All I’m seeing is an argument, there isn’t enough context to understand the terms of it or who is right or wrong, seems plenty of not listening/frustration on all sides. If you slow the video you can see the phone wasn’t deliberately dropped, it was placed it too close to the edge of the desk, it wobbled then fell. The male lawyer is also certainly being aggressive and unnecessarily getting in the trans lawyer’s face, which is unprofessional in itself, but no consequences for him.
As for the rest, being physically restrained is legitimately terrifying, can be genuinely painful, can restrict breathing – and as everyone should be aware from famous cases, overly harsh, prolonged, or incorrectly applied restraint can kill people. Honestly I’d like to see anyone here deal with it without panicking. It’s all very well just saying “don’t resist then” but if you’re genuinely in fear of your life then your animal brain takes over.
Also honestly not really seeing the feminism in declaring that this person is clearly female because of their reaction – there’s plenty of bodycam footage out there of biological males panicking in restraint, screaming that they can’t breathe, calling for their mothers etc.
Was this shared purely so people could point and laugh at a trans person?
For those of you gloating because you’re enjoying seeing a trans person getting “consequences”, what do you think that says about you?