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The Bluestocking: home of the ice-cold Mojito foot-bath

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MarieDeGournay · 29/06/2026 18:06

Welcome all to the Bluestocking Women's Pub, where food and drink are free as in gluten free, calorie free, alcohol free - but still delicious. And free free too, of course.
Served by highly professional staff who are gerbils.

The Bluestocking Ice-Cold Mojito Foot-bath kept us deliciously cool through the heatwave. Come and join us, in case there's another one🌞

The Bluestocking: home of the ice-cold Mojito foot-bath
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MarieDeGournay · 30/06/2026 10:42

I don't eat fish, nor their fingers, so there are lots of fish out there who are concert pianists and embroiderers and brain surgeons thanks to me😁

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Boiledbeetle · 30/06/2026 11:32

I have an image that I dare not put on the thread its meant for.

But I don't want to waste it.

ETA And now it's under review

DeanElderberry · 30/06/2026 11:49

I am agog.

ErrolTheDragon · 30/06/2026 11:50

Sliced avocado would work in a FFS, it’d be basically a more solid substitute for mushy peas - the latter would I think need something more solid than soft sliced bread.

As to the ketchup vs mayo/tartare issue, the solution is both. Either one on one slice, the other on the other or else in two halves.

DauntlessDamson · 30/06/2026 12:06

Boiledbeetle · 30/06/2026 11:32

I have an image that I dare not put on the thread its meant for.

But I don't want to waste it.

ETA And now it's under review

Edited

Oooh! 👀

MyrtleLion · 30/06/2026 12:14

SCOTLAND v NORWAY

The match officials had been warned about the Scottish fans.

They had not been warned enough.

By the time the first whistle blew, every bar within a four-mile radius of the stadium had run dry — not reduced, not low, dry — and Griselda had received seventeen separate noise complaints, all of which she filed under F (for Fine, Actually). The Scottish supporters had arrived the previous evening and had treated the intervening hours as a warm-up. For what, precisely, remained unclear. For this, it turned out. For all of this.

The Norwegian contingent arrived in formation.

There were six hundred of them. They were wearing matching anoraks. They carried, between them, an unknowable number of oars — long ones, short ones, one that appeared to be a genuine Viking replica and was treated accordingly — and a banner the length of a city block reading NORGE: VI ROAR FOR DEG, which Gwendoline translated as Norway: We Row For You, added an exclamation mark to, removed it, reinstated it, and then sent to all departments anyway. They filled the Norwegian supporters’ section to capacity and beyond, spilling into the neutral zones with the calm authority of women who had once navigated the North Atlantic and found this, by comparison, quite manageable. They took their seats. They looked at one another. And then, without announcement or signal or ceremony of any kind, they began to row.

The Serious Scandinavians — all six hundred of them — rowed in unison. They rowed with purpose. The rhythm was internal, ancient, inherited from women who had crossed actual seas in actual weather, and it was, against all reasonable expectation, magnificent.

By the seventh minute, the Scottish fans were rowing too.

This had not been discussed. It simply happened, the way these things do when the moment is right and the bar is dry and there is nothing else to do but row. Four thousand women in various shades of tartan, moving as one, back and forth, their voices rising in something that was not quite a song and not quite a chant but was, Greta wrote later on a small piece of paper left on Griselda’s desk, a noise the sea would recognise.

Gertrude came out of the catering tent to watch. She was still holding a ladle.
Griselda stood at the edge of the pitch and felt something move in her chest that she immediately reclassified as indigestion.

Glory the mascot attempted to row and was gently steadied by two Norwegian fans who did not break rhythm to do it.

By the half, all four gerbils were rowing. Gwendoline had already drafted a bulletin about it. Greta had not looked up from her bracket.

On the sixty-third minute, Scotland scored.

The stadium did not erupt. It crested — a long, building, inevitable wave of sound that broke over everything and kept going, and going, and going, until it had nowhere left to go and simply became the air. The oars came to rest. Six hundred Norwegian women in matching anoraks sat very still, staring ahead with the dignified composure of women who had given everything, crossed actual seas, and were not — would not be — diminished by a single goal in the sixty-third minute of a gerbil tournament knockout fixture.

The whistle blew.

Scotland through. Norway home.

The taller of the Serious Scandinavians nodded, once, to no one in particular. Then she picked up her oar, tucked it under her arm, and led her six hundred out of the stadium in perfect silence and perfect formation, anoraks zipped, heads level, as though they were rowing still — just somewhere else now, somewhere the result hadn’t reached yet, out on the open water where everything was possible and nothing was decided and the sea, at least, did not keep score.

https://myrtlelion.substack.com/p/scotland-v-norway

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EdithStourton · 30/06/2026 12:25

Magpiecomplex · 30/06/2026 09:36

I rarely paint my fingernails, Angle, it's my toenails that are pretty colours! Fingernails need to be short for work, and usually bare too.

Toenails also here.
I spend too much time with plants and dogs and tins of paint to bother with my fingernails.

Also I'm not very good at applying nail polish, and my toes are so far away that no one is likely to notice.

Magpiecomplex · 30/06/2026 12:38

DeanElderberry · 30/06/2026 11:49

I am agog.

I am also agog.

