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BackToLurk · Yesterday 07:21

TransParentlyAnnoyed · Yesterday 00:10

She wasn't treated by her.

Dr Upton hasn't done anything except live and work as a trans woman. She hasn't assaulted or harmed anyone, but was driven out of this country and is still being pursued.

Sandie Pegg is a racist despised by her own colleagues.

A lot of people won't be satisfied until Dr Upton's dead. My God the hate. Where's this focus when cis male doctors sexually assault women and children, leave them in permanent pain and cause them cPTSD?

Rampant medical misogyny is literally killing women and ruining their lives, but transphobia's more important to you. That tells me everything.

Still waiting for your foolproof system for identifying cis- and transpeople.

LadyCapybara · Yesterday 07:23

SirChenjins · Yesterday 07:14

Well done that woman and her husband for standing up to this. I can only hope that Lis has reflected on his comments in court and is showing more respect to women in Australia who don't want to be treated by male doctors. To insist on ignoring their wishes would be creepy behaviour at worst snd threatening behaviour at best. Decent men know this and stay away.

The woman was in Emergency. It’s not possible to request the sex of a treating doctor in Emergency.

Needapadlockonmyfridge · Yesterday 07:26

TheKeatingFive · 24/10/2026 19:41

@TransParentlyAnnoyed doesn’t think that women’s consent when it comes to delivering intimate medical care needs to be respected.

Isn’t that revolting?

He really doesn't like women, so I am not remotely surprised.

SirChenjins · Yesterday 07:28

LadyCapybara · Yesterday 07:23

The woman was in Emergency. It’s not possible to request the sex of a treating doctor in Emergency.

It's perfectly possible to request it. It may not be possible to provide it at that point, but you can certainly request it.

Lis will not be able to pretend he's female, which is a positive.

Emilesgran · Yesterday 07:29

LadyCapybara · Yesterday 07:23

The woman was in Emergency. It’s not possible to request the sex of a treating doctor in Emergency.

Even if she’s Muslim and says her objections are religious?
You sure about that?

And if the context meant that the religious lady’s request was refused, what are the chances that she’d be considered to be in the wrong for having made it in the first place?

Isnt it far more likely that the hospital would be excusing itself for not having been able to cater to her needs more fully?

nicepotoftea · Yesterday 07:37

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 24/10/2026 18:30

And once again, she's done absolutely nothing.

All the actual issues affecting women, and 'trans woman has job' remains your priority.

I agree that it’s the hospital that needs to have clear policies.

If their policy is that patients cannot express a preference for same sex healthcare they should make that clear.

However, this seems to be a countrywide legislative problem.

Needapadlockonmyfridge · Yesterday 07:37

Galexia · 24/10/2026 22:11

Nurse Peggie is a nasty piece of work.

Dr Upton is by all accounts a good doctor and a nice person, but needs to stop conflating biological truth with gender identity imo.

The patient in Australia has the right to be treated by a biological female.

Niceness aside,
Any doctor who doesn't understand basic human biology can never be a good doctor.

NotBadConsidering · Yesterday 07:37

The likelihood of there being no actual women doctors in the department is also practically zero. It’s incredibly unlikely it was all men on shift at the time of the patient needing treatment.

2021x · Yesterday 07:38

Emilesgran · Yesterday 07:29

Even if she’s Muslim and says her objections are religious?
You sure about that?

And if the context meant that the religious lady’s request was refused, what are the chances that she’d be considered to be in the wrong for having made it in the first place?

Isnt it far more likely that the hospital would be excusing itself for not having been able to cater to her needs more fully?

Edited

All we know is that the woman requested another doctor. That is fine and reasonable in a medical setting. Her husband stayed with her for support, which is perfectly normal.

We don't know the specifics. The Daily Mail has done a lot of colouring in here, and I assume some of it is outside the lines.

