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The Bluestocking Women's Pub: Where the Bluebird Sings to the Lemonade Springs

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AngleofRepose · 12/07/2026 21:31

Croeso/Welcome to the Bluestocking Women's Pub, with our lovely gerbil staff, the icy Mojito foot-bath for those of you fed up with the heat, a Quilting/Craft Nook, lots of yummy food and drink with zero calories, gluten, or allergens, the Gerbil World Cup, and a brand new magic pool that becomes a babbling brook whenever you want it to!

Come on in! All women welcome! (Men welcome at The Staunch Ally pub down the road aways)

(security provided by the capybaras, lovely folk, but try not to get in their way)

(oh, and don't mention triangles, please. Gubbins gets very overexcited)

(did we mention the Gerbil World Cup?)

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Thehorticulturalhussie · 16/07/2026 09:21

Morning all and welcome @pontefractals

Not going to be quite so hot today thank goodness. Hunter and I were out just before 7 and have had a really nice walk, just a couple of miles so not what we're used to but I'm not sure what his energy level is at the moment. But he cantered around tracking deer and met one of his pals so all good. Thank you again for your kind support.
The hedgerows are full of birds, lots of linnets, whitethroats, warblers,goldfinches and flocks of yellowhammers. And I can hear quail too but I don't believe that they would survive a very cold winter so I suspect that a breeder has lost some stock and they're now having a lovely adventure.

DauntlessDamson · 16/07/2026 09:33

ErrolTheDragon · 16/07/2026 08:52

Four years? Isn’t there another World Cup next year?

Yes, but that's the women's one. I have much higher hopes of them.

DauntlessDamson · 16/07/2026 09:41

@Thehorticulturalhussie And I can hear quail too but I don't believe that they would survive a very cold winter so I suspect that a breeder has lost some stock and they're now having a lovely adventure.

They must have been watching the film "Chicken Run". Grin

That reminds me - Samba, the capybara from Marwell Zoo is still missing, apparently. I hope she has managed to find a nice, secure refuge.

EdithStourton · 16/07/2026 10:07

@AsWithGlad one of my DC was very fond of that song. We used to hear it from the back of the car, rapidly morphing into variants entertaining to a 3-yr-old's mind. The same DC used to regale us with 'jokes', and now turns amusing events into genuinely hilarious anecdotes. There is a great need in that one to perform...

Welcome to @pontefractals

And @Thehorticulturalhussie it sounds as if Hunter is very much better.

Also, @Magpiecomplex my sympathies. I've been there with numerous bites and various skin conditions and it's miserable.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 16/07/2026 13:07

A slightly belated welcome from me, @pontefractals - I am dreadful at mornings, so I have to catch up on action in the Bluestocking in the afternoon, when the caffeine has somewhat kicked in.

MyrtleLion · 16/07/2026 13:23

Had an interview with a recruiter today. Either the company will hire a specialist because they are all specialists and like specialists or they will hire someone like me who knows how to do the actual job and can learn about the specialism.

As evidenced by many organisations like this, they usually hire the specialist and then wonder why they don’t know about the job itself.

Anyway we will see.

Gerbil World Cup semifinal incoming.

Hedgehogforshort · 16/07/2026 13:30

<sticks head out of tunnel>. MNHQ sorted me out.

<dusts self off> well i feel very erm, my current self again.

MyrtleLion · 16/07/2026 13:37

Magic Roundabout vs. Hanseatic League

Griselda arrived at the pitch three hours early, which by her own standards was practically a lie-in, and found — somewhat to her own surprise — that she felt entirely, unreasonably cheerful. She stood for a moment testing the feeling the way one tests a suspicious floorboard, and it held. Fifty-nine years was somebody else’s arithmetic, in somebody else’s tournament. This one belonged to gerbils who’d earned every inch of it themselves.

By midday Gerbil HQ had become a single, sustained, escalating event. Gwendoline’s bulletin arrived, after nineteen drafts, at a version that was almost entirely italics and bold, with one triumphant string of exclamation marks she made no attempt to remove. Gertrude produced a tray of seeds arranged into a rosette that nobody had the heart to disturb by eating. Glory had been inflated to a size that technically violated two of Griselda’s own bylaws, and Griselda, for once, chose not to notice.

The Magic Roundabout arrived to their own theme tune at a volume Gwendoline called “structurally ambitious,” Dougal cantering out with her scarf streaming; the Hanseatic League’s marching band — now three working instruments, a personal best — answered with their sixty-strong devoted supporters chanting loudly enough to clear the pigeons off the stand roof. Griselda stood at the halfway line and let herself enjoy it, completely, before raising her paw for kickoff.

Minute 4: The Magic Roundabout came flying out of the blocks, Dougal surging forward with her scarf trailing like a comet, forcing a save so instinctive the Hanseatic keeper looked faintly astonished at her own paws afterward.

