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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

What TRAs or 'gender' advocates and 'gender critical' feminists agree on.

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WrongKindOfFeminist · 18/07/2026 11:21

Thought it might be useful to find points of commonality.

Ever the optimist! 😊

  1. Gender stereotypes can be restrictive and limiting.
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BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 23/07/2026 15:45

WrongKindOfFeminist · 23/07/2026 15:37

You can now do a little Hepi dance! 😂

I refuse to dignify that with a response.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 23/07/2026 15:50

Helleofabore · 23/07/2026 15:39

What is clear though is several things.

The majority of female people don’t agree that male people should have access into female single sex provisions.

That there has been a consistent trend between two polls now that show the majority 18-24 year old also don’t agree male people should have access to female single sex provisions.

And that there is a swing towards disagreeing that male people should have access to female single sex provisions as the age group gets younger. ie. Less under 20 year olds believe male people should have access to female single sex provisions than the slightly older age group.

We have seen this direction of trend for a couple of years. I suspect it is because this age group have had experiences that have been negative in this regard and they certainly would be the age group that saw the removal of single sex toilets in some schools. Remember the protests across the country that rolled through the secondary schools and colleges a few years ago about the change that the student were rejecting.

It does throw a different light onto the claims that ‘we are all going to die out and the younger generation are so much more accepting’ into the pile of wrongly assumed shit that ill-informed extreme trans activists say.

The language in the questions has changed as well, hasn't it? Making it much clearer that a "transwoman" is biologically male.

It was language obfuscation and No Debate that let this madness get as far as it did. And all the "I'll inform on her before they come for me." Very Cultural Revolution.

AimsAndObjectives · 23/07/2026 16:09

When the JL Partners/Sex Matters poll came out I remember being surprised at how many people didn't even think a gender neutral option should be offered and that everyone should just use the facilities allocated for their sex.

It seems that those of us who are happy to advocate for a gender neutral space in addition to single-sex are more supportive of trans-identifying people than one-third of the general public. The TRAs should be thanking us really!

WrongKindOfFeminist · 23/07/2026 16:30

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 23/07/2026 15:45

I refuse to dignify that with a response.

😢

Cute Cat Smile GIF by Bashar
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WrongKindOfFeminist · 23/07/2026 16:31

AimsAndObjectives · 23/07/2026 16:09

When the JL Partners/Sex Matters poll came out I remember being surprised at how many people didn't even think a gender neutral option should be offered and that everyone should just use the facilities allocated for their sex.

It seems that those of us who are happy to advocate for a gender neutral space in addition to single-sex are more supportive of trans-identifying people than one-third of the general public. The TRAs should be thanking us really!

That's always been the case.

For years, TRAs have been viciously attacking the gender non conforming women and feminists who were previously their supporters and allies.

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Helleofabore · 23/07/2026 16:36

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 23/07/2026 15:50

The language in the questions has changed as well, hasn't it? Making it much clearer that a "transwoman" is biologically male.

It was language obfuscation and No Debate that let this madness get as far as it did. And all the "I'll inform on her before they come for me." Very Cultural Revolution.

I am quite confused what the poster believes will be the basis of a more accurate result if the question asked about ‘cis gender’ women? In my mind, that is just not believable. If anything, that really does signal to female people that they are answering a survey for an ideologically driven collection agency.

Plus the fact that is is confusing to both those who don’t understand the terminology and those who do understand with a depth of knowledge that it means some male people with DSDs are considered cis women by some activists so this makes the use of it in questionnaires inappropriate for clear results.

Any manager seeing a project using a question about ‘cis’ going out to the general population (including university) should be demanding clear and accurate common use language. It would be an absurd argument to defend use of the term cis as being commonly understood by the general public.

Helleofabore · 23/07/2026 16:36

AimsAndObjectives · 23/07/2026 16:09

When the JL Partners/Sex Matters poll came out I remember being surprised at how many people didn't even think a gender neutral option should be offered and that everyone should just use the facilities allocated for their sex.

It seems that those of us who are happy to advocate for a gender neutral space in addition to single-sex are more supportive of trans-identifying people than one-third of the general public. The TRAs should be thanking us really!

This is what I notice everytime I look at the data.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 23/07/2026 17:02

WrongKindOfFeminist · 23/07/2026 16:30

😢

Ah, the Manipulative Kitty gif! ❤

(actually, I've always found that one to be a bit creepy- all the cats I've had would normally fix you with a haughty, threatening glare, rather than burst into tears, but then I've never had a cat who could use a smartphone. No buttons to walk on) 😆

ed grammar much?

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 23/07/2026 17:04

Helleofabore · 23/07/2026 16:36

I am quite confused what the poster believes will be the basis of a more accurate result if the question asked about ‘cis gender’ women? In my mind, that is just not believable. If anything, that really does signal to female people that they are answering a survey for an ideologically driven collection agency.

Plus the fact that is is confusing to both those who don’t understand the terminology and those who do understand with a depth of knowledge that it means some male people with DSDs are considered cis women by some activists so this makes the use of it in questionnaires inappropriate for clear results.

Any manager seeing a project using a question about ‘cis’ going out to the general population (including university) should be demanding clear and accurate common use language. It would be an absurd argument to defend use of the term cis as being commonly understood by the general public.

I suppose it depends on what kind of circles you frequent. I imagine that for some people, "cis" is used regularly, so they wouldn't notice it as "leading language.". Maybe.

