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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Looking for a gym with female-only changing rooms by sex: a journey

330 replies

2021x · 11/05/2026 00:16

I am trying to find a gym in my city (not UK) that excludes males from the female showering and changing rooms.

I was in my gym and there was a man in the changing room- no attempt to be female other than a sports-bra- and since then I was just stressed everytime I went.

I have emailed a gym who say they are trans-inclusive on a case by case basis and said I should use the accessiblity changing room if I am uncomfortable.

I have also put up a post on Reddit in the local page - that got auto-moderated, and then the same post on the national page that is going through normal moderation.

My post says this

I am looking for XXXX gyms that have female‑only changing and shower areas that are restricted by sex, not self‑identified gender.

I’m comfortable sharing these spaces with other females, but I’m not comfortable changing or showering in areas where males may be present.

If you know of any gyms in XXXX please sent me a direct message.

Wish me luck.

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onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 17:58

spannasaurus · 14/05/2026 17:56

Which piece of legislation was amended?

The GRA is effectively superfluous right now. No amendments needed.I don't think anyone could have predicted the previous two years. Who knows how things will go in the future? We'll see.

spannasaurus · 14/05/2026 18:01

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 17:58

The GRA is effectively superfluous right now. No amendments needed.I don't think anyone could have predicted the previous two years. Who knows how things will go in the future? We'll see.

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The GRA is exactly as it was when it was laid. It always had exceptions.

You say the law has changed and that would require either new legislation or an amendment to existing legislation. You claim the law has changed so I'm asking which piece of legislation you think has changed.

Appledrop · 14/05/2026 18:09

Ladies, just a suggestion, it might be a good idea to stop entertaining this poster and feeding his deflections. Notice the exact pattern every time he is backed into a corner by hard facts: he makes a grand, sweeping statement, but the second someone asks him for a direct, verifiable receipt—like asking him exactly which piece of legislation was amended—he completely chokes, refuses to answer, and hides behind vague phrases like 'who knows what the future holds.'

Nothing has changed. He cannot name a single amendment because every major legal milestone of the last two years has actively dismantled his position—from the Supreme Court's FWS ruling anchoring 'sex' to material biology, to Faye’s monumental workplace safeguarding victory against NHS England today.

He has completely run out of scientific, legal, and structural ammunition, which is why he has been reduced to typing out empty, defensive bluffing. Let's stop giving him the attention he's looking for. His arguments have been completely dismantled; he has failed to provide a single receipt. Let him talk to a silent room.

JanesLittleGirl · 14/05/2026 18:10

If @onepostwonder really believes that he is a woman it wouldn't occur to him to post on these threads.

Helleofabore · 14/05/2026 18:12

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 17:58

The GRA is effectively superfluous right now. No amendments needed.I don't think anyone could have predicted the previous two years. Who knows how things will go in the future? We'll see.

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Even 5 years ago, extreme transgender rights activists pointed out that pretty much the only thing the GRA was there for was for same sex marriage.

Maybe you misunderstood the GRA. On this board we have always noted the exceptions that were allowed. We even pointed it out on this board to barristers who have told us we were wrong and then lost their cases.

So, the question has been asked, what law has changed? Perhaps you have been mistaken that something has changed.

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 18:20

Helleofabore · 14/05/2026 18:12

Even 5 years ago, extreme transgender rights activists pointed out that pretty much the only thing the GRA was there for was for same sex marriage.

Maybe you misunderstood the GRA. On this board we have always noted the exceptions that were allowed. We even pointed it out on this board to barristers who have told us we were wrong and then lost their cases.

So, the question has been asked, what law has changed? Perhaps you have been mistaken that something has changed.

New interpretations of law create new law.

nutmeg7 · 14/05/2026 18:25

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 17:50

you're typing this at me like we all don't recognise the changes in law that have occured since FWS.

The LAW has not changed.

No legislation has been passed.

The law was misrepresented by Stonewall and other activists.

