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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

So many Irish women murdered in 2026

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SmallorBigorBigorSmall · 09/07/2026 00:55

More women murdered in Ireland between January and July 2026 than whole of 2025. Sad day for us and a worrying statistic when I think of DD. Another very violent death this week. Theres no answer but I know you all know how I feel.

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Anonanonanonagain · 13/07/2026 15:11

Yer man has been caught in Jordan.

DontWantACat · 13/07/2026 16:09

Wow, so many posts to catch up on… but Ahmad Saqar has been detained in Jordan. I’m shocked.

I wonder has he been detained for this murder, or for other crimes he may have committed in Jordan as well.

We have no extradition with Jordan, what happens now?

Kerrygirlie · 13/07/2026 16:20

What a relief to find a forum of normal women of common sense who are worried by the direction of events in our formerly safe and quiet country. Unfortunately for us, these perfectly rational and understandable views are almost never heard on our mainstream TV/radio or newspapers except for the likes of Brenda Power and a couple more like her.
Wouldn't it be nice if our media and politicians stopped droning on endlessly about Palestine (about which they can do absolutely nothing) and started actually doing their job which is to act in the interests of Irish people for a change.

Cailin66 · 13/07/2026 17:23

Anonanonanonagain · 13/07/2026 15:11

Yer man has been caught in Jordan.

Wow. 😮

This is fantastic. That the accused has been caught, I thought he’d never be found.

Next problem is there is no extradition treaty between Jordan and Ireland!

Anonanonanonagain · 13/07/2026 17:35

OMG he beat her to death with the top of a toilet cistern. Absolute animal.

SmallorBigorBigorSmall · 13/07/2026 17:53

DontWantACat · 13/07/2026 16:09

Wow, so many posts to catch up on… but Ahmad Saqar has been detained in Jordan. I’m shocked.

I wonder has he been detained for this murder, or for other crimes he may have committed in Jordan as well.

We have no extradition with Jordan, what happens now?

It was unfortunate for him that he directed his angst at an American Citizen. Perhaps if it was "Mary Murphy" from ballygoforwards, co kerry might be different for him.
Given Jordan has zero tolerance for murder and has eye for an eye at the core of their laws he might regret his choices.

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honeyrider · 13/07/2026 18:42

I heard it mentioned on national radio this morning before news of his arrest the fact she was American the US would be able to exert more influence than Ireland in hopes of arresting him and having him returned to face questioning.

SmallorBigorBigorSmall · 13/07/2026 19:00

Kerrygirlie · 13/07/2026 16:20

What a relief to find a forum of normal women of common sense who are worried by the direction of events in our formerly safe and quiet country. Unfortunately for us, these perfectly rational and understandable views are almost never heard on our mainstream TV/radio or newspapers except for the likes of Brenda Power and a couple more like her.
Wouldn't it be nice if our media and politicians stopped droning on endlessly about Palestine (about which they can do absolutely nothing) and started actually doing their job which is to act in the interests of Irish people for a change.

Agree @Kerrygirlie I have appreciated this discussion in every way. Agree re media coverage, its abysmal and only presents the government, NGO narrative and anyone that doesn't agree is automatically branded right wing and racist. I appreciate that GRIPT exists as I dont have to agree with it but I want different opinions in the public domain.

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DontWantACat · 13/07/2026 19:08

SmallorBigorBigorSmall · 13/07/2026 17:53

It was unfortunate for him that he directed his angst at an American Citizen. Perhaps if it was "Mary Murphy" from ballygoforwards, co kerry might be different for him.
Given Jordan has zero tolerance for murder and has eye for an eye at the core of their laws he might regret his choices.

I hope he lives to regret his choices, absolute animal.

Agree, I’m sure the American government have stepped in here. By all accounts, the US give Jordan >$1.2bn in aid every year so I’m sure they don’t want that to be effected.

Small part of me hope that the Jordanian justice department recognise the support that Ireland has given Palestine for decades, and that would have been taken into account and Mary Murphy’s hypothetical killer would also have been apprehended as quickly. However, I’m pretty sure it’s the money and power that’s swayed things here.

DontWantACat · 13/07/2026 19:12

SmallorBigorBigorSmall · 13/07/2026 19:00

Agree @Kerrygirlie I have appreciated this discussion in every way. Agree re media coverage, its abysmal and only presents the government, NGO narrative and anyone that doesn't agree is automatically branded right wing and racist. I appreciate that GRIPT exists as I dont have to agree with it but I want different opinions in the public domain.

