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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

“A school faces a threat of legal action over policies that protect all children – so we’re fighting back.”

567 replies

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 03/02/2026 11:48

https://goodlaw.social/a8mo

the GLP are sort of the curse of bad luck so let’s see what happens…

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Greyskybluesky · 06/02/2026 11:17

You have no idea what I was subjected to by men.

The irony klaxon is deafening

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 06/02/2026 11:18

@onepostwonder
I am drawing a line underneath your contributions.

Everyone. If I could suggest we no longer engage. There is nothing more to be learned and a huge amount of useful brain power to be lost.

Only a suggestion though!

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onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 11:20

Hueyblueyandtheshoes · 06/02/2026 10:39

I am also 5ft 4 and 55kg (average woman’s height)

BUT because I’m biologically female I will likely be around
51% less strong than you and you would easily be able to over power me

your body fat will be between 15-24.9%
my body fat will be between 25-30%

This information is only available because the data used correctly uses the category of biological sex.

Edited

I guess the image didn't transfer. The image displayed the "PBF" (percent body fat) reading from a scan @ 25.5%.

Datun · 06/02/2026 11:20

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 06/02/2026 11:18

@onepostwonder
I am drawing a line underneath your contributions.

Everyone. If I could suggest we no longer engage. There is nothing more to be learned and a huge amount of useful brain power to be lost.

Only a suggestion though!

Good call. It's the tell of you know nothing, whilst simultaneously filling up the thread with telling us.

InconvenientlyMaterial · 06/02/2026 11:21

Nominative contradeterminism

New phrase I've just discovered. Seems relevant.

Myalternate · 06/02/2026 11:21

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 11:15

I knew I was going to eventually transition before I was 8. I'm pretty certain attributing transness to shaping up in a 'man world' and dressing and deceiving others is a gender critical belief.

You have no idea what I was subjected to by men.

So over 50 years ago you understood about ‘transition’ ? What were you subjected to from the people around you that gave you the idea it was ever possible?

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 11:22

Myalternate · 06/02/2026 11:21

So over 50 years ago you understood about ‘transition’ ? What were you subjected to from the people around you that gave you the idea it was ever possible?

The library and the dewey decimal system.

Myalternate · 06/02/2026 11:24

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 11:22

The library and the dewey decimal system.

About as sensible as your belief you’ve changed sex.
I sincerely do feel sorry for you.

FallenSloppyDead2 · 06/02/2026 11:25

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 06/02/2026 11:18

@onepostwonder
I am drawing a line underneath your contributions.

Everyone. If I could suggest we no longer engage. There is nothing more to be learned and a huge amount of useful brain power to be lost.

Only a suggestion though!

Your thread, your rules💚💜

FallenSloppyDead2 · 06/02/2026 11:27

Someone mentioned hard drives earlier. It does sound like there are several people, or at least one very domineering person, at OP's school that do need a hard drive check.

Helleofabore · 06/02/2026 11:28

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 06/02/2026 11:18

@onepostwonder
I am drawing a line underneath your contributions.

Everyone. If I could suggest we no longer engage. There is nothing more to be learned and a huge amount of useful brain power to be lost.

Only a suggestion though!

Yep.

Trying to wheedle acceptance through discussions of body fat % is just another wheedling tactic to convince people that male people can be in any way female people.

It is completely irrelevant to the safeguarding of children in school and the provision of female single sex changing rooms.

Hueyblueyandtheshoes · 06/02/2026 11:31

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 11:02

I've weaved between 55 and 60kg due to the holidays, but this is my last testing done when i was at 55 before the holidays. I have no idea how much stronger I am than you.

If we are both within the normal range you will be 51% stronger than me because you are male.

This is accurate based upon biological sex based data.

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 11:31

Helleofabore · 06/02/2026 11:28

Yep.

Trying to wheedle acceptance through discussions of body fat % is just another wheedling tactic to convince people that male people can be in any way female people.

It is completely irrelevant to the safeguarding of children in school and the provision of female single sex changing rooms.

Yes, attribute my response to gender critical assumptions about trans body composition as a demand for validation.

Londonmummy66 · 06/02/2026 11:33

@SingleSexSpacesInSchools - just caught up with the thread and I wanted to say how sorry I am that your daughter has been subjected to that.
This whole thing is basically grooming, pure and simple. "Be kind" to the boy who is kicking off about what he wants as the girls will be nicer to him than the boys. Why can't the boys be kind instead? Why are we engraining sexual stereotypes - girls kindness, boys macho joshing? Why are we teaching girls to pander to men and boys? It just drives me up the wall.

