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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Watch in real time as Trans Reddit turns on one of it's own for suggesting that maybe they are biological men and arguing they are not makes them look unstable.

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 01/05/2026 14:56

www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1t0t604/trans_girl_says_were_all_biological_males/

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GreyskySexRealistsky · 05/05/2026 16:49

Ugh

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 05/05/2026 16:53

RedToothBrush · 04/05/2026 16:37

I'm howling at that gem.

Are we supposed to take dickhead who come out with this crap seriously?

GCSE science really has gone downhill since the 90s hasn't it!

Nope, Science GCSE hasn't gone downhill.

GCSE Biology specifications still state that XY makes a male and XX is female. Puberty differences, contraception and tje female menstrual cycle are also still in the specifications.

Source: been a science teacher for 18 years.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 05/05/2026 16:53

SirEctor · 05/05/2026 13:53

Thank you. Pales in comparison to the terrible things that many of the women here have gone through, but I just wanted to say it. Living with a female reproductive system is so much more than having a hole between our legs and it is really the most vile misogyny to reduce it to such.

💯

💐

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 16:55

nutmeg7 · 05/05/2026 16:47

The only reason I am comparing the form and function of the two is because of posters like onepost showing up and banging on about there being no difference between biological women and trans women post-surgery.

Then we get our naive sounding other visitor spouting absolute biological shite because they have poor comprehension and research skills, and have been gaslit by trans activists into believing the impossible because they are desperate for it to be so.

This is tragic in itself. But I am also beyond fed up of trans women mistaking plastic surgery/artificial hormone induced changes for real female bodies, and of their ignorance of the female experience.

I am fed up of the mansplaining to women about what being female means. It does not seem to enter any of their heads that women might know more about our own experience. The idea that women might have knowledge and experience that they do not share seems totally beyond their comprehension.

They have no respect at all for female people, they just wish to appropriate a male protected fantasy of that experience, and call it the real thing while shouting women down.

It’s the lack of self awareness of their own ignorance of the real female embodied experience that gets me.

"...posters like onepost showing up and banging on about there being no difference between biological women and trans women post-surgery."

I've never said there is no difference. It is your claim that I 'bang on' about no difference. Just as sex realists make wild claims and impose motivations on others to strengthen their beliefs amongst themselves.

solerolover · 05/05/2026 16:56

solerolover · 05/05/2026 16:47

I'm just catching up to the thread and that poster was wild, even by TRA standards. I'm still stuck on the case of the trans-identifying man changing whose testicles magically transformed to ovaries.😖

The neo-vagina talk reminds me of the post by a former NHS surgeon on Nick Wallis' blog:

https://genderblog.net/what-exactly-is-a-neo-vagina-then/

The table is absolutely eye-opening.

Honestly, the idea that a sweaty, (sometimes poo-smelling depending on the surgery type) deep surgical wound lined with skin, is anything close to the highly complex and amazing muscular organ, that forms part of the internal and external female reproductive system, would actually crack me up if it wasn't so sad and delulu.

A remodelled penis is exactly that.

Edited

I hit enter too early and forgot to add this quote from a surgeon who performed such surgeries as well:

Georges Burou, a Casablancan physician who has operated on over 700 American men, expressed the superficiality of sex-conversion surgery in these words: “I don’t change men into women. I transform male genitals into genitals that have a female aspect. All the rest is in the patient’s mind.”

ThatFairy · 05/05/2026 16:56

In 5 years you may not be able to talk like this

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 16:57

solerolover · 05/05/2026 16:47

I'm just catching up to the thread and that poster was wild, even by TRA standards. I'm still stuck on the case of the trans-identifying man changing whose testicles magically transformed to ovaries.😖

The neo-vagina talk reminds me of the post by a former NHS surgeon on Nick Wallis' blog:

https://genderblog.net/what-exactly-is-a-neo-vagina-then/

The table is absolutely eye-opening.

Honestly, the idea that a sweaty, (sometimes poo-smelling depending on the surgery type) deep surgical wound lined with skin, is anything close to the highly complex and amazing muscular organ, that forms part of the internal and external female reproductive system, would actually crack me up if it wasn't so sad and delulu.

A remodelled penis is exactly that.

Edited

This is a wild ride. The straw neovagina is formidable!

Helleofabore · 05/05/2026 16:57

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 15:58

That sounds okay to me. Why are you concerned?

Because vaginas are not just sex toys. It is a misogynistic reduction that allows men to claim to be women

And ewwww.

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 05/05/2026 16:57

Last year (May 2025) AQA Biology 2 paper had a question that required students to correctly sex a rabbit, from the chromosome array. Rabbits, as other mammals, have XX chromosomes as female. Even my bottom set students got that one right! And the examiners comments remarked that it was, nationally, a well answered question.

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 16:58

Helleofabore · 05/05/2026 16:57

Because vaginas are not just sex toys. It is a misogynistic reduction that allows men to claim to be women

And ewwww.

Edited

A reasonable person would know my answer was not a comprehensive declaration on the function of all vaginas.

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 16:59

ThatFairy · 05/05/2026 16:56

In 5 years you may not be able to talk like this

In 5 years I could be dead. So, there's a possibility. Yes.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 05/05/2026 17:04

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 16:42

Its feelings are all good. Nerve endings are a wonderful thing.

