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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Ex Copper TRA arrested, finally.

185 replies

BorgQueen · 14/02/2026 14:05

He looks exactly how you imagine he would, very camera shy, unsurprisingly.
Some excellent strategy by Wings over Scotland, they managed to get him arrested at a court hearing of yet another malicious case brought by him.
Well played, very well played.

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SternJoyousBeev2 · 16/02/2026 10:30

Agree @LightningMode and he has a pack of equally dangerous mates, but LW may be the most deluded of the pack.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 16/02/2026 11:53

I was trying to get into the head of this man and I made my self sick. 🤢
He's definitely unmoored from reality, he seems obsessed with punishing those who won't comply, the level of self-righteous that he brings to his crusade is totally unhinged. I wouldn't be surprised if he was certifiable.

Shedmistress · 16/02/2026 11:57

He looks like he should join Status Quo to be honest.

Rainingrain · 16/02/2026 11:59

This is exactly the sort of person who should be labelled a vexatious litigant - someone the courts has made clear is completely wrong but who tries to constantly fight the same fight and use the court system itself as punishment for his victims even though the court has been clear that he is wrong.

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 16/02/2026 12:27

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 16/02/2026 11:53

I was trying to get into the head of this man and I made my self sick. 🤢
He's definitely unmoored from reality, he seems obsessed with punishing those who won't comply, the level of self-righteous that he brings to his crusade is totally unhinged. I wouldn't be surprised if he was certifiable.

I tried to comprehend him as well, after reading what Helen J wrote, but I just can't. Unmoored from reality seems about right, and he's definitely obsessed.
He's doing the whole trans thing no favours, we all have to live in a world with people we don't agree with, they just aren't that special.

Dumbo12 · 16/02/2026 13:44

My thoughts on why this man behaves as he does, this is, of course theory only, as i have never met the man!.
He was possibly abused by a woman as a small child and so identified as woman, to "protect " himself, his early sexual fantasy/ porn use triggered the sexual fantasy of himself as a girl. He then became so invested in this "persona", while knowing that he was still male, that he had to squash his self knowledge by lots of mental " noise". He was also affirmed by those around him, feted for being stunning and brave this in itself becomes addictive and he can't cope with the change of perception. He has to keep the merry go round going to stop himself from having to have who he is and what he has done.

LightningMode · 16/02/2026 13:45

Dumbo12 · 16/02/2026 13:44

My thoughts on why this man behaves as he does, this is, of course theory only, as i have never met the man!.
He was possibly abused by a woman as a small child and so identified as woman, to "protect " himself, his early sexual fantasy/ porn use triggered the sexual fantasy of himself as a girl. He then became so invested in this "persona", while knowing that he was still male, that he had to squash his self knowledge by lots of mental " noise". He was also affirmed by those around him, feted for being stunning and brave this in itself becomes addictive and he can't cope with the change of perception. He has to keep the merry go round going to stop himself from having to have who he is and what he has done.

Please do not blame a woman for his behaviour.

Dumbo12 · 16/02/2026 13:49

LightningMode · 16/02/2026 13:45

Please do not blame a woman for his behaviour.

I did not blame a woman, but have come across trans identified men who were sexually abused by their mothers when they were small boys. It is not helpful, in my experience, to paint all women as incapable of sexual abuse of children. The vast majority of those who sexually abuse children are men, but there are women who do and they have an impact on child survivors.

DeanElderberry · 16/02/2026 14:05

I accept that it is possible, but unless you witnessed it yourself it is quite a stretch to take the word of a man who you know to have a problematic relationship with objective truth and who wants to justify their own actions.

Dumbo12 · 16/02/2026 14:18

DeanElderberry · 16/02/2026 14:05

I accept that it is possible, but unless you witnessed it yourself it is quite a stretch to take the word of a man who you know to have a problematic relationship with objective truth and who wants to justify their own actions.

Having worked with survivors of abuse for decades, I did indeed believe the trans identified men who told about being abused by their mothers. I do not believe that this makes them women, i believe it makes them men with very specialised psychological needs, who should never be given surgery and/ or cross sex hormones. It does not help any of us to not investigate the men who use needful in their early 20's and continue with the delusion into their 50's and 60's.

LightningMode · 16/02/2026 14:18

Dumbo12 · 16/02/2026 13:49

I did not blame a woman, but have come across trans identified men who were sexually abused by their mothers when they were small boys. It is not helpful, in my experience, to paint all women as incapable of sexual abuse of children. The vast majority of those who sexually abuse children are men, but there are women who do and they have an impact on child survivors.

You are apportioning causation where there may only be correlation.

And yes, you did blame a woman.

Dumbo12 · 16/02/2026 14:20

LightningMode · 16/02/2026 14:18

You are apportioning causation where there may only be correlation.

And yes, you did blame a woman.

You are, of course, entitled to your view, as am I.

SidewaysOtter · 16/02/2026 14:27

Dumbo12 · 16/02/2026 13:44

My thoughts on why this man behaves as he does, this is, of course theory only, as i have never met the man!.
He was possibly abused by a woman as a small child and so identified as woman, to "protect " himself, his early sexual fantasy/ porn use triggered the sexual fantasy of himself as a girl. He then became so invested in this "persona", while knowing that he was still male, that he had to squash his self knowledge by lots of mental " noise". He was also affirmed by those around him, feted for being stunning and brave this in itself becomes addictive and he can't cope with the change of perception. He has to keep the merry go round going to stop himself from having to have who he is and what he has done.