The 2010 Equality Act had now been explained in simple terms to prevent further misrepresentation.

It says the same thing in the statute as it said in 2010.

THE LAW HAS NOT CHANGED. SEX ALWAYS MEANT BIOLOGICAL SEX IN THE EQUALITY ACT.

Helleofabore · 14/05/2026 18:38

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 18:20

New interpretations of law create new law.

No. It doesn’t.

Again, you may need to broaden you information sources

Datun · 14/05/2026 18:43

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 18:20

New interpretations of law create new law.

Gawd.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 14/05/2026 18:50

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 17:13

The law is in the middle of changing. Let's wait and see where it ends up first before breaking out the cake and tea.

It's not changed at all.

Stop pretending that FWS was a law change, it isn't.

Helleofabore · 14/05/2026 18:53

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 18:20

New interpretations of law create new law.

Please list one court case before the SC Judgement that interpreted the law differently? because if that court case was ignored by the Supreme Court as setting a legal precedence, then there is an issue.

If no case preceded the SC judgement then your ‘interpretations’ have been wrong interpretations. Stonewall has been now targeted by judges remarks for giving incorrect advice in more than one case now. I would suggest again, that your broaden your advice sources because you sound like you are getting misinformed.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 14/05/2026 18:56

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 18:20

New interpretations of law create new law.

No they don't. Stonewall and many others lied about the law, relying on fear, uncertainty, and doubt plus a big fat dose of branding dissenters "bigots" to get away with the lies. They hid the lie in plain sight, using terms like "going beyond the law" when recommending policies to organisations. This phrase "going beyond the law" was a confession that they knew they were misrepresenting the law couched in #bekind rhetoric.

Three very brave women in Scotland screwed their courage to the sticking place and took the Scottish Govt to court. The Supreme Court considered the legal arguments and declared the truth of the law. The law has not changed. The lies have been exposed.

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 19:17

Helleofabore · 14/05/2026 18:38

No. It doesn’t.

Again, you may need to broaden you information sources

"Another important constraint on judicial law-making is the declaratory theory of the common law, namely that a judicial decision, even when it is in reality innovative, is stating what the law has always been. Fairy tales rule. The judgment therefore has retrospective effect and has great potential to disrupt a settled understanding of the law on which people have relied in transacting business. The principle of legal certainty and the legitimate expectations of people militate against judges taking what Professor Burrows has described as “giant and sudden leaps forward” and confine them to “the incremental interpretation of principle, applied to new ideas and conditions”.67 But even then, the courts are still struggling with the consequences of the judicial recognition in the 1990s of a claim in unjust enrichment arising out of a mistake of law, where the “mistake” is created retrospectively by an innovative judicial decision."

https://supremecourt.uk/uploads/speech_191028_a541d2331c.pdf

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 14/05/2026 19:22

Datun · 14/05/2026 17:43

Your belief in the law looks to be as subjective in reality as some of your other beliefs.

I don't (can't), believe that someone could really not understand what is going on to this extent.

I'd blame their own personal echo chamber, but that poster is on here all the damn time. They must know that the law is the law and that's the end of it.

Who are they holding out for? GLP?

I'd think it was sad, if they didn't fuck everybody off so much.

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Transgender reddit seems to be pinning its hopes on Strasbourg🙄

spannasaurus · 14/05/2026 19:30

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 14/05/2026 19:22

Transgender reddit seems to be pinning its hopes on Strasbourg🙄

I saw that one of the TRAs was suggesting that losing all these cases is their strategy because that provides the proof that the legal system is mistreating trans people once they take their case to Strasbourg. I can't remember if it was Watson or Hayden that said it.

soupycustard · 14/05/2026 19:32

Christ. I mean what they could do is stop being sexist and fight for extra trans spaces. But no. Has to be women's spaces. Bunch of toddlers.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 14/05/2026 19:32

