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School brings in trousers only rule for all pupils - schoolgirls said to be in tears ...

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IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 17:35

Schoolgirls have been left "in tears" after a controversial new uniform rule was enforced at the start of the school year, with furious parents claiming some pupils were stopped from attending lessons.

The row has erupted after Co-op Academies Trust introduced a trousers-only policy across its secondary schools from September.
Some families have refused to accept the change, with pupils at Co-op Academy Failsworth in Oldham arriving for their first day back on Wednesday wearing skirts.

Parents claim that a number of Year 11 girls were not allowed into class, with other pupils affected when they returned on Thursday.

The policy also applies at Co-op Academy Walkden, Co-op Academy Swinton, Co-op Academy North Manchester, Co-op Academy Manchester and Co-op Academy Belle Vue.

Full article https://www.aol.co.uk/articles/schoolgirls-tears-being-turned-away-100800000.html

Schoolgirls 'in tears' after being 'turned away from lessons' over 'ridiculous' skirt rule - AOL

A number of girls at Co-op Academy Failsworth in Oldham have been told they will not be allowed in lessons until they swap their skirts for trousers

https://www.aol.co.uk/articles/schoolgirls-tears-being-turned-away-100800000.html

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NoisyBrickDog · 07/09/2026 18:17

Dmsandfloatydress · 07/09/2026 17:48

Newsflash! Male and female bodies are different! Trousers are absolutely fine in the winter but to wear cotton flannel trousers in the summer, for girls, is a health risk which doesnt impact boys the same way, or they would have ensured that they wore shorts for the last 100 years!

How are police and paramedics able to wear work trousers in the summer for 12 hour shifts without getting heat stress...?

ginasevern · 07/09/2026 18:23

@IwantToRetire "Amazing how on a supposedly feminist forum so many are saying it is because women are the problem that this has had to happen."

Well I guess if girls are going into school showing their arses and knickers, then it is a problem. Boys are going to look aren't they! That's not ingrained misogyny, it's called sexual attraction - which is as old as time. Do you really envisage some kind of futuristic world where men aren't remotely interested in female bodies? If boys were rolling down their trousers to show their underpants or leaving their flies undone, then it would be equally wrong for school and a solution would need to be found.

NoisyBrickDog · 07/09/2026 18:23

IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 18:05

Amazing how on a supposedly feminist forum so many are saying it is because women are the problem that this has had to happen.

Just shows that girls shouldn't have to go to school with boys, as it limits their rights!

Are they being forced by the boys to roll their skirts up?

IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 18:23

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 18:13

Its nothing to do with boys and their behaviour. Its about ensuring that children, because thats what school girls are, are appropriate dressed and not showing off their bum and underwear.
The woman you make reference to is an adult. I dont think that outfit is appropriate either but she isnt a child, its her responsibility how she presents and what she wears.

Im not a believer that anyone can present how they want and wear what they want, you have to be dressed appropriately in public. Boys with half their arse crack hanging out, with their pants on show - not appropriate, Girls with haif their arse hanging out of their skirt with their pants on show - not appropriate. Its about basic standards of presentation.

Well if I had a daughter I would have for her to be undermined by an enforced notion that what women / girls do is the problem.

Let alone to know which seems to be the case from PP that there are handmaidens to the patriarchy in schools enforcing the notion that because boys dont know how to behave girls have to moderate how they behave and dress.

But I suppose it will prepare them for the future adult female world.

You mean you were out on you own. You mean you drank alcohol. You trusted a taxi firm.

That's pretty sick and depressing to read on a feminist forum.

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IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 18:29

NoisyBrickDog · 07/09/2026 18:23

Are they being forced by the boys to roll their skirts up?

It doesn't matter why or how they roll up their skirts.

If it was an all girls school, unless one really old fashioned notions of modesty, it wouldn't be a problem.

It is because society which only validates boys behaviour is that if they do roll up their skirts "they are asking for it".

And these naughty provocative girls should learn early on that even when it isn't their fault, they will be told it is.

Which is what you are doing.

What sort of "feminist" message is that.

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Datun · 07/09/2026 18:30

Crikey, there's such a lot of fuss about school uniform. It shouldn't be this difficult.

Teenage children are massively concerned with the way they look, so personally, I'd give them as many options as (appropriately) possible.