Edited

I only have direct experience of one vagina. I'm pleased that it is a genuine one, that has coped with everything that it is designed for. It doesn't, of course, have any feelings, but is part of a wonderful reproductive system which, in cooperation with a male reproductive system, has done its job. It is not a surgical imitation, carved and sewn out of other body parts. It is an organically grown part of the complete body of a wonderful, glorious woman. It is fully integrated with the rest of that complex organism.

solerolover · 05/05/2026 17:05

SirEctor · 05/05/2026 13:53

Thank you. Pales in comparison to the terrible things that many of the women here have gone through, but I just wanted to say it. Living with a female reproductive system is so much more than having a hole between our legs and it is really the most vile misogyny to reduce it to such.

I'm so, so sorry for what you went through SirEctor.

I'm e-hugging you very hard right now. Flowers

And yes, you're so right regarding the vile misogyny of reducing our complex reproductive systems to a hole. Male people will never understand.

ThatFairy · 05/05/2026 17:07

This is getting silly now

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 17:07

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 05/05/2026 17:04

I only have direct experience of one vagina. I'm pleased that it is a genuine one, that has coped with everything that it is designed for. It doesn't, of course, have any feelings, but is part of a wonderful reproductive system which, in cooperation with a male reproductive system, has done its job. It is not a surgical imitation, carved and sewn out of other body parts. It is an organically grown part of the complete body of a wonderful, glorious woman. It is fully integrated with the rest of that complex organism.

That's awesome for you.

murasaki · 05/05/2026 17:09

A Frankenfanny is not a vagina. You know this really.

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 17:09

murasaki · 05/05/2026 17:09

A Frankenfanny is not a vagina. You know this really.

Is this the official sex realist term of art?

nutmeg7 · 05/05/2026 17:13

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 16:55

"...posters like onepost showing up and banging on about there being no difference between biological women and trans women post-surgery."

I've never said there is no difference. It is your claim that I 'bang on' about no difference. Just as sex realists make wild claims and impose motivations on others to strengthen their beliefs amongst themselves.

You are not the only transwomen who posts on here. You have expressed the belief that you are a woman because people “treat you as one”. It is offensive to biological women to tell us that being a woman is only about your reflection in the eyes of others.

I have NEVER seen you express any respect for or acknowledgement of the experiences and understanding of female people that might lie outside your own experience. It is all about the appropriation and minimising of differences. I can see why you would need to do that, but don’t imagine that it changes how biological women feel about the attempts to remove our ability to discuss the reality of our lives without including males who have adopted a female identity.

You don’t have to come here to repeatedly tell us off, that’s your choice.

Wearenotborg · 05/05/2026 17:15

FireHorse2026 · 05/05/2026 13:50

@Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g the smug "educate yourself" has done wonders for the GC cause. The more women educate themselves on this issue the more GC women there are lol.

It’s how I went from be kind to here lol

ThatFairy · 05/05/2026 17:18

@nutmeg7 it's important that there is genuine discourse on the topic rather than this being an echo chamber just like every other place on the internet

Wearenotborg · 05/05/2026 17:19

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 15:49

Well, firstly it ceases to be a wound when the tissue heals. Sex realist ideas about vaginoplasty are wrong in so many ways. It serves no one to attempt to clarify reality, as they will continue to create their own stories.

Eerrr no. Makes with a trans identity who get. That surgery need to dilate every day for the rest of their lives. Why do you not know this? I thought as you’d had the surgery you would know. Or are you er… fibbing about that?

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 17:20

nutmeg7 · 05/05/2026 17:13

You are not the only transwomen who posts on here. You have expressed the belief that you are a woman because people “treat you as one”. It is offensive to biological women to tell us that being a woman is only about your reflection in the eyes of others.

I have NEVER seen you express any respect for or acknowledgement of the experiences and understanding of female people that might lie outside your own experience. It is all about the appropriation and minimising of differences. I can see why you would need to do that, but don’t imagine that it changes how biological women feel about the attempts to remove our ability to discuss the reality of our lives without including males who have adopted a female identity.

You don’t have to come here to repeatedly tell us off, that’s your choice.

"...You have expressed the belief that you are a woman because people “treat you as one”.

I have shared this as one aspect in an answer to "how do you know you're woman?" and other sex realist 10 most common questions regarding the social lives of trans women.

"I have NEVER seen you express any respect for or acknowledgement of the experiences and understanding of female people that might lie outside your own experience."

I assume this is because you choose what to see and squeeze that into your belief system. You choose to evaluate life experience as appropriation. You choose to recontextualise answers and statements about lives within a value system that invalidates the experiences of such people in this space.

There is no other sex realist space like this on the Internet. I am here to understand. Sometimes I need to challenge assumptions to do this.

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 17:21

Wearenotborg · 05/05/2026 17:19

Eerrr no. Makes with a trans identity who get. That surgery need to dilate every day for the rest of their lives. Why do you not know this? I thought as you’d had the surgery you would know. Or are you er… fibbing about that?

Edited

As I said, not every sex realist belief is real.

murasaki · 05/05/2026 17:22

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 17:20

"...You have expressed the belief that you are a woman because people “treat you as one”.

I have shared this as one aspect in an answer to "how do you know you're woman?" and other sex realist 10 most common questions regarding the social lives of trans women.

"I have NEVER seen you express any respect for or acknowledgement of the experiences and understanding of female people that might lie outside your own experience."

I assume this is because you choose what to see and squeeze that into your belief system. You choose to evaluate life experience as appropriation. You choose to recontextualise answers and statements about lives within a value system that invalidates the experiences of such people in this space.

There is no other sex realist space like this on the Internet. I am here to understand. Sometimes I need to challenge assumptions to do this.

Parklife

onepostwonder · 05/05/2026 17:22

murasaki · 05/05/2026 17:22

Parklife

I have no idea what a parklife is.

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