To me, it looks most likely there has been some miscommunication, and a second opinion is needed. It might be because Dr Upton is not Australian. I have worked as a medical provider in Australia, and some older people just like to be treated by people from their own community. You can tell this because their demeanour changes when you start speaking.

nicepotoftea · Yesterday 07:39

LadyCapybara · Yesterday 07:23

The woman was in Emergency. It’s not possible to request the sex of a treating doctor in Emergency.

I don’t know the situation in Australia, but in the U.K. patients can to refuse treatment if they have capacity to do so and consent must be informed.

overnightangel · Yesterday 07:43

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 24/10/2026 18:30

And once again, she's done absolutely nothing.

All the actual issues affecting women, and 'trans woman has job' remains your priority.

“All the actual issues affecting actual women remain the priority”

Fixed that for you

Emilesgran · Yesterday 07:43

2021x · Yesterday 07:38

All we know is that the woman requested another doctor. That is fine and reasonable in a medical setting. Her husband stayed with her for support, which is perfectly normal.

We don't know the specifics. The Daily Mail has done a lot of colouring in here, and I assume some of it is outside the lines.

To me, it looks most likely there has been some miscommunication, and a second opinion is needed. It might be because Dr Upton is not Australian. I have worked as a medical provider in Australia, and some older people just like to be treated by people from their own community. You can tell this because their demeanour changes when you start speaking.

That’s interesting. What do you mean by “their own community”? Would anyone with an Australian accent do, or do you mean something more specific? Say, Greek Australians would want a Greek Aussie doctor (and if so, wouldn’t a native Greek doctor be as good or better?)

SirChenjins · Yesterday 07:43

2021x · Yesterday 07:38

All we know is that the woman requested another doctor. That is fine and reasonable in a medical setting. Her husband stayed with her for support, which is perfectly normal.

We don't know the specifics. The Daily Mail has done a lot of colouring in here, and I assume some of it is outside the lines.

To me, it looks most likely there has been some miscommunication, and a second opinion is needed. It might be because Dr Upton is not Australian. I have worked as a medical provider in Australia, and some older people just like to be treated by people from their own community. You can tell this because their demeanour changes when you start speaking.

Women’s Forum Australia CEO Rachael Wong said: ‘A woman in hospital should not have to defend her boundaries from the very people entrusted with her care.
‘The New South Wales health minister must urgently investigate why a vulnerable woman seeking emergency care felt she needed her husband’s protection to ensure her wish to be treated by a female doctor was respected'.

It seems there is slightly more to this than colouring in from the DM.

LadyCapybara · Yesterday 07:43

Emilesgran · Yesterday 07:29

Even if she’s Muslim and says her objections are religious?
You sure about that?

And if the context meant that the religious lady’s request was refused, what are the chances that she’d be considered to be in the wrong for having made it in the first place?

Isnt it far more likely that the hospital would be excusing itself for not having been able to cater to her needs more fully?

Edited

As I said earlier, it’s entirely possible to ask for a female doctor, but one may not be available. It’s also possible to ask for a chaperone.

In an ED environment, especially a small one, getting seen and moved onto a ward (if required) is the priority. In the ED, any doctor contact is fleeting really.

SirChenjins · Yesterday 07:44

LadyCapybara · Yesterday 07:43

As I said earlier, it’s entirely possible to ask for a female doctor, but one may not be available. It’s also possible to ask for a chaperone.

In an ED environment, especially a small one, getting seen and moved onto a ward (if required) is the priority. In the ED, any doctor contact is fleeting really.

You said "It’s not possible to request the sex of a treating doctor in Emergency"

LadyCapybara · Yesterday 07:45

NotBadConsidering · Yesterday 07:37

The likelihood of there being no actual women doctors in the department is also practically zero. It’s incredibly unlikely it was all men on shift at the time of the patient needing treatment.

And you know this how? I live nearby. The hospital is tiny and so is the ED. My grandmother died there.

Helleofabore · Yesterday 07:47

2021x · Yesterday 07:38

All we know is that the woman requested another doctor. That is fine and reasonable in a medical setting. Her husband stayed with her for support, which is perfectly normal.