Minute 9: GOAL, Magic Roundabout. Brian, of all gerbils, ghosted in at the back post completely unmarked and side-footed home with an expression of such profound, quiet satisfaction that Gwendoline’s bulletin simply read: BRIAN. BRIAN DID THAT. 1-0. Dougal celebrated with a victory lap that was, strictly, only necessary for about a third of the pitch.

Minute 21: The Hanseatic League, unbothered, replied with the patient, well-drilled build-up that had got them here in the first place — wide, then wide again — until a low cross was turned home from six yards. 1-1. Their supporters did not cheer so much as become, briefly, a weather event.

Minute 34: Zebedee — playing, as ever, as though she might spring clean off the pitch at any moment — won the ball high up the park and set Ermintrude away down the left. Ermintrude, unhurried despite her size, produced a cross of genuine elegance.

Minute 35: GOAL, Magic Roundabout. Dougal met it first time, full stretch, and the ball was in before the keeper had finished setting herself. 2-1. Griselda, at the halfway line, allowed herself one small, private fist-pump, then pretended she hadn’t.

Half-time: Florence gathered the Roundabout team in a tight, calm circle and said very little, which seemed to work; the Hanseatic League huddled around their captain, who delivered what Gwendoline described as “a rousing speech, in at least two languages, possibly across several centuries.”

Minute 58: The Hanseatic League came out transformed, laying siege to the Roundabout box for a ten-minute spell so relentless that Griselda’s notes simply read “sustained.” A header crashed off the bar. A follow-up was cleared off the line by Dougal, of all gerbils, in a manner nobody quite expected of her.

Minute 70: GOAL, Hanseatic League. The equaliser finally came from a scrambled corner, bundled over the line amid general chaos, and this time the celebration properly detonated. 2-2. Gwendoline’s bulletin, mid-riot, read simply: OH NO. OH GLORIOUS NO.

Minute 83: Brian, quiet all match since her earlier moment of glory, popped up again — a clever near-post run, a touch that barely counted as a touch, and the ball was over the line before the keeper had registered the danger. GOAL, Magic Roundabout. 3-2. Gwendoline simply typed BRIAN in capitals and left it at that.
90+3: The Hanseatic League threw everyone forward one last time, and a header crept agonisingly wide with the last real action of the game.

Final whistle. 3-2, Magic Roundabout.

Dougal led her team on a lap of the pitch that this time was fully, unapologetically necessary. The Hanseatic League applauded them off with real warmth, band still playing, refusing to let defeat dampen a single note.

Greta’s line was waiting under the glass, as if she’d known all along:
Brian scored twice. Nobody saw that coming. Brian saw it coming.

The Magic Roundabout are through to the final.

https://myrtlelion.substack.com/p/magic-roundabout-vs-hanseatic-league

The Bluestocking Women's Pub:  Where the Bluebird Sings to the Lemonade Springs
DauntlessDamson · 16/07/2026 13:55

Yay for The Magic Roundabout and especially Brian! 👏

MarieDeGournay · 16/07/2026 14:02

Oh no! defeat for the Hansas😭They were the only team I knew anything about! I thought I knew about The Tunnel, but quickly realised that I knew nothing about their game plan - the tunnelling one that was controversially declared illegal.

Welcome pontefractals, I see you've been well welcomed already, though somewhat disturbingly by Boily - don't worry, she just means that everything is so lovely here that you'll never want to leave.😏

I love your username, it reminds of the Betjeman poem about Pontefract which contains the unforgettable line:
Her sturdy legs were flannel-slacked-
The strongest legs in Pontefract
😁

So glad to hear about Hunter, Horti, I think I can speak for us all when I say we were living through your worry and distress with you, and now we are enjoying seeing Hunter cantering around and socialising with his pals Smile
Sorry you are so afflicted, Magpie, that sounds awful, hope it all settles down soonFlowers

Good luck, Myrtle - I feel you have found our true calling with your Gerbil World Cup report, but obviously I hope you get a non-footie-related job offer for practical purposesSmile

I've had a very full-on few hours, a neighbour locked herself out, and then somehow triggered her alarm and got the code wrong and couldn't turn it off and somebody called the police who showed up and I had a spare key but not the code so I was half useful but then she remembered she was entering a different code to the alarm code so it was all all right again and now I'm absolutely exhausted🙁

The police ['Gardaí', from the Irish for guardians of the peace] were very nice and supportive to the neighbour, and then had a chat with me and suggested introducing myself to the local community police officer because I live on my own etc. Very helpful👮👮Smile

Thehorticulturalhussie · 16/07/2026 14:06

Welcome pontefractals, I see you've been well welcomed already, though somewhat disturbingly by Boily - don't worry, she just means that everything is so lovely here that you'll never want to leave.

Thehorticulturalhussie · 16/07/2026 14:07

You know, like Hotel California, sure you can leave any time you like.

