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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Watch in real time as Trans Reddit turns on one of it's own for suggesting that maybe they are biological men and arguing they are not makes them look unstable.

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 01/05/2026 14:56

www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1t0t604/trans_girl_says_were_all_biological_males/

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Helleofabore · 05/05/2026 15:52

nutmeg7 · 05/05/2026 15:50

What’s it for?

We were told yesterday. To stick penises and sex toys in.

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 15:58

Helleofabore · 05/05/2026 15:52

We were told yesterday. To stick penises and sex toys in.

That sounds okay to me. Why are you concerned?

LetsHaveAPartyParty · 05/05/2026 16:01

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 15:29

Certainly the non-trans women who have a vaginoplasty procedure following cancer treatment appreciate your thoughts.

Now you want to display empathy with women?

Oh wait, but only empathy with the cadre of women who need the surgery that men desire. You’re so transparent.

PeaceWhite · 05/05/2026 16:03

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 15:58

That sounds okay to me. Why are you concerned?

🤦‍♀️ and you think you're a woman 🤦‍♀️

murasaki · 05/05/2026 16:05

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 15:58

That sounds okay to me. Why are you concerned?

You really are a horrible man.

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 16:05

LetsHaveAPartyParty · 05/05/2026 16:01

Now you want to display empathy with women?

Oh wait, but only empathy with the cadre of women who need the surgery that men desire. You’re so transparent.

I understand you must feel very strongly about that belief.

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 16:06

murasaki · 05/05/2026 16:05

You really are a horrible man.

I see. Thank you for your evaluation.

nutmeg7 · 05/05/2026 16:10

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 15:51

Why do I owe you an answer?

No one owes anyone answers, but we can still ask questions.

You show up in a discussion about the differences between a real vagina and a plastic surgery neo-vagina.

As part of that we were earlier discussing the main function of a vagina (joins the womb to the outside world to allow menstruation and childbirth), and its amazing properties.

And whether the main function of the vagina from a male perspective might be essentially a hole to put things in.

Whereas from the lived experience of females it is something quite different.

We are back to trans identified males mistaking form for function, mistaking superficial appearance for a wider female experience of which they seem ignorant, and very happy to remain so while explaining being female to women.

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 16:12

PeaceWhite · 05/05/2026 16:03

🤦‍♀️ and you think you're a woman 🤦‍♀️

I'm assuming the participants are consensually involved. I don't know why this is a focus of the sex realist belief system?

Veilsofmorning · 05/05/2026 16:13

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 15:58

That sounds okay to me. Why are you concerned?

And in two short sentences you have managed to say all that is necessary for your misunderstanding (and dislike) of women to be clear (if it wasn’t already)

ThatFairy · 05/05/2026 16:16

The idea that you can change sex is a result of coddling new generation Americans

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 16:17

nutmeg7 · 05/05/2026 16:10

No one owes anyone answers, but we can still ask questions.

You show up in a discussion about the differences between a real vagina and a plastic surgery neo-vagina.

As part of that we were earlier discussing the main function of a vagina (joins the womb to the outside world to allow menstruation and childbirth), and its amazing properties.

And whether the main function of the vagina from a male perspective might be essentially a hole to put things in.

Whereas from the lived experience of females it is something quite different.

We are back to trans identified males mistaking form for function, mistaking superficial appearance for a wider female experience of which they seem ignorant, and very happy to remain so while explaining being female to women.

Well that's not what I said, and I believe you know this but chose to align my answer with bad faith.

A vagina can exist. A post-vaginoplasty vagina can exist. Both can function, amazingly. You are choosing to malign the post-vaginoplasty vagina.

DeanElderberry · 05/05/2026 16:22

I gave you a comparison yesterday, between earholes (natural, functional) and earring holes (artificial perforations, cosmetic).

If I stop putting my earrings in the perforated hole will close up. My earholes will never close.

Those huge holes for ear plugs or tunnels will not close either, but are vulnerable to damage because they are not natural.

The human body is amazing in its variations in tissue type and skin type. Messing around with it leaves us exposed to infections.

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 16:25

DeanElderberry · 05/05/2026 16:22

I gave you a comparison yesterday, between earholes (natural, functional) and earring holes (artificial perforations, cosmetic).

If I stop putting my earrings in the perforated hole will close up. My earholes will never close.

Those huge holes for ear plugs or tunnels will not close either, but are vulnerable to damage because they are not natural.

The human body is amazing in its variations in tissue type and skin type. Messing around with it leaves us exposed to infections.

I don't remember you posting this to me. I believe you have me mistaken for someone else.

I haven't dilated my vagina in over 30 years. I haven't regularly worn earrings in one set of holes in maybe the same length of time. Neither has closed up. Not all sex realist beliefs are real.

I also agree though, that the human body is amazing.