We don't know the specifics. The Daily Mail has done a lot of colouring in here, and I assume some of it is outside the lines.

To me, it looks most likely there has been some miscommunication, and a second opinion is needed. It might be because Dr Upton is not Australian. I have worked as a medical provider in Australia, and some older people just like to be treated by people from their own community. You can tell this because their demeanour changes when you start speaking.

“It might be because Dr Upton is not Australian.”

This seems unlikely. As an Australian, I have been well used to expecting recently immigrated doctors. Even in the 70s in rural communities there has been doctors who have immigrated to Australia being employed in those communities. It is more likely that the woman correctly identified Upton’s sex category and wanted a female doctor.

As NotBad says, it is a regional hospital and the A&E department would have more than one doctor on shift. If there were no female doctors on shift at all, then that is also an issue that needs to be considered by NSW Health.

LadyCapybara · Yesterday 07:47

SirChenjins · Yesterday 07:44

You said "It’s not possible to request the sex of a treating doctor in Emergency"

You can ask all you like, but it’s very, very unlikely your wishes will granted in a small, busy ED. In a ward, perhaps yes. In the ED, no.

SirChenjins · Yesterday 07:49

LadyCapybara · Yesterday 07:47

You can ask all you like, but it’s very, very unlikely your wishes will granted in a small, busy ED. In a ward, perhaps yes. In the ED, no.

That's not what you said. You were very clear in your post that it was not possible to make that request.

Helleofabore · Yesterday 07:51

LadyCapybara · Yesterday 07:45

And you know this how? I live nearby. The hospital is tiny and so is the ED. My grandmother died there.

200+ bed is not tiny though.

It is a reasonable sized regional hospital.

nicepotoftea · Yesterday 07:54

LadyCapybara · Yesterday 07:43

As I said earlier, it’s entirely possible to ask for a female doctor, but one may not be available. It’s also possible to ask for a chaperone.

In an ED environment, especially a small one, getting seen and moved onto a ward (if required) is the priority. In the ED, any doctor contact is fleeting really.

I think the imagined situation is that the patient asks for a female doctor and is told that Dr Upton is the female doctor.

Whether or not this would happen in practice, Upton's expressed opinions in court and Australian law suggest it might.

This is why it is important to have clear laws and policies so that everyone knows where they stand.

SirChenjins · Yesterday 07:55

Helleofabore · Yesterday 07:51

200+ bed is not tiny though.

It is a reasonable sized regional hospital.

Yep - not exactly some tiny outback hospital! mnclhd.health.nsw.gov.au/hospital/port-macquarie-base-hospital/

Terfedout · Yesterday 07:56

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 24/10/2026 18:30

And once again, she's done absolutely nothing.

All the actual issues affecting women, and 'trans woman has job' remains your priority.

I've got no time for Dr Upton and the treatment of Sandie Peggie was appalling.

However you are totally right here. It's a non story. Literally nothing happened beyond a lady going to a hospital and a Dr doing their job in said hospital.

NotBadConsidering · Yesterday 07:57

LadyCapybara · Yesterday 07:45

And you know this how? I live nearby. The hospital is tiny and so is the ED. My grandmother died there.

Because the sex ratio of doctors in Australia is almost a 50:50 split, and a hospital that has a 24 hour ACEM-accredited ED is likely to be staffed with a roster of both emergency trainees and general trainees.

So on the basis of probabilities, the likelihood of there being not a single actual female doctor of any grade working that particular shift, is low.

Besides, it would have been mentioned if there were no women available.

Helleofabore · Yesterday 08:02

SirChenjins · Yesterday 07:55

Yep - not exactly some tiny outback hospital! mnclhd.health.nsw.gov.au/hospital/port-macquarie-base-hospital/

It is a level five regional hospital. It would be a very serious issue for NSW Health if not one female doctor was available at the time.

There will be patients coming in by ambulance from quite a distance to there I would imagine. It is between Coffs and Newcastle so it would be busy enough as a ED.