Thehorticulturalhussie · 16/07/2026 14:13

And thank you @MarieDeGournay Hunter has a happy thing that he does which involves lying on his side and moving his front legs up and down very quickly while making a quite undoglike squeaking noise. Then the same on the other side. He's just done it for the first time in several days. Huzza!!

PastaAllaNorma · 16/07/2026 14:22

I have taken to my bed like a heroine in a gothic novel.

I am having my first period in three months and I'm fifty fucking seven.

I would like to raise a complaint with the appropriate authority.

MyrtleLion · 16/07/2026 14:31

PastaAllaNorma · 16/07/2026 14:22

I have taken to my bed like a heroine in a gothic novel.

I am having my first period in three months and I'm fifty fucking seven.

I would like to raise a complaint with the appropriate authority.

That is HARSH!

I am a similar age and haven’t bled in over a decade. My deepest sympathies 💐💐💐

As much rest, cold compresses and hot water bottles as you need. Add chocolate if it helps.

Magpiecomplex · 16/07/2026 14:33

PastaAllaNorma · 16/07/2026 14:22

I have taken to my bed like a heroine in a gothic novel.

I am having my first period in three months and I'm fifty fucking seven.

I would like to raise a complaint with the appropriate authority.

Let me know when you find out who the appropriate authority is, I'd like a word myself. I've been in perimenopause for 16 years, and counting.

PastaAllaNorma · 16/07/2026 14:37

Magpiecomplex · 16/07/2026 14:33

Let me know when you find out who the appropriate authority is, I'd like a word myself. I've been in perimenopause for 16 years, and counting.

Snap (almost) - it started at 42 so 15 years for me.

MrPastaSnr's delightful contribution was to say my mum had periods until she was 63. Thanks for telling me that, Dad. FML.

DauntlessDamson · 16/07/2026 14:47

Having seen what some of my younger family members went through in peri & full menopause, I have thanked the appropriate authority many times for my hysterectomy aged 47, before things really got going. Along with the authority who invented HRT.

If the troons had any idea what it was really like being a woman they would run a mile😁

ETA Pasta you need a "fainting couch". All the best gothic heroines had them. Grin

FuzzyPuffling · 16/07/2026 14:56

I had menopause at 46 after several years of peri symptoms. One final period that lasted 5 months, then nothing since! Woo hoo.

Magpiecomplex · 16/07/2026 14:57

DauntlessDamson · 16/07/2026 14:47

Having seen what some of my younger family members went through in peri & full menopause, I have thanked the appropriate authority many times for my hysterectomy aged 47, before things really got going. Along with the authority who invented HRT.

If the troons had any idea what it was really like being a woman they would run a mile😁

ETA Pasta you need a "fainting couch". All the best gothic heroines had them. Grin

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I have been known to comment (out of earshot of my students) that if I could identify out of the process, I would have done so years ago. It would be so much easier!

Thehorticulturalhussie · 16/07/2026 15:01

PastaAllaNorma · 16/07/2026 14:22

I have taken to my bed like a heroine in a gothic novel.

I am having my first period in three months and I'm fifty fucking seven.

I would like to raise a complaint with the appropriate authority.

That's very unfair, you have my sympathy.

AngleofRepose · 16/07/2026 16:24

@PastaAllaNorma so sorry this is happening to you! I hope it doesn't last too long 🐬(can't find the flowers, so here's a beautiful dolphin)

@Thehorticulturalhussie glad Hunter definitely seems on the mend!

Commiserations to England and Hanseatic League fans 😩

Been very busy, a few viewings but nothing suitable yet. Onwards and upwards!

It still close to 30C here, but much cooler at night, thank goodness. My shingles may be back, but not sure yet.

ps anyone else noticed that the irritating "show more" thing is back on long threads? grrrr...

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Boiledbeetle · 16/07/2026 17:47

PastaAllaNorma · 16/07/2026 14:22

I have taken to my bed like a heroine in a gothic novel.

I am having my first period in three months and I'm fifty fucking seven.

I would like to raise a complaint with the appropriate authority.

I just swore on your behalf.

That is not what any of us signed up for. I can be menacing looking back up when you actually find out which authority was responsible for it!

Magpiecomplex · 16/07/2026 18:06

Boiledbeetle · 16/07/2026 17:47

I just swore on your behalf.

That is not what any of us signed up for. I can be menacing looking back up when you actually find out which authority was responsible for it!

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I think we need to form a deputation. I'm often described as scary, I think we would be quite intimidating en masse.

AngleofRepose · 16/07/2026 18:10

Magpiecomplex · 16/07/2026 18:06

I think we need to form a deputation. I'm often described as scary, I think we would be quite intimidating en masse.

Interesting. I've been described as scary as well (and I'm very small). Always by men who, I think, don't expect words like "no, you're not listening to me" or "repeat that back to me so that I know you understand what I said" to come out of a woman's mouth. Especially at work!

ps. In a scary, American accent 😄

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