IF the issue is short skirts and rolling them up, then A) have a rule, which is enforced, and B) maybe some lessons about why girls might do that. It could be viewed as an opportunity, rather than a condemnation.

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 18:31

IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 18:23

Well if I had a daughter I would have for her to be undermined by an enforced notion that what women / girls do is the problem.

Let alone to know which seems to be the case from PP that there are handmaidens to the patriarchy in schools enforcing the notion that because boys dont know how to behave girls have to moderate how they behave and dress.

But I suppose it will prepare them for the future adult female world.

You mean you were out on you own. You mean you drank alcohol. You trusted a taxi firm.

That's pretty sick and depressing to read on a feminist forum.

What a woman does is a problem, if it s a problem. Simple as

I dont know why you're bringing in alcohol and taxis, presumably referring to rape

This is simply about ensuring that children are not showing off their bums and knickers. That is not a difficult concept, it is not appropriate in terms of social presentation to do that. A school has a right to dictate what goes on, on its property.

If kids and their parents think its ok, want to dress like that at the weekend, crack on. I wouldnt let my daughter out looking like that because its about basic standards of presentation.

Similarly my son does not range about the local neighbourhood presenting as a little road man like some of the other scallies. That is not appropriate presentation either, those clothes and that look has to change, its not allowed.

You cant just say you can do whatever you like and run against social norms because you're a woman.

soddingspiderseason · 07/09/2026 18:32

Good. I live near a couple of these schools. The rolling up of skirts at the top is ridiculous. Lots of teenage girls do it and it looks terrible. For all of them to wear trousers makes absolute sense. Many will no doubt be wearing jeans outside of school so I’m nit sure where this 1950s idea of women not being physically capable of learning whilst betrousered comes from.

PassTheCranberrySauce · 07/09/2026 18:34

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 07/09/2026 17:42

Why on earth do girls have to look like boys? They are not boys and if they like skirts, what’s wrong with skirts? Heads should be concerned with improving education, not dictating all girls wear trousers!

Because, unfortunately, many girls wear skirts that are way too short, and are frankly a safeguarding issue. A lot of male (and to a lesser extent female) staff are genuinely scared that they will face accusations that they are looking. Enforcing rules around skirt length is a minefield for all staff.

Trousers are safer and generally easier to enforce as a uniform item.

SimplyMaidSimplyTasty · 07/09/2026 18:37

OhNoooooooooooooooo · 07/09/2026 17:41

Maybe, because they're probably sick of girls rolling up their skirts so you can see their arses, being accused of looking, not daring to mention anything, flashes of knickers etc

Trousers make everything easier

And also it means the boys that pretend to be girls will also be wearing trousers, and can't be "validated" with gender stereotypes, so that's a win.

I agree 100% with this! So much easier all round if everyone wears trousers.

However, I think school uniform trousers that are sold in the likes of Tesco, Sainsbury's, Asda, M&S and so on are pretty horrible. They're cheap, scratchy rubbishy fabrics and I certainly wouldn't want to wear them. But I very much dislike skirts and much prefer trousers!

The pupils should be permitted to wear their own choice of trousers in the school's preferred colour (most likely black, grey or navy), which should be pretty easy to obtain.

Octavia64 · 07/09/2026 18:37

The uniform policy states smart black trousers.

these are relatively easily available as lots of adult workplaces either require black trousers or men and women choose to wear them so I would imagine this actually makes uniform cheaper then eg branded trousers or a skirt.

the policy seems to say that the change is because of the new limit in the number of branded uniform items,

black trousers are cheap and readily available in a lot of shops in a lot of sizes.

seems a reasonable decision

LlynTegid · 07/09/2026 18:40

Deal with the girls and young women who are rolling up skirts if they wear them and then spend half or more of the day sitting awkwardly or adjusting their clothing.

Deal with the boys and young men who wear their trousers too low so you can see their probably dirty underwear and who fail to realise what this originally signified in men's prisons.

The only thing I can think is wrong here is if parents did not raise objections last term via the formal complaints procedure when the policy was announced.

Skirts of reasonable length should be an option.

soddingspiderseason · 07/09/2026 18:43

CurlewKate · 07/09/2026 17:52

Trousers are default men’s clothes. Once again, “unisex” means something male that women are allowed to have. Funny how it never works the other way!