Blimey, I hope you warmed up before that stretch or you’re going to do yourself a mischief.

I’ve seen a lot of apologists come on here and try to spin why the poor ickle man is actually the victim, but that is almost impressive in its determination to find an excuse, however far-fetched.

UtopiaPlanitia · 16/02/2026 14:29

Dumbo12 · 16/02/2026 14:18

Having worked with survivors of abuse for decades, I did indeed believe the trans identified men who told about being abused by their mothers. I do not believe that this makes them women, i believe it makes them men with very specialised psychological needs, who should never be given surgery and/ or cross sex hormones. It does not help any of us to not investigate the men who use needful in their early 20's and continue with the delusion into their 50's and 60's.

Based on reading them talk about themselves, and their behaviours, to each other, I've seen these men constructing sympathetic narratives to hide their fetish-driven behaviour, particularly in their dealings with medics, counsellors, and state bureaucracy. They only admit to each other that they do this because they know it would not be well received by the rest of society.

LightningMode · 16/02/2026 14:32

LightningMode · 16/02/2026 14:18

You are apportioning causation where there may only be correlation.

And yes, you did blame a woman.

And that is even if they were telling you the truth, as a PP has pointed out. Maybe you were being manipulated?

Please do not blame women for men's behaviour.

Dumbo12 · 16/02/2026 14:34

Understanding the drives behind behaviour is not excusing that behaviour. People are expressing a wish to understand the man, i suggested some explanation.
The absolute need to keep chaos around him, alongside his apparent belief that he is always right suggests a form of personality disorder which may well stem from poor attachment, which can correlate to early sexual abuse from a primary care giver

LightningMode · 16/02/2026 14:35

Dumbo12 · 16/02/2026 14:34

Understanding the drives behind behaviour is not excusing that behaviour. People are expressing a wish to understand the man, i suggested some explanation.
The absolute need to keep chaos around him, alongside his apparent belief that he is always right suggests a form of personality disorder which may well stem from poor attachment, which can correlate to early sexual abuse from a primary care giver

Which you decided was a woman.

solerolover · 16/02/2026 14:36

1st rule of misogyny: Women are responsible for what men do.

trollbusterxtra.wordpress.com/2019/11/17/the-rules-of-misogyny-updated-2019/

CarrotGiraffeandaTeddyBear · 16/02/2026 14:37

and their argument that these TW would be’outed’ if they had to use the men’s loos. They are so fucking delusional.

AppleDumplingWithCustard · 16/02/2026 14:38

Shedmistress · 16/02/2026 11:57

He looks like he should join Status Quo to be honest.

Ah no! Don’t insult the Quo.

Dumbo12 · 16/02/2026 14:40

LightningMode · 16/02/2026 14:35

Which you decided was a woman.

The cases that I'm thinking of, it was a woman who sexually abused her son. We do not do women any favours by pretending that none of us ever can be guilty of sexual abuse.
The vast majority of abusers are male, but there are still women who sexually abuse children. The survivors of csa, who experience the most damage are those abused by their primary care giver, there is not enough research into why, or into why some women abuse

EricTheHalfASleeve · 16/02/2026 14:54

He's clearly got a lot of issues and is a deeply unpleasant and vindictive man. That's all anyone other than his own doctor or psychologist can conclude. He might be mentally ill. He might have had an awful childhood. He might just be a git.

DabOfPistachio · 16/02/2026 15:03

Dumbo12 · 16/02/2026 14:40

The cases that I'm thinking of, it was a woman who sexually abused her son. We do not do women any favours by pretending that none of us ever can be guilty of sexual abuse.
The vast majority of abusers are male, but there are still women who sexually abuse children. The survivors of csa, who experience the most damage are those abused by their primary care giver, there is not enough research into why, or into why some women abuse

Yes, it does happen but it also does women no favours to look at an abusive adult man and speculate that it was his mother's fault.
Men abuse at much higher rates than women. It would make as much sense to blame a father as a mother.
In this case, Watson is an adult, a grown man, sixties at least I imagine. His behaviour is his own.

Dumbo12 · 16/02/2026 15:09

DabOfPistachio · 16/02/2026 15:03

Yes, it does happen but it also does women no favours to look at an abusive adult man and speculate that it was his mother's fault.
Men abuse at much higher rates than women. It would make as much sense to blame a father as a mother.
In this case, Watson is an adult, a grown man, sixties at least I imagine. His behaviour is his own.

At no time have I suggested that it is otherwise. It is, i think, useful to at least try and understand what drives the extreme letigiousness of these men. It is my theory that they do this to keep the " noise" going to stop them having to think about reality.

LightningMode · 16/02/2026 15:11

Dumbo12 · 16/02/2026 15:09

At no time have I suggested that it is otherwise. It is, i think, useful to at least try and understand what drives the extreme letigiousness of these men. It is my theory that they do this to keep the " noise" going to stop them having to think about reality.

And your conclusion was - that it is a woman's fault.