Totally echo both of your sentiments. It’s been liberating to have this intelligent, informed and insightful discussion without a huge barrage of accusations of racism. There’s been a few here obviously, but the vast majority has been recognition of facts by intelligent women who can back up their concerns and claims. Thank you 🙏 It’s a sad state of affairs that I can’t have this discussion in real life without being chastised and castigated.

DontWantACat · 13/07/2026 19:15

And re:Gript, I’m also incredibly grateful they exist. I used to listen to Sarah and John’s podcast every week (where have they gone btw???).

Do I agree with all of their viewpoints? Absolutely not… I’m a staunchly agnostic, pro choice woman.

But I appreciate the differing viewpoints, and the service they do for media in this country is second to absolutely none unfortunately.

parlona · 13/07/2026 19:32

Remember that the father of Global Migration was the late Peter Sutherland. He was involved with Bilderberg, the UN, and the WEF and said -

"The EU should "do its best to undermine" the "homogeneity" of its member states, the UN's special representative for migration has said.

Peter Sutherland told peers the future prosperity of many EU states depended on them becoming multicultural."

It all started with him IMO and everyone followed, no questions no arguments. Lest we forget.

https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-politics-18519395

Peter Sutherland

EU should 'undermine national homogeneity' says UN migration chief

The EU should "do its best to undermine" national "homogeneity" and promote multiculturalism, the UN's special representative for migration tells peers.

https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-politics-18519395

Margesimpsonsbeehive · 13/07/2026 20:35

MarieDeGournay · 09/07/2026 19:14

And how do you propose we ban all men from all those places?

Your blanket ban also exclude the Governor of our Central Bank, Gabriel Makhlouf - he's from one of the places you mentioned.

I'm not nihilistic, I'm pragmatic.

I haven't read the full thread but I think there can be a bit of a double standard in how media and politicians react to this.

Ken O'Flynn actually posted about it this week in a series of tweets reacting to the difference between the reaction by Ruth Coppinger between the murder of Jamey Carney by a suspect from Jordan and the murder of Makenzie Michalski by an Irish man, Lorcan Murphy ,in Hungary.

"On the murder of Jamey Carney in Killarney: Coppinger told the Dail that media reporting the asylum seeker suspect's status "irresponsibly stoked up the flames of racism." She said the case had nothing to do with "strangers, asylum seekers, or whatever."

"On Lorcan Murphy: Coppinger said his crime is "an outcome of the proliferation of violent pornography" and claimed "there has to be other women" he has assaulted."
She has yet to provide evidence for this claim.

On RTE this evening the suspect in the Jamey Carney case was described as a Jordanian man who had entered the UK on a tourist visa and then entered Ireland through the common travel area.
There was no mention of the fact that he then claimed asylum in Ireland and was in an IPAS centre. There was no mention of the fact that he had lied, saying he was Palestinian when he was actually an economic migrant from Jordan. There was no mention of the fact that he claimed he had no documentation when he entered the country despite entering the country via the UK on a tourist visa where a passport was essential.
There was no mention of the fact that asylum had been refused but, 2 years after arriving,he remained in the country to appeal his case but fled back to Jordan using the 'missing' passport in the hours after Jamey's death.

Do we blanket ban men from these countries?

Obviously not. That would be racist.
But I think attitudes towards women should be a consideration before asylum or citizenship is granted.
In the case of the suspect in Carney's murder, he was following accounts that show some disturbing attitudes towards women. I honestly believe that such attitudes should be considered as part of granting asylum in Ireland.

In the case of the Iranian woman murdered by her estranged husband in Galway, she had applied for a protection order against him.
This was taken seriously enough by the court to be granted and for Ali Sohrabi to be moved to a different location.
In the weeks leading up to her death, she directly contacted the Gardai to report active domestic abuse and harassment. Locals and support networks noted she was openly terrified that he would attack her, and the Gardai were fully aware of the escalating issues.
Despite this, his right to remain in the country to claim asylum was unaffected and he went on to murder her and orphan her children.