MarieDeGournay · 30/06/2026 12:44

Magpiecomplex · 30/06/2026 12:38

I am also agog.

I identify as agog, does that count?

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MarieDeGournay · 30/06/2026 12:45

I used to identify as alert, until it was pointed out to me that there were too many lerts around, and a shortage of looves, so I identified as aloof instead😂

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MarieDeGournay · 30/06/2026 12:48

Griselda stood at the edge of the pitch and felt something move in her chest that she immediately reclassified as indigestion.

This reminds me of a line from Oranges Are Not The Only Fruit - from memory: the narrator's mother says something like 'What you think is love may in fact be another organ' - and like Griselda, she meant the stomach😃

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Chickadeeinme · 30/06/2026 12:52

I would like to be a wake, but as I had a lousy night last night I am only half a wake.

JanesLittleGirl · 30/06/2026 12:55

MarieDeGournay · 30/06/2026 12:45

I used to identify as alert, until it was pointed out to me that there were too many lerts around, and a shortage of looves, so I identified as aloof instead😂

It's better to be alert than aloof. There's safety in numbers.

EdithStourton · 30/06/2026 12:55

Be alert.
Your country needs lerts.

Boiledbeetle · 30/06/2026 12:56

MarieDeGournay · 30/06/2026 12:45

I used to identify as alert, until it was pointed out to me that there were too many lerts around, and a shortage of looves, so I identified as aloof instead😂

I was taught to be alert - your country needs lerts. I didn't realise there was overpopulation on the lert front.

Boiledbeetle · 30/06/2026 13:00

I fancied a fishfinger, mushy peas and chips on a white buttered roll with lots of salt for lunch.

Alas, the only item I have is the salt.

I had to make do with the stuff in the fridge that needed using up.

Bacon, mushroom and tomatoes with half a flatbread. No salt required annoyingly.

The Bluestocking: home of the ice-cold Mojito foot-bath
EdithStourton · 30/06/2026 13:05

A Suffolk dialect post popped up on my FB today. (Well, it says Suffolk, but there is ample overspill into Norfolk and north Essex).

Apparently the term 'on the drag' is dialect. I've used the phrase for as long as I can remember, and it never once occurred to me that doing so pinned me to a particular part of the the country.

I had the same realisation about 'rum' a few years back. As in, 'a rum ole do' or, 'she's a rum un'.

Tell me, wims, are these phrases that you use? Or do they indeed mark me out as straw-chewing yokel?

PastaAllaNorma · 30/06/2026 13:17

I think they mark you out as a smuggler, Edith.

I wish I had nice nail polish and someone to paint my toenails. I can't be doing with manicure because of gardening and baking, but pretty toes are so cheerful.

FuzzyPuffling · 30/06/2026 13:28

EdithStourton · 30/06/2026 13:05

A Suffolk dialect post popped up on my FB today. (Well, it says Suffolk, but there is ample overspill into Norfolk and north Essex).

Apparently the term 'on the drag' is dialect. I've used the phrase for as long as I can remember, and it never once occurred to me that doing so pinned me to a particular part of the the country.

I had the same realisation about 'rum' a few years back. As in, 'a rum ole do' or, 'she's a rum un'.

Tell me, wims, are these phrases that you use? Or do they indeed mark me out as straw-chewing yokel?

"Rum" in that context yes.
"Drag", no. But drag is a concept i avoid at all times and in all places, so that may colour my thinking.

EdithStourton · 30/06/2026 13:32

'Drag' as in drag queens I also loathe.

But 'on the drag' means 'running late'. As in, 'Oi'm s'sorry, Edith, Oi'm on the drag and shan't be with you till half four.'

DauntlessDamson · 30/06/2026 13:56

EdithStourton · 30/06/2026 13:32

'Drag' as in drag queens I also loathe.

But 'on the drag' means 'running late'. As in, 'Oi'm s'sorry, Edith, Oi'm on the drag and shan't be with you till half four.'

Not heard drag in that context before, but I have heard people say 'aye, it were a rum do' when talking about anything suspicious, usually north of Watford Gap😁

ErrolTheDragon · 30/06/2026 14:06

Never heard ‘on the drag’ (raised in coastal Essex so not a million miles from its region). ‘Rum do’ and “rum ‘un” are, I think, pretty ubiquitous throughout England, don’t know about the rest of the U.K. let alone the wider Anglosphere.

Chickadeeinme · 30/06/2026 16:01

I also would recognise “rum” in that context, but thought of it as old-timey speak of the WW2 variety. “Drag” in that context is new to me - other than drag queens I think of it as teenage eye-rolling speech from the sixties and seventies. “My parents are such a draaag man.”

ErrolTheDragon · 30/06/2026 16:27

We do talk about time dragging though when we’re bored.

Magpiecomplex · 30/06/2026 16:59

Boiledbeetle · 30/06/2026 13:00

I fancied a fishfinger, mushy peas and chips on a white buttered roll with lots of salt for lunch.

Alas, the only item I have is the salt.

I had to make do with the stuff in the fridge that needed using up.

Bacon, mushroom and tomatoes with half a flatbread. No salt required annoyingly.

Are you feeling quite all right, Boily? Some of those look suspiciously like vegetable matter.

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