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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

'Arm the Dolls'

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WrongKindOfFeminist · 05/07/2026 10:23

Pictured is Natacha Kennedy of Goldsmiths.

T shirt says 'Arm the Dolls'

'Arm the Dolls'
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BernardBlacksMolluscs · 11/07/2026 23:17

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 23:15

You and @SirChenjins are happy to insinuate that I’m up to nasty things, but you won’t elaborate or explain exactly what you mean. Why is that? Is it because you know it will make you look incredibly unreasonable and unhinged?

You need to read @SirChenjins post at 23:14. She’s laid out her thoughts on your behaviour clearly.

do try to keep the gaslighting to a minimum

SirChenjins · 11/07/2026 23:17

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 23:15

You and @SirChenjins are happy to insinuate that I’m up to nasty things, but you won’t elaborate or explain exactly what you mean. Why is that? Is it because you know it will make you look incredibly unreasonable and unhinged?

Refer to my previous post.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 11/07/2026 23:21

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DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 23:22

SirChenjins · 11/07/2026 23:17

Refer to my previous post.

You just repeated exactly what you said before, so no you didn’t answer the question. You were implying something and the fact you won’t spell it out is very telling.

I’ll make it very clear. I go in, use the toilet, wash my hands, and then leave. Nothing less, and nothing more. That is it. And if you want to suggest differently you better explain what you mean.

murasaki · 11/07/2026 23:23

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SirChenjins · 11/07/2026 23:23

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 23:22

You just repeated exactly what you said before, so no you didn’t answer the question. You were implying something and the fact you won’t spell it out is very telling.

I’ll make it very clear. I go in, use the toilet, wash my hands, and then leave. Nothing less, and nothing more. That is it. And if you want to suggest differently you better explain what you mean.

Oh no - you got your answer. You just don't like hearing the truth.

murasaki · 11/07/2026 23:24

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 23:22

You just repeated exactly what you said before, so no you didn’t answer the question. You were implying something and the fact you won’t spell it out is very telling.

I’ll make it very clear. I go in, use the toilet, wash my hands, and then leave. Nothing less, and nothing more. That is it. And if you want to suggest differently you better explain what you mean.

And why won't you do that in the men's, where you legally belong.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 23:24

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darvo

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Undoubtedly

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 11/07/2026 23:27

It is important to remember that we’re speaking to someone who chooses to live a fundamentally dishonest life

normal rules do not apply

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 23:29

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I was just calling out what I saw. Undoubtedly TRAs have done it, but it certainly didn’t stop you. And the anger on display here shows you don’t like being called out for bad behaviour.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 11/07/2026 23:32

Chummy doesn’t have a scooby what darvo means, he’s just throwing out phrases hoping to upset people

SirChenjins · 11/07/2026 23:34

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 11/07/2026 23:32

Chummy doesn’t have a scooby what darvo means, he’s just throwing out phrases hoping to upset people

Very true

murasaki · 11/07/2026 23:34

No, I'm just fed up of your disingenuous tripe.

Sparkyduchess · 11/07/2026 23:37

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 23:29

I was just calling out what I saw. Undoubtedly TRAs have done it, but it certainly didn’t stop you. And the anger on display here shows you don’t like being called out for bad behaviour.

You’re choosing to ignore all the women telling you that you don’t belong in our spaces, and telling yourself you’re justified.

stay out of women’s spaces, be a gender non-conforming man who uses men’s spaces. THAT would be really progressive.

murasaki · 11/07/2026 23:40

I'm still struggling to see in what possible universe he's a victim rather than an offender when he is literally breaking the law.

JanesLittleGirl · 11/07/2026 23:44

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 21:57

Even if people identify me as a trans woman, I’m almost certain they’re going to understand I’m just there to use the toilet. Most people are incredibly reasonable and pragmatic.

How the fuck would you know how people who identify you as a trans woman feel or think given that you are completely indifferent to all the other users?

Personally I don't give a thrupenny bit what your motivation for using the women's loos is but how would you react if the woman stood next to you at the sinks turned to you and said "you do know that you shouldn't be here, don't you?"?

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 23:46

murasaki · 11/07/2026 23:40

I'm still struggling to see in what possible universe he's a victim rather than an offender when he is literally breaking the law.

You don’t get to do that. Some people here suggested some nasty things, and I rightly called them out for that and asked them to explain exactly what they mean. You reversed this on me by saying I’m asking for an explanation for ‘euphoria’, and we both know exactly what you mean.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 11/07/2026 23:48

I insinuated nothing chum

I’m very clear that you find pushing women’s boundaries by, for example invading their single sex spaces, gratifying

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 23:50

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 11/07/2026 23:48

I insinuated nothing chum

I’m very clear that you find pushing women’s boundaries by, for example invading their single sex spaces, gratifying

I wasn’t talking about you then

SirChenjins · 11/07/2026 23:50

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 23:46

You don’t get to do that. Some people here suggested some nasty things, and I rightly called them out for that and asked them to explain exactly what they mean. You reversed this on me by saying I’m asking for an explanation for ‘euphoria’, and we both know exactly what you mean.

And then I explained - and you didn't like having your behaviour named.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 23:52

SirChenjins · 11/07/2026 23:50

And then I explained - and you didn't like having your behaviour named.

I’m sorry but you really didn’t. You just parroted the same phrases over and over.

SirChenjins · 11/07/2026 23:53

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 23:52

I’m sorry but you really didn’t. You just parroted the same phrases over and over.

I named your behaviour - and you pretended not to understand, just as you've done throughout this thread.

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