EmpressaurusKitty · 23/07/2026 18:02

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 23/07/2026 17:02

Ah, the Manipulative Kitty gif! ❤

(actually, I've always found that one to be a bit creepy- all the cats I've had would normally fix you with a haughty, threatening glare, rather than burst into tears, but then I've never had a cat who could use a smartphone. No buttons to walk on) 😆

ed grammar much?

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If Kitty could roll her eyes at that gif, she would.

What TRAs or 'gender' advocates and 'gender critical' feminists agree on.
BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 23/07/2026 18:21

EmpressaurusKitty · 23/07/2026 18:02

If Kitty could roll her eyes at that gif, she would.

Now that's the look I am familiar with! 😁

Boiledbeetle · 23/07/2026 19:04

Helleofabore · 23/07/2026 14:30

SQUEE!

😆

Happy number crunching.

Boiledbeetle · 23/07/2026 19:06

Seethlaw · 23/07/2026 15:45

... I've been trying to come up with a sensible answer, but I think I'll settle for:

UGH 👿!!

Fuck that!

Excellent bigly deployment.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 23/07/2026 19:07

Can anyone, pretty please, explain to me why
"English
Cymraeg
Breadcrumb"
appears in the Lexicon Chat-thing quote?

Is this sort of random word usual in such searches?

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 23/07/2026 20:44

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 23/07/2026 19:07

Can anyone, pretty please, explain to me why
"English
Cymraeg
Breadcrumb"
appears in the Lexicon Chat-thing quote?

Is this sort of random word usual in such searches?

I'm afraid I have no idea, however, you can ask when @Lexibletheflexible returns with all that research, because I think it was one of Flex's posts that had that information, if I remember correctly.

Any time now...

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 23/07/2026 20:52

It was, and that is why I was asking the thread in general, because I suspected I wouldn't get an answer from the flexicon.

It's just so random! Breadcrumb! Disposition! Whisper! Glass!

Seethlaw · 23/07/2026 21:01

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 23/07/2026 19:07

Can anyone, pretty please, explain to me why
"English
Cymraeg
Breadcrumb"
appears in the Lexicon Chat-thing quote?

Is this sort of random word usual in such searches?

Pretty sure it's just metadata about the research, or the webpage Flex got it from, or something. Just internet stuff basically.

AimsAndObjectives · 23/07/2026 21:41

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 23/07/2026 20:44

I'm afraid I have no idea, however, you can ask when @Lexibletheflexible returns with all that research, because I think it was one of Flex's posts that had that information, if I remember correctly.

Any time now...

TRA's kids always seem to take so long to put to bed.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/07/2026 01:01

Seethlaw · 23/07/2026 21:01

Pretty sure it's just metadata about the research, or the webpage Flex got it from, or something. Just internet stuff basically.

Yes I think “breadcrumbs” are something to do with the structure of a website and its search facilities, no?

Seethlaw · 24/07/2026 06:31

Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/07/2026 01:01

Yes I think “breadcrumbs” are something to do with the structure of a website and its search facilities, no?

According to the Cambridge dictionary, they are "the history of exactly how you got to a particular website, web page, etc. on the internet, that is recorded and stored on your computer." ... Kinda spooky when you think about it 😅

EmpressaurusKitty · 24/07/2026 08:33

I thought breadcrumbs were like this, showing the route to a page on the website.

What TRAs or 'gender' advocates and 'gender critical' feminists agree on.
AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 24/07/2026 13:06

Thanks to all, and I am sorry I derailed.

Essentially it means Lexythingy's computer is probably full of things spying on everything that is on it? Oh dear, what a pity, never mind.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 24/07/2026 13:24

So I asked my ISP and got the reply 'On some sites the hierarchy of pages that led to a specific location, e.g. UK, cases, Court of Appeal, 2026, is referred to as a "breadcrumb trail", the idea being that you can find your way back out thereby. That was probably on the site that ChatGPT stole.'

And that explains why it is called that.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/07/2026 15:01

EmpressaurusKitty · 24/07/2026 08:33

I thought breadcrumbs were like this, showing the route to a page on the website.

Yes that’s what I meant, didn’t articulate it very well.

Helleofabore · 26/07/2026 10:41

https://x.com/mrmennotweets/status/2081048279240847863?s=46

Another sign for those who wish to believe that both sides are as bad as each other and that feminists are just as bad as the male people who demand that their subjective reality that is not reflective of material reality is treated as being materially real.

For those without twitter, Menno videoed this sign at Pride

https://x.com/mrmennotweets/status/2081048279240847863?s=46

‘90% of pigs in the UK are gassed to death, but terfs still exist’.

Then there is this one complete with throat slitting action.

https://x.com/MrAndyNgo/status/2081027090921472480?s=20

Notice that the person doing the slitting the throat action is masked up and the people that the masked activist has recognised have no masks and and are not acting in any way intimidating.... I believe this was at Pride, which both the people the activist has done the slitting of the throat symbol at are there as part of the LGB umbrella.

But... sure... 'both sides'.

There really is no fucking symmetry.

Andy Ngo (@MrAndyNgo) on X

London Trans Pride (July 25) — A trans person covering his face takes photos of trans ideology critics @bindelj and @MrMennoTweets before gesturing that he will slit their throats. Video by @Michaelwk20:

https://x.com/MrAndyNgo/status/2081027090921472480?s=20