In the case of Ashling Murphy the killer was a Slovakian who lived in Ireland for 10 years. Neither he nor his wife ever worked for the entire time they lived in Ireland. They contributed nothing but claimed social welfare and were provided with a 4 bedroom house and free medical care. Under EU law the Irish government have the right to deport EU citizens who are considered an unreasonable burden on the state. Yet when Ashings boyfriend questioned why he was allowed to remain it was seen as far right and he was heavily criticised for pointing out the obvious.

In the case of Pushkas wife who covered up his crime the judge partially suspended the wifes sentences after accepting a psychologist's report stating that within their Roma culture, the women held subservient roles and "did what they were told" by the men in the household.
Why is such 'culture' tolerated in Ireland? Why are men with these attitudes allowed to reside in Ireland?
We have enough problems with VAWG in Ireland. If the government is really serious about tackling it then maybe tackling cultural attitudes towards women must be part of the solution. Yes, we also need to tackle our own homegrown misogyny but to deny the bleeding obvious in order to be seen as tolerant is doing an injustice to those women who have already paid the ultimate price.

SmallorBigorBigorSmall · 13/07/2026 21:47

parlona · 13/07/2026 19:32

Remember that the father of Global Migration was the late Peter Sutherland. He was involved with Bilderberg, the UN, and the WEF and said -

"The EU should "do its best to undermine" the "homogeneity" of its member states, the UN's special representative for migration has said.

Peter Sutherland told peers the future prosperity of many EU states depended on them becoming multicultural."

It all started with him IMO and everyone followed, no questions no arguments. Lest we forget.

https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-politics-18519395

Oh wow @parlona thank you for adding that info and link. It may not be the only reason but it certainly makes sense because as I said above the national homogeneity of most European countries has most definitely been undermined. Saw it on a small beach on the west coast yesterday. No industry anywhere near for employment but an IPAS centre has been installed next to it and max 20% on the beach were local accents.

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SmallorBigorBigorSmall · 13/07/2026 22:05

@Margesimpsonsbeehive so many mothers, sisters and daughters lost due to ideology. The Iranian case is particularly interesting because as you say "In the case of the Iranian woman murdered by her estranged husband in Galway, she had applied for a protection order against him.
This was taken seriously enough by the court to be granted and for Ali Sohrabi to be moved to a different location."
Not so long ago it was the Catholic Church was accussed of moving perps instead of dealing appropriately with them. Wouldn't consider how this case was managed as the ideal.

Wonder will operators of Linden house where killarney suspect lived feel any heat as it seems sign in and out policies weren't followed but who knows as its operation is confidential. The facility was recommissioned to house a maximum of 55 adult males under 24/7 staff supervision. Under modern IPAS standard commercial rates, standard nightly bed rates paid to private contractors average between €75 to €125 per person, meaning a full-capacity center of this size grossess roughly €1.5 million to €2.5 million annually in state funding.

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Emilesgran · 13/07/2026 22:31

DontWantACat · 13/07/2026 19:08

I hope he lives to regret his choices, absolute animal.

Agree, I’m sure the American government have stepped in here. By all accounts, the US give Jordan >$1.2bn in aid every year so I’m sure they don’t want that to be effected.

Small part of me hope that the Jordanian justice department recognise the support that Ireland has given Palestine for decades, and that would have been taken into account and Mary Murphy’s hypothetical killer would also have been apprehended as quickly. However, I’m pretty sure it’s the money and power that’s swayed things here.

I agree with your opinion about the killer, but you're naive if you think Jordan would ever feel any gratitude for Ireland over Palestine. To the extent they know or care that we exist, it's far more likely that Jordan is furious with Ireland's "trouble-making" over Palestine, helping prevent a proper peace process.

Apart from anything else, Jordan massacred thousands of Palestinians some years back, and expelled many more: it only accepts the ones that don't continue to cause problems with Israel, with whom they have mostly a pretty decent relationship. They have signed several peace treaties, some of which were sabotaged by Palestinians who don't want peace with Israel, unlike Jordan, which does.

Cailin66 · 13/07/2026 23:29

I don’t believe convicted murderer Lorcan Murphy in Hungry has not committed other crimes against women. You don’t go to that level of depravity overnight. Very odd his Irish parents never attended his trial. Especially as they funded his defence and purchased an apartment for him in Budapest in an effort to get him granted bail.

At least this too is getting full media attention. So when he comes back to Ireland in 14 years women will be aware he’s a perverted monster.