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 19:17

"Another important constraint on judicial law-making is the declaratory theory of the common law, namely that a judicial decision, even when it is in reality innovative, is stating what the law has always been. Fairy tales rule. The judgment therefore has retrospective effect and has great potential to disrupt a settled understanding of the law on which people have relied in transacting business. The principle of legal certainty and the legitimate expectations of people militate against judges taking what Professor Burrows has described as “giant and sudden leaps forward” and confine them to “the incremental interpretation of principle, applied to new ideas and conditions”.67 But even then, the courts are still struggling with the consequences of the judicial recognition in the 1990s of a claim in unjust enrichment arising out of a mistake of law, where the “mistake” is created retrospectively by an innovative judicial decision."

https://supremecourt.uk/uploads/speech_191028_a541d2331c.pdf

What, exactly, was "innovative" about FWS? The SC examined Parliament's law, the Equality Act, carefully and concluded that there was only one way to interpret it that didn't cause "legislative incoherence". This isn't a Roe vs Wade type case where there's ambiguity in how something is worded that allows for more than one interpretation. The EA can only make sense if sex means biological sex.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 14/05/2026 19:35

spannasaurus · 14/05/2026 19:30

I saw that one of the TRAs was suggesting that losing all these cases is their strategy because that provides the proof that the legal system is mistreating trans people once they take their case to Strasbourg. I can't remember if it was Watson or Hayden that said it.

Great plan, well-executed. Damn their fiendish strategy 😁

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 19:39

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 14/05/2026 19:32

What, exactly, was "innovative" about FWS? The SC examined Parliament's law, the Equality Act, carefully and concluded that there was only one way to interpret it that didn't cause "legislative incoherence". This isn't a Roe vs Wade type case where there's ambiguity in how something is worded that allows for more than one interpretation. The EA can only make sense if sex means biological sex.

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FWS reversed the conventional understanding and legal guidance around the administration where protected characteristics listed the EA and GRA intersect.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 14/05/2026 19:43

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 19:39

FWS reversed the conventional understanding and legal guidance around the administration where protected characteristics listed the EA and GRA intersect.

The "conventional understanding" being those lies that Stonewall et al told.

FWS declared the truth of the law. Now no one can pretend that the emperor is anything but bollock naked.

As the SC said, any other interpretation would be legally incoherent.

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 19:45

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 14/05/2026 19:43

The "conventional understanding" being those lies that Stonewall et al told.

FWS declared the truth of the law. Now no one can pretend that the emperor is anything but bollock naked.

As the SC said, any other interpretation would be legally incoherent.

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You aren't refuting what I said.

New interpretations of law create new law.

spannasaurus · 14/05/2026 20:01

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 19:45

You aren't refuting what I said.

New interpretations of law create new law.

Edited

Again I ask. Which part of the Equality Act was amended.

Datun · 14/05/2026 20:11

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 19:39

FWS reversed the conventional understanding and legal guidance around the administration where protected characteristics listed the EA and GRA intersect.

No they didn't. No one 'understood' it to be anything other than what it was.

Hence Stonewall saying they were 'getting ahead of the law'.

They knew what the law was, they just didn't like it.

Too bad.

GailBlancheViola · 14/05/2026 20:14

onepostwonder · 14/05/2026 19:45

You aren't refuting what I said.

New interpretations of law create new law.

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The SC Judgement was NOT a new interpretation of the Law it stated what the Law was, is and always has been.

Stonewall and others with NO legal insight, training or qualifications lied about what the law was, is and always has been and fools chose to believe them.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 14/05/2026 20:24

Datun · 14/05/2026 20:11

No they didn't. No one 'understood' it to be anything other than what it was.

Hence Stonewall saying they were 'getting ahead of the law'.

They knew what the law was, they just didn't like it.

Too bad.

Edited

Yes. But in toddler magical thinking land, laws transactivists don't like are bad and transphobic and are there to be ignored.

Plus they've never been told no until; recently. 😂

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