Hueyblueyandtheshoes · 06/02/2026 11:35

@SingleSexSpacesInSchools

Noted your request.

TheNightingalesStarling · 06/02/2026 11:36

OP.... at your DDs school is PE mixed or separate boys and girls lessons? And do they do any contact sports within the lessons?

DialSquare · 06/02/2026 11:41

Datun · 06/02/2026 10:46

As a 5'4 55kg unauthentic woman

unauthentic in British English
(ˌʌnɔːˈθɛntɪk

)

adjective
not authentic or genuine; deceptive

Even the user name fits in with this definition.

Chariothorses · 06/02/2026 11:47

@SingleSexSpacesInSchools So relieved you have raised this abuse and gaslighting of girls in school. On page 1 of this thread I posted a couple of links to the 'Children of Transitioners' group website and their written evidence of what they need in school, including single sex spaces when undressed and staff who don't lie or try and coerce them into lying males are female.

The group have also published an article on the Transgender Trend website about how schools trans policies affect children like them, particularly the safeguarding failures and distress caused by the coercion:

https://www.transgendertrend.com/schools-trans-policies-children-of-trans-parents/

Hope that's helpful.

What is the impact of schools trans policies on children of trans parents? - Transgender Trend

Children of trans parents are routinely ignored in schools trans guidance and policies. How is this group of children impacted?

https://www.transgendertrend.com/schools-trans-policies-children-of-trans-parents/

Chariothorses · 06/02/2026 11:53

@SingleSexSpacesInSchools
The Children of Transitioners group have previously published their submission to the UK government regarding the negative impact on girls caused by male 'self ID' into female spaces and the determination of this group of men (ie who lie they are female) to ignore and over ride normal female boundaries of bodily privacy and consent :
childrenoftransitioners.org/gra-inquiry-submission/

The Courts have also already ruled that children do not exist to validate a transperson's delusion/ fantasies.
https://childrenoftransitioners.org/paperwork/

Hope some of that's useful !

Paperwork – Childrenoftransitioners.org

https://childrenoftransitioners.org/paperwork/

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 06/02/2026 12:03

TheNightingalesStarling · 06/02/2026 11:36

OP.... at your DDs school is PE mixed or separate boys and girls lessons? And do they do any contact sports within the lessons?

Mixed. Believe contact sports like rugby is sex separated though

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TheNightingalesStarling · 06/02/2026 12:07

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 06/02/2026 12:03

Mixed. Believe contact sports like rugby is sex separated though

But are they then allowing boys to self ID into these lessons?

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 06/02/2026 12:09

TheNightingalesStarling · 06/02/2026 12:07

But are they then allowing boys to self ID into these lessons?

It's very hard to know to be honest, there is no written policy, maybe a trans identified female has tried to self ID into male contact sports and been refused? Or maybe they have never asked

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Kucinghitam · 06/02/2026 12:09

InconvenientlyMaterial · 06/02/2026 11:21

Nominative contradeterminism

New phrase I've just discovered. Seems relevant.

This is absolutely perfect Grin

Myalternate · 06/02/2026 12:11

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 06/02/2026 12:03

Mixed. Believe contact sports like rugby is sex separated though

So they are aware sex matters…

Keeptoiletssafe · 06/02/2026 12:13

@SingleSexSpacesInSchools

Yes the reason I and others kept on discussing does serve a purpose to a certain point. It gives those who are new to this the facts and reasons we have safeguarding. It has been pointed out many times that women and men on here are talking about the safety of girls, not themselves. OnePost said there is no answer to my safeguarding questions on women and children - it can’t exist if it doesn’t centre OnePost. It was made very clear.

Moving on, this seems a good place to add this again for anyone new to this. Several years ago, when I was researching ‘inclusive design’ I kept coming across references to two Americans. They have a big company advising schools and other businesses on adding inclusive toilets. They were quoted over here for ‘evidence’ for Part M of the Document T consultation. First is transwoman Susan Stryker, a Professor in Gender Studies. Susan was recruited by Joel Saunders, an architect. I have listened to his lectures available online. He says his original influences for his career in design were taken from design elements used for cruising in male public toilets and incorporating them into homes. Stryker’s work is more boundary breaking. Neither have a health and safety emphasis. Their designs weren’t tested or analysed.

Some of their earlier articles:
Susan Stryker: https://aaa.org.hk/en/like-a-fever/like-a-fever/on-stalling-and-turning-a-wayward-genealogy-for-a-binary-abolitionist-public-toilet-project/type/essays

Joel Sanders: https://www.architectural-review.com/essays/profiles-and-interviews/interview-with-joel-sanders

Remember