Margesimpsonsbeehive · 14/07/2026 06:41

Cailin66 · 13/07/2026 23:29

I don’t believe convicted murderer Lorcan Murphy in Hungry has not committed other crimes against women. You don’t go to that level of depravity overnight. Very odd his Irish parents never attended his trial. Especially as they funded his defence and purchased an apartment for him in Budapest in an effort to get him granted bail.

At least this too is getting full media attention. So when he comes back to Ireland in 14 years women will be aware he’s a perverted monster.

Murphy may well have committed other crimes. But it's not the place of a TD to publicly post accusations without evidence.
One may suspect similar about the suspect in the Killarney case, but I think it's safe to say that Coppinger would never make that accusation.
It's the double standard that I was posting about.

DontWantACat · 14/07/2026 07:14

MarieDeGournay · 13/07/2026 23:45

Two more women RIP - or a woman and a girl - dead.
Details not revealed yet, but it's likely they are two more victims to add to the 2026 femicide tally:
Murder probe launched after three found dead in Co Antrim

Just awful, and it looks to be another murder suicide as reported by the BelTel: https://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/northern-ireland/ballymena-deaths-being-treated-as-murder-suicide-after-bodies-of-man-woman-and-girl-found/a/158648321.html

Ill wager it’s not the woman who has committed this terrible act.

Cailin66 · 14/07/2026 07:31

Saqar the arrested man in Jordan can be detained for 2 weeks. Finally the news media are properly reporting. That’s a relief that he can be detained for so long and it’s a relief Irish media have stopped their self censorship which does not help in protecting women and girls.

Hopefully Saqar has committed a crime prior to this in Jordan. Then he can be detained for longer. Because unfortunately the Irish legal system is slow. It will take the Gardai weeks to send a file to the DPP. No idea why that is, but it’s always been the case. Even if the DPP decides to prosecute it’s unclear how this will work to have Saqar extradited.

Cailin66 · 14/07/2026 08:48

More on the Jamey Carney murder case here

Jamey Carney: Man wanted in connection with murder arrested in Jordan

and here, graphic details in this one

Suspect in murder of NY mom Jamey Carney had married her in Islamic ceremony

From other reports the mosque has been approached to confirm if an Islamic (non legal) marriage had taken place, they declined to comment. Jamey's funeral is tomorrow and it is up on RIP, very sad.

A blue and yellow Garda (Irish police) car is parked sideways across the walled entrance to a housing estate on a bright sunny day.  A male officer in a blue uniform stands close to the wall behind the car. There is another parked Garda car in the back...

Jamey Carney: Man wanted in connection with murder arrested in Jordan

The body of Jamey Carney was discovered at a property in Killarney, County Kerry, last week.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c621p1zne6qo

SmallorBigorBigorSmall · 14/07/2026 10:12

Margesimpsonsbeehive · 14/07/2026 06:41

Murphy may well have committed other crimes. But it's not the place of a TD to publicly post accusations without evidence.
One may suspect similar about the suspect in the Killarney case, but I think it's safe to say that Coppinger would never make that accusation.
It's the double standard that I was posting about.

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@Margesimpsonsbeehive 100% agree with you. I thought it was shocking and unprofessional and inappropriate for Coppinger to issue a statement with that level of accusations especially when her frothing has only been directed at the white Irish man convicted abroad. Her sole contribution to reporting about killarney suspect is that it has been stoking racism FFS what a joke.

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SmallorBigorBigorSmall · 14/07/2026 12:54

So Simon Harris is out thus morning but has drank from the same trough as Coppinger. Violence against women is out of control but we must not speak about race or religion as its not needed or appropriate. Pity he doesn't look at the stats for the murdered women so far this year and use them to launch new ways of recording and analysing the data.

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Emilesgran · 14/07/2026 14:57

Cailin66 · 14/07/2026 08:48

More on the Jamey Carney murder case here

Jamey Carney: Man wanted in connection with murder arrested in Jordan

and here, graphic details in this one

Suspect in murder of NY mom Jamey Carney had married her in Islamic ceremony

From other reports the mosque has been approached to confirm if an Islamic (non legal) marriage had taken place, they declined to comment. Jamey's funeral is tomorrow and it is up on RIP, very sad.

God that is awful. Her poor daughter, finding her mother's body in that condition. She must be utterly traumatised.

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