UtopiaPlanitia · 05/05/2026 16:27

Dominoodles · 04/05/2026 23:51

Nooo, raisins and meat shouldn't be on the same plate

I'm a Gen Xer who grew up with sultanas and apple chunks in her Mam's homemade chicken curry (made with curry powder) or an occasional Vesta drypak curry for a treat - when I went to Uni, seeing proper curry made by Indian friends in Halls blew my tiny wee Irish mind and tastebuds 😂

DeanElderberry · 05/05/2026 16:28

Apologies for assuming that you read the thread you keep posting on. Silly me.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 05/05/2026 16:34

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 16:17

Well that's not what I said, and I believe you know this but chose to align my answer with bad faith.

A vagina can exist. A post-vaginoplasty vagina can exist. Both can function, amazingly. You are choosing to malign the post-vaginoplasty vagina.

Aw, poor post-vaginoplasty vagina. I'm sure it's feelings are hurt.

murasaki · 05/05/2026 16:36

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 16:17

Well that's not what I said, and I believe you know this but chose to align my answer with bad faith.

A vagina can exist. A post-vaginoplasty vagina can exist. Both can function, amazingly. You are choosing to malign the post-vaginoplasty vagina.

That is not true. We are saying that an operation on an existing vagina is different from an op a new hole made out of inverted cock or colon, and which should not be considered to be a vagina as it isn't one.

Quite simple. You do not have a vagina.

And thank you in advance for your thanks on my feedback, and criticism of my 'sex realism'.

LetsHaveAPartyParty · 05/05/2026 16:36

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 16:05

I understand you must feel very strongly about that belief.

Which posts of yours show any empathy with any other women?

murasaki · 05/05/2026 16:37

LetsHaveAPartyParty · 05/05/2026 16:36

Which posts of yours show any empathy with any other women?

You'll be waiting a long time for that.

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 16:40

murasaki · 05/05/2026 16:36

That is not true. We are saying that an operation on an existing vagina is different from an op a new hole made out of inverted cock or colon, and which should not be considered to be a vagina as it isn't one.

Quite simple. You do not have a vagina.

And thank you in advance for your thanks on my feedback, and criticism of my 'sex realism'.

Your fascination at colons is admirable, but I don't believe anyone has been using colon for a very long time because of newer procedures and better, safer donor skin locations.

You believe what you believe. This is a fact.

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 16:42

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 05/05/2026 16:34

Aw, poor post-vaginoplasty vagina. I'm sure it's feelings are hurt.

Its feelings are all good. Nerve endings are a wonderful thing.

solerolover · 05/05/2026 16:47

Helleofabore · 05/05/2026 15:52

We were told yesterday. To stick penises and sex toys in.

I'm just catching up to the thread and that poster was wild, even by TRA standards. I'm still stuck on the case of the trans-identifying man changing whose testicles magically transformed to ovaries.😖

The neo-vagina talk reminds me of the post by a former NHS surgeon on Nick Wallis' blog:

https://genderblog.net/what-exactly-is-a-neo-vagina-then/

The table is absolutely eye-opening.

Honestly, the idea that a sweaty, (sometimes poo-smelling depending on the surgery type) deep surgical wound lined with skin, is anything close to the highly complex and amazing muscular organ, that forms part of the internal and external female reproductive system, would actually crack me up if it wasn't so sad and delulu.

A remodelled penis is exactly that.

What exactly is a neovagina, then?

I was recently contacted by an NHS doctor who is concerned about gender ideology and its capture of his profession. Let’s call him Dr J. Following retirement from full time work, Dr J is curr…

https://genderblog.net/what-exactly-is-a-neo-vagina-then

nutmeg7 · 05/05/2026 16:47

The only reason I am comparing the form and function of the two is because of posters like onepost showing up and banging on about there being no difference between biological women and trans women post-surgery.

Then we get our naive sounding other visitor spouting absolute biological shite because they have poor comprehension and research skills, and have been gaslit by trans activists into believing the impossible because they are desperate for it to be so.

This is tragic in itself. But I am also beyond fed up of trans women mistaking plastic surgery/artificial hormone induced changes for real female bodies, and of their ignorance of the female experience.

I am fed up of the mansplaining to women about what being female means. It does not seem to enter any of their heads that women might know more about our own experience. The idea that women might have knowledge and experience that they do not share seems totally beyond their comprehension.

They have no respect at all for female people, they just wish to appropriate a male protected fantasy of that experience, and call it the real thing while shouting women down.

It’s the lack of self awareness of their own ignorance of the real female embodied experience that gets me.

UtopiaPlanitia · 05/05/2026 16:48

DeanElderberry · 05/05/2026 10:09

I wish we'd had the next three seasons, and had never had that awful final episode of Season four.

Can I recommend reading the 4 novels set after the end of Enterprise S4 - they correct the horror of Trip's death in a very satisfying way and also deal with the Romulan War.

The Rise of the Federation novels that come after those aren't quite as good but are still worth reading because there are only about 15 tie-in novels for ST: ENT.

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