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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Unite the Kingdom - LWS/WRN

384 replies

Tooting33 · 17/05/2026 08:59

I am just wondering why Tommy Robinson is so appealing to a number of sex-realist women. Kellie Jay Keen spoke at the event. My local LWS group are fully supportive, as are the leaders of my local WRN groups.
Is anyone else finding it is harder to network with gender critical/sex realist women without them also being Reform/Restore/Tommy Robinson supporters?

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HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 19:18

MyrtleLion · 17/05/2026 19:08

That’s one interpretation.

Another is that I’m perfectly capable of being around people who disagree with me. I’m less interested in being associated with views I consider racist.

Why would you be associated with racist views because someone in a group you are in posted a meme you consider racist? Did the group adopt the meme as its logo? Did the vast majority of women in the group 'like' the meme? Are you willing to try to change minds across a whole spectrum of subjects, or are some complete no-go areas for you? Are some people completely irredeemable in your view? Have you formed decent relationships with any of these women so you can talk honestly with them?

MyrtleLion · 17/05/2026 19:20

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 19:18

Why would you be associated with racist views because someone in a group you are in posted a meme you consider racist? Did the group adopt the meme as its logo? Did the vast majority of women in the group 'like' the meme? Are you willing to try to change minds across a whole spectrum of subjects, or are some complete no-go areas for you? Are some people completely irredeemable in your view? Have you formed decent relationships with any of these women so you can talk honestly with them?

I’m allowed to decide when the overall tone or content no longer sits comfortably with me. In this case, I saw material I considered racist and chose not to continue participating.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 19:33

ChristmasStars · 17/05/2026 19:06

Well one person's nasty meme is another's hilarious joke, and memes can be a way of expressing opinion

Surely there's a line though? Some memes are intrinsically nasty, whatever side you relate to.

I would agree that (almost) everyone has a line and that you could have a sort of YouGov poll of memes and rank them according to what % of the population consider them to be 'nasty' and then decide where to put the line for the whole country.
It's not really the point though, is it? If someone posts a nasty meme they are telling you something about themselves. Maybe it's about their sense of humour, maybe their need to be in-group, maybe a deep fear that they have, maybe their lack of critical thought or maybe they are just a cruel, soulless person. You won't know which if you don't engage and you won't change their outlook if you don't engage.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 17/05/2026 19:37

Graham Linehan and JK Rowling were staunch Labour supporters. They got pushed right through the conflict of rights that the trans issue threw up.

ChristmasStars · 17/05/2026 19:38

MyrtleLion · 17/05/2026 19:15

This one was an anti-Muslim meme portraying Muslims as deceitful extremists who intend violence against gay people and British politicians. It was hilarious.

Clearly 😟

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 19:38

MyrtleLion · 17/05/2026 19:20

I’m allowed to decide when the overall tone or content no longer sits comfortably with me. In this case, I saw material I considered racist and chose not to continue participating.

Well that is, of course, your choice but I think it is a shame that you didn't have a good enough relationship with enough of the women to challenge it.

MyrtleLion · 17/05/2026 19:40

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 19:33

I would agree that (almost) everyone has a line and that you could have a sort of YouGov poll of memes and rank them according to what % of the population consider them to be 'nasty' and then decide where to put the line for the whole country.
It's not really the point though, is it? If someone posts a nasty meme they are telling you something about themselves. Maybe it's about their sense of humour, maybe their need to be in-group, maybe a deep fear that they have, maybe their lack of critical thought or maybe they are just a cruel, soulless person. You won't know which if you don't engage and you won't change their outlook if you don't engage.

I did engage.

For months.

This wasn’t one meme followed by a flounce out of the door.

It was many comments. It was moderators refusing to sanction the racists.

It was being told by people like you to engage and argue my case and it got worse and worse and worse until I could stand it no more.

Apparently there’s no level of racism severe enough for you to think leaving is justified.

Noted.

MyrtleLion · 17/05/2026 19:42

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 19:38

Well that is, of course, your choice but I think it is a shame that you didn't have a good enough relationship with enough of the women to challenge it.

How dare you?

I did try. Repeatedly. Frankly, you can fuck off with the implication that I didn’t do enough.

Imnobody4 · 17/05/2026 19:42

ChristmasStars · 17/05/2026 18:40

I'm left wing and haven't actually been inundated with any of these things, other than pro Palestine. But I'm also pro Palestine.

It depends who you follow etc.