Really?! I rarely wear a skirt or dress these days; smart trousers for the office and jeans the rest of the time. I’m still a woman I think. Clothes are just clothes. Putting on a dress does not make a man a woman or vice versa. Unless I’ve accidentally transitioned?

jumpingjohnny · 07/09/2026 19:08

Its almost comical how parents are adamant their 5/6/7 year old dd MUST wear shorts under their uniform for modesty, but then a few years later fight for their dd's right to walk around school with their bum cheeks on show!

Needingarest · 07/09/2026 19:10

I’m not sure what on earth the school board were thinking imposing this new rule, forcing girls to wear what the boys traditionally wear was always bound to annoy people and reinforce the belief that women’s identity is trying to be erased

Ohshitiveturnedintomymother · 07/09/2026 19:12

It’s funny that feminists spent so long campaigning to be allowed to wear trousers and now the so called feminists are aghast at girls wearing them all over again.

it wasn’t that long ago that no girls school
would allow trousers and women in the work place had to wear skirts and heels. Is this really better than trousers?

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 19:14

Needingarest · 07/09/2026 19:10

I’m not sure what on earth the school board were thinking imposing this new rule, forcing girls to wear what the boys traditionally wear was always bound to annoy people and reinforce the belief that women’s identity is trying to be erased

What utter rubbish. Trousers do not make someone one sex or another

Otherwise lipstick and heels would make someone a woman. Is that the case?

No of course it isnt.

Women are not being erased at all.

Wishesandhorses · 07/09/2026 19:17

Fgs tears over trousers? They'll all own jeans.

The skirts common in the secondary school girls locally are so short they barely cover the bum, it's not appropriate. I've got every sympathy with this. School should be the experience of needing to follow the dress codes that will be entirely normal in most workplaces.

AlphabetBird · 07/09/2026 19:18

Amazed to find out I’ve been inadvertently dressing as a man.

School uniform rule changes always trigger a flood of regional newspaper sad face pictures because little Johnny/Jacinta can’t wear their favourite trainers or whatever.

I can’t get excited at all about a school requiring smart black trousers. Many uniforms have trousers for both sexes, and no one on earth will believe that any of the girls in that school can’t find a plain black trouser.

Honestly, I’m most ways I’m anti- uniform, especially where the rules are draconian or excessive. I really don’t think a plain black trouser counts.

BabblingBiddy · 07/09/2026 19:19

Ohshitiveturnedintomymother · 07/09/2026 19:12

It’s funny that feminists spent so long campaigning to be allowed to wear trousers and now the so called feminists are aghast at girls wearing them all over again.

it wasn’t that long ago that no girls school
would allow trousers and women in the work place had to wear skirts and heels. Is this really better than trousers?

Surely we campaigned for choice? Forcing girls/women to wear skirts and heels is no different to forcing them to wear trousers.

I hardly ever wear trousers FWIW. I can never find any that fit well and are comfortable. I've also never rolled my skirt up to make it shorter.

Maaate · 07/09/2026 19:26

The uniform policy states smart black trousers

But I bet certain types of trousers aren't acceptable - e.g. stretchy, skinny fit or slightly cropped length which a lot of girls find fit better 🤷‍♀️

Weekmindedfool · 07/09/2026 19:28

Give me a break. Our school recently have the option for all girls to wear trousers and now I would say 80% of them prefer to do so.

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 19:29

BabblingBiddy · 07/09/2026 19:19

Surely we campaigned for choice? Forcing girls/women to wear skirts and heels is no different to forcing them to wear trousers.

I hardly ever wear trousers FWIW. I can never find any that fit well and are comfortable. I've also never rolled my skirt up to make it shorter.

Uniforms are not a choice, thats the definition of a uniform. There are plenty of professionals wearing trousers as part of their working uniform.

RockyFraggles · 07/09/2026 19:35

I wonder how many of the girls who are in tears at having to wear trousers as uniform actually wear skirts out of school. I bet very rarely.

In fact, I would bet my house on pretty much every school girl choosing to wear trousers or shorts outside of school the vast majority of the time.

It's really not a big deal if skirts aren't allowed at school.

BabblingBiddy · 07/09/2026 19:36

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 19:29

Uniforms are not a choice, thats the definition of a uniform. There are plenty of professionals wearing trousers as part of their working uniform.

That wasn't my point though. A uniform can have choices within it and still be uniform.