Fucking disgusting MEN

[HootyMcBoobys]

So my teenage daughter works in a well known clothes store, she routinely has to deal with difficult customers but has just come home very upset.

Apparently a shirtless male walked into the store (there is no security guard) and took a pile of clothes into the changing room. He was in there for some time and then came out, still shirtless, and handed my daughter the pile pf clothes which were all tangled together in a bundle, said he didn't want anything, and walked out of the store.

Upon straightening out the items for re-hanging, my daughter found that he had ejaculated all over a pair of boxer shorts.
My daughter is horrified. She alerted to store manager who said he will "deal with it" but nothing else was done and the police were not called.

I have just found out that a few weeks ago another man was "escorted" out of the store after being found wanking in the changing room. They are not sure if this is the same person or not.

I am so infuriated that he very probably handed the clothes to my daughter as part of the whole fetish, involving an innocent kid in his depravity.

I am so fed up of entitled, depraved male lunatics enforcing themselves on women. Not sure why I'm posting here but just very very sad and upset for her and also angry at the manager ( a male) who will probably do nothing.

I'm so sorry to read this, your poor daughter. And her useless manager is making matters worse. I can't believe that he wouldn't report these incidents to the Police. Who knows how many clothes shops that chap is wanking in?

SOME MEN are fucking disgusting

Yeah, but it's ALWAYS the men.

Waiting for the 'some men' comment from someone.
Oh, hang on...there it is.

They should post CCTV images of him on social media for a public shaming, like when that Ross from friends lookalike went viral for shoplifting. Although in this case the perv would probably enjoy it.

YANBU they’re fucking vile

The number of grown men I know who announce they’re ‘off to take a shit’ - can you even imagine women saying that?

They seem to think a public display of their disgusting bodily functions is somehow masculine.

It's almost certainly the same man. The store manager should absolutely have contacted the police. Surely he could be identified by CCTV? As she's young, if she doesn't feel confident enough to tackle management about this herself then as her mum perhaps you should speak to them and tell them you are going to involve the police if they don't, and contact their head office to complain about the lack of action as well.

Btw - call the police! They can get a DNA profile from that - you never know, if he’s a sex offender they’ll get a match. This kind of behaviour often escalates so I would encourage her to do it.

Seriously, that’s your first thought here.

@HootyMcBoobys - it’s bloody disgusting. Men are disgusting, and I’m very sorry for your daughter. If her manager isn’t going to do anything, can you report it to the police yourself.

A very good point!! Revolting specimen. Should be castrated.

I'd call the police too and report it to head office. He targeted your daughter in this and knew exactly what he was doing - I'm so sorry this happened to her. Men are fucking vile in a way women just aren't.

I dont think all men are disgusting but quite a lot are.

I have a wonderful husband and 2 sons so yes SOME men.

I’m sure the mother of this creature thinks he’s wonderful as well.

I used to be a probation officer and sadly this is not uncommon. And yes its absolutely a sexual motivation and the police should have been called. You wouldn't actually believe some of the cases I came across, things I couldn't believe anyone could even think up, and yes it was always men. Many of them outwardly "respectable". Many of them quite young too. Which I always found worse in a way. It showed things are getting no better, arguably worse which is frightening.

So do I. And mine are more wonderful than yours.

But I also know the difference between men as a class and men as individuals.

And men as a class are an utter menace with all the power to stop it and zero inclination.

Well you have a good point there

I wondered if it was a very well known pattern of behaviour. Depressing isn't it? Really hope a Police report is made about this incident.

@HootyMcBoobys i'm so sorry for your poor DD.

My husband and son are the best. Also my father, brother, BIL, boss, PE teacher! I swear there are women who come here just to post this on every thread! 🙄

So sorry for your DD, OP. Men as a class are deeply, deeply terrible.

He won't stop & every time he gets away with it encourages him to repeat the offence & emboldens him to go further. Does this store manager really want to be the guy who could have prevented far worse sexual offences but couldn't be arsed with the admin?

The police should be called & given the garments & access to CCTV, the offences to complain of are, "outraging public decency" & criminal damage. Because he damaged the clothes with his emissions I'd throw in "committing an offence with intent to commit a sexual offence" & because he specifically handed the sexually soiled clothes to your daughter, "attempting to engage in sexual activity without consent". That last one's tricky but it worked in this case; https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-somerset-65925789

Edited to fix typo

Oh, I'd believe you, @DancingLions . They walk among us [shudders].

So tell us what store this is, so we can boycott it.

I get so so depressed with the some meners on posts like this. That young woman has had to deal with some fucking filthy bastard, and that's the response? The shame of it.

I agree. He’s already committing offences in public, and involving at least one unconsenting young woman. He needs to be stopped before he escalates to violence.

Never forget Sarah Everard’s killer, who started out committing the ‘minor’ offence of indecent exposure and worked his way up to kidnapping and murder.