ClovisWrites · 17/05/2026 19:44

Maybe KJK is interested in more than one issue.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 17/05/2026 19:44

Maybe the others in the group didn't think what you perceived as racist was racist, which is why you failed to convince anyone it was. Racist nowadays seems to mean 'anything I don't agree with', perhaps in reality you not the victim you think you are.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 19:46

MyrtleLion · 17/05/2026 19:15

This one was an anti-Muslim meme portraying Muslims as deceitful extremists who intend violence against gay people and British politicians. It was hilarious.

I would have happily challenged that meme. It comes from a fear of extreme Islamism that is entirely justified. Combined with a fear that British politicians are being manipulated by extreme Islamists that is a distinct possibility given how easily the gender ideologists manipulated politicians. Engage with the person and then walk them back from 'all-Muslims' to 'extremist Islamists'.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 19:50

MyrtleLion · 17/05/2026 19:42

How dare you?

I did try. Repeatedly. Frankly, you can fuck off with the implication that I didn’t do enough.

Well if you engaged like this no wonder it didn't work.😘

MyrtleLion · 17/05/2026 19:51

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 19:46

I would have happily challenged that meme. It comes from a fear of extreme Islamism that is entirely justified. Combined with a fear that British politicians are being manipulated by extreme Islamists that is a distinct possibility given how easily the gender ideologists manipulated politicians. Engage with the person and then walk them back from 'all-Muslims' to 'extremist Islamists'.

Yes, obviously I challenged it. That’s rather the point.

MyrtleLion · 17/05/2026 19:54

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 19:50

Well if you engaged like this no wonder it didn't work.😘

After months of this, I eventually concluded that fighting with pigs just leaves you both covered in muck, but the pigs enjoy it.

As I'm sure you are aware.

I'm not here for your entertainment.

AMansAManForAllThat · 17/05/2026 20:32

I've found myself becoming effectively anti left. As the authoritarianism has become so very evident, I’m very wary of them despite originally being leftish.

Also the left’s refusal to prioritise our workforce.
And the left’s refusal to discuss different perspectives. The whole ‘no debate’ thing seems very embedded. I don’t agree with no debate. As long as people are discussing politely, sharing their own different perspectives, then we should debate.

5128gap · 17/05/2026 22:04

I don't personally know any GC/sex realist women who are far right and/or support Tommy Robinson. Nearly every woman I know is sex realist. Many are also GC. Most are left leaning or centrist.
Its fairly obvious the far right will be sex realist, but its like all tigers are big cats, isn't it?
If you find that you're ending up hanging out with far right GC people, then give far right people a swerve.

TooBigForMyBoots · 18/05/2026 00:24

Tooting33 · 17/05/2026 11:14

I am really glad that groups you are in haven't gone this way. Of course the vast majority of people know sex is real, no matter their other opinions, unfortunately most aren't prepared to say it.

Most people will say it regardless of political leaning. Most people are biological realists.

I hate how the trans shitshow has been used by culture warriors. It's not left wing. It was brought down on us by the Tory government. The fight against it began with GC feminism. The women fighting back, through the courts, for women's rights, are feminists.😁

Only culture warriors claim it's a right/left wing thing.🙄

Hatemonger Tommy Robinson doesn't give a shit about women so it's a bit wick that women support him @Tooting33.😒

TooBigForMyBoots · 18/05/2026 01:42

Toseland · 17/05/2026 09:19

I suspect we would all be still in the dark over the systematic rape of young British girls if it wasn't for him and Maggie Oliver.

What did Tommy Robinson do to bring the rape gangs to justice?

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 18/05/2026 07:25

MyrtleLion · 17/05/2026 17:18

I think if you are gender critical, the algorithm will serve you content that is right wing, because the right wing parties and right wing news sites are usually the only ones to agree that sex is real and immutable.

Gradually your feed becomes a little more right wing and you barely notice it and can find yourself nodding along.

Before you know it you're agreeing that "all Muslim men are a threat to women" and then suddenly you're posting racist opinions.

I saw it happen in my WRN group and was told to ignore it or answer back. Then I was piled on when I did answer back. Eventually I left after a particularly nasty meme was posted in the group.

I wouldn't be surprised if Reform encourages its women members to join such groups and post their opinions to see how much traction they get. It's infiltrated propaganda.

Before you know it you're agreeing that "all Muslim men are a threat to women" and then suddenly you're posting racist opinions.

You may be influenced by ‘the algorithm’ to make such mindless and clearly inaccurate generalisations but don’t put that in the rest of us.

In the same away that posters had to create the NAMALT acronym for the hard of thinking who repeatedly but wrongly accused us of making negative generalisations against men, the same letters work for Muslims.

You would do well to remember that. And criticising unacceptable Islamic practices is not racist.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 18/05/2026 07:38

MyrtleLion · 17/05/2026 18:20

We're all subject to manipulation without realising it. If you limit your feed to similar viewpoints then you will get fed more of that viewpoint. The attached image is a representation of Elisabeth Noelle-Neumann's Spiral of Silence.

Essentially she said

  1. the more acute a controversy
  2. the more adherents of opposing viewpoints avoid each other
  3. the more the estimates of the climate of opinion will differ
  4. they judge more and more
  5. on the basis of fewer impressions
  6. from fewer different social circles.

R indicates reinforcing loops.

So we seek out common ground with like-minded people. We avoid those who disagree. We assume speaking out brings danger to us and they think speaking out brings danger to them. We judge each other more on the basis of less exposure to opposition views from smaller social circles that are completely different to the other side.

This is not that women are stupid. I'm not saying that at all. It's that we may forget how to argue our point because we spend so much time in our own groups.

The best example in the UK is Brexit. We forgot how to argue in favour of the EU and now Labour dare not even mention rejoining.

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But that’s not the case either. We come onto places like here to try and have a sensible discussion with people who have opposing views and develop our viewpoints through discussion but are then yelled at and called racist, like you have just done.

Maybe if you try actually listening and talking to people with views that differ from your own, rather then assuming we have all been brainwashed into suddenly becoming racists, you may develop your thinking a bit further.

MelanzaneParmigiana · 18/05/2026 07:43

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 18/05/2026 07:38

But that’s not the case either. We come onto places like here to try and have a sensible discussion with people who have opposing views and develop our viewpoints through discussion but are then yelled at and called racist, like you have just done.

Maybe if you try actually listening and talking to people with views that differ from your own, rather then assuming we have all been brainwashed into suddenly becoming racists, you may develop your thinking a bit further.

This.
The left constantly put up straw men arguments - they just don’t cut any ice any more.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 18/05/2026 08:10

MyrtleLion · 17/05/2026 19:42

How dare you?

I did try. Repeatedly. Frankly, you can fuck off with the implication that I didn’t do enough.

That’s as maybe but as far as I can see your first post on this thread was effectively accusing us all of being brainwashed racists where no racism has been expressed. If that’s how you argued in the group, maybe you could rethink your approach a little and get a better response?

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 18/05/2026 08:23

5128gap · 17/05/2026 22:04

I don't personally know any GC/sex realist women who are far right and/or support Tommy Robinson. Nearly every woman I know is sex realist. Many are also GC. Most are left leaning or centrist.
Its fairly obvious the far right will be sex realist, but its like all tigers are big cats, isn't it?
If you find that you're ending up hanging out with far right GC people, then give far right people a swerve.

What do you mean by ‘far right’?

Do you mean ‘wants controlled borders and is concerned about the increase of extreme Islam* and the increasing influence of Muslims (some of whom have extreme ideas) on our government while our PM smears anyone with the above concerns as ‘far right islamophobes’?

Which rather bizarrely would include his Muslim Home Secretary.

*as evidenced by the MI5 analysis of terrorist threat, the changes imposed on some local communities and by the openly stated intentions of Islamic extremists in the UK.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 18/05/2026 08:30

TooBigForMyBoots · 18/05/2026 00:24

Most people will say it regardless of political leaning. Most people are biological realists.

I hate how the trans shitshow has been used by culture warriors. It's not left wing. It was brought down on us by the Tory government. The fight against it began with GC feminism. The women fighting back, through the courts, for women's rights, are feminists.😁

Only culture warriors claim it's a right/left wing thing.🙄

Hatemonger Tommy Robinson doesn't give a shit about women so it's a bit wick that women support him @Tooting33.😒

I hate how the trans shitshow has been used by culture warriors. It's not left wing. It was brought down on us by the Tory government.

It was a Labour government and David Lammy that rammed through introduced the Gender Recognition Act 2004. The Tories just looked to take the next step.

The ‘trans shitshow’ has very much been championed with enthusiasm by the authoritarian left but obviously politicians of all persuasions have remained vulnerable to the huge propensity of the trans activists for bullying and forcing their views on everyone.