sex, but know that they aren't and they also know that is a mental illness. That means they don't force acceptance. From what I can observe, it is generally traumatised, same-sex-attracted people and therefore it also makes sense for them to be part of the LGBT because they are same sex attracted. They also consistently push back on any type of transitioning for kids, either social or medical/surgical.

Transgender people think that they ARE their chosen sex and acceptance is either mandatory or harmful to THEM. This is displayed by the constant victim narrative. From what I can see, it is a mixture of SS-attracted and OS attracted people- and they are either adolescents or have a personality disorder as adults.

This is why it is too complicated to put them under the same umbrella. Both groups have a mental health disorder that is severe and persistent body dysmorphia, but TG also have a personality disorder, or an unstable sense of self. This is the reason why psychological assessment (not affirmation) needs to be at the heart of transitioning.

People like Dr Upton do not have the emotional capacity to see that they are men and deal with the dysphoria, and therefore choose aggression when they are reminded that no one else (not even their partner) sees them as such. They are dangerous to women BECAUSE they are Transgender and therefore have been given access to spaces and vulnerable women and have been proven by the Sandie Peggie case to not respect their boundaries.

Ok so do transexual people use the correct single sex spaces for their actual sex?

If Transgender think they are their chosen sex then they are deluded and mentally ill.

I actually suspect most aren't mentally ill at all but are mearly perverted individuals who are getting a sexual kick out of being in women's private spaces.
And as such are actually very very dangerous individuals, who will eventually want more than just a kick out of being in the woman's changing rooms or hospital wards.

Madamefroufrou · 25/10/2026 08:33

theilltemperedmonster · 24/10/2026 19:37

I don't read it that way. They may just mean that, despite Australia having lovely inclusive laws, there's always going to be some horrible bigot trying to spoil things.

I so wish Dr. Greer was inspired enough to comment on this statement/situation