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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

'Arm the Dolls'

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WrongKindOfFeminist · 05/07/2026 10:23

Pictured is Natacha Kennedy of Goldsmiths.

T shirt says 'Arm the Dolls'

'Arm the Dolls'
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KilkennyCats · 11/07/2026 19:18

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 18:47

I do know I’m not making anyone uncomfortable. You may not be very observant but I am.

I’ve been out all day and it was entirely unremarkable and normal.

Did you use spaces that are designated exclusively for women?

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 19:50

KilkennyCats · 11/07/2026 19:18

Did you use spaces that are designated exclusively for women?

I used the spaces appropriate for my situation

spannasaurus · 11/07/2026 19:53

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 19:50

I used the spaces appropriate for my situation

That's a yes then

KilkennyCats · 11/07/2026 19:54

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 19:50

I used the spaces appropriate for my situation

Women’s, then? Not that I’d agree they were “appropriate”, but I believe you would.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 19:58

KilkennyCats · 11/07/2026 19:54

Women’s, then? Not that I’d agree they were “appropriate”, but I believe you would.

Yes, and it was perfect fine. No drama necessary.

TheCatsTongue · 11/07/2026 20:04

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 19:58

Yes, and it was perfect fine. No drama necessary.

I'm sure it probably was. It could've been empty or no woman is going to pass comment, and then probably leave and mutter to everyone else afterwards.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 20:14

TheCatsTongue · 11/07/2026 20:04

I'm sure it probably was. It could've been empty or no woman is going to pass comment, and then probably leave and mutter to everyone else afterwards.

Nope. Very busy shopping centre. Like everyone else I just wanted to use the toilet and get on with my day. It’s surprising how little reality matches up with what the people here say.

KilkennyCats · 11/07/2026 20:15

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 19:58

Yes, and it was perfect fine. No drama necessary.

It was fine for you, certainly. It won’t have been fine for the other women involved, nor was it in any way “appropriate”.
But you don’t give a shit about that, surprise, surprise.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 20:21

KilkennyCats · 11/07/2026 20:15

It was fine for you, certainly. It won’t have been fine for the other women involved, nor was it in any way “appropriate”.
But you don’t give a shit about that, surprise, surprise.

Honestly you can’t know that. You weren’t there and you don’t know me.

I actually do care a lot, but nothing is enough for you.

MoistVonL · 11/07/2026 20:30

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 19:58

Yes, and it was perfect fine. No drama necessary.

There are trans identifying men in the women's loos of the shopping centre many times I'm there. I live in a city elbows-deep in trans ideology, so seeing trans people in my daily life is pretty common.

I have never once spoken out to a bloke identifying as a woman in the women's loos because they are twice the size of me and I've had enough experience of male violence.

That doesn't mean I accept them there, just that I don't see a safe way of objecting.

I often exchange glances with other women when a transwoman is on the loo, and we slow down/speed up our hand washing to leave together so neither is there alone with the bloke.

The poor wee trans identifying women I have no problem with. We've all had the urge to escape what being female means, haven't we? Ditto the non-binary lasses. We second wave feminists are here for our young sisters when they need us. Until then, we give them time.

SirChenjins · 11/07/2026 20:41

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 20:21

Honestly you can’t know that. You weren’t there and you don’t know me.

I actually do care a lot, but nothing is enough for you.

You care a lot (about yourself) - but not enough (about the women whose spaces you're pushing yourself into when you have no legal right to do so) to stop doing it, act within the law and give women privacy and dignity.

Your male arrogance and entitlement shines through in every post you type. We see you for what you are and you're showing us who you are.

Pingponghavoc · 11/07/2026 21:06

Why do you put yourself in the position of potentially being alone in a female toilet with a girl, dumb?

GreyskySexRealistsky · 11/07/2026 21:11

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 20:21

Honestly you can’t know that. You weren’t there and you don’t know me.

I actually do care a lot, but nothing is enough for you.

Wrong. It's very simple what is enough for us. No male people in women's spaces or stuff! That's enough for us.

What's enough for you? Loads of different women from different backgrounds with different lives ALL saying the same thing. We do not want you there. But that is not enough for you. Nothing is enough for you.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 21:14

Pingponghavoc · 11/07/2026 21:06

Why do you put yourself in the position of potentially being alone in a female toilet with a girl, dumb?

I don't 'put myself' in any position. I use the facilities that match my appearance so I can wash my hands and get on with my day. Like everyone else, I am completely indifferent to who else is in the room because I am only there to use the toilet

Now, why did you ask that question?

SirChenjins · 11/07/2026 21:18

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 21:14

I don't 'put myself' in any position. I use the facilities that match my appearance so I can wash my hands and get on with my day. Like everyone else, I am completely indifferent to who else is in the room because I am only there to use the toilet

Now, why did you ask that question?

You're a bloke who's gone into a toilet where young girls go to relieve themselves. That's creepy, predatory and threatening behaviour. Get out.

Pingponghavoc · 11/07/2026 21:20

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 21:14

I don't 'put myself' in any position. I use the facilities that match my appearance so I can wash my hands and get on with my day. Like everyone else, I am completely indifferent to who else is in the room because I am only there to use the toilet

Now, why did you ask that question?

Most men would avoid being alone in a toilet with an unrelated girl, because it would alarm the girl and appear inappropriate.

I'm surprised that you pretend not to know this.

The more you use facilities that you know you shouldnt, you increase the chance for this scenario to happen.

Why are you increasing the chances of alarming girls and putting yourself in a very inappropriate situation. It seems unnecessary.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 21:28

Pingponghavoc · 11/07/2026 21:20

Most men would avoid being alone in a toilet with an unrelated girl, because it would alarm the girl and appear inappropriate.

I'm surprised that you pretend not to know this.

The more you use facilities that you know you shouldnt, you increase the chance for this scenario to happen.

Why are you increasing the chances of alarming girls and putting yourself in a very inappropriate situation. It seems unnecessary.

It says a lot about you that you are using this specific scenario as emotional blackmail. The reality is no perceives me as a man and using male spaces would actually be the inappropriate option

SirChenjins · 11/07/2026 21:35

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 21:28

It says a lot about you that you are using this specific scenario as emotional blackmail. The reality is no perceives me as a man and using male spaces would actually be the inappropriate option

You're a bloke - and you're kidding yourself if you think women don't know. Creepy, predatory and threatening behaviour - decent men don't go into toilets with young girls. One of these days you're going to find yourself on the receiving end of a very angry parent and the police. Stay out.

Pingponghavoc · 11/07/2026 21:35

Its telling that you ignore the fact that your actions may cause distress to girls.

The more you use the spaces you shouldnt, the more chance you will be alone with a girl, and the more chance you will cause distress.

Is this genuinely something you havent thought about. Do you lack empathy?

TheCatsTongue · 11/07/2026 21:39

The mythological 6 foot 4 passable transwoman.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 11/07/2026 21:39

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 18:47

I do know I’m not making anyone uncomfortable. You may not be very observant but I am.

I’ve been out all day and it was entirely unremarkable and normal.

I thought you said you were going away. Sigh. Oh well, at least you are being consistent.

Pingponghavoc · 11/07/2026 21:41

India Willoughby says that no one perceive him as a man.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 11/07/2026 21:43

Is that for real? Because India Willougby is quite obviously wrong.

I notice Wikipedia have no photograph for him.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · 11/07/2026 21:45

TheCatsTongue · 11/07/2026 21:39

The mythological 6 foot 4 passable transwoman.

Now why did you jump straight to 6 foot 4? It’s almost as if you have this shared caricature

MoistVonL · 11/07/2026 21:45

Pingponghavoc · 11/07/2026 21:41

India Willoughby says that no one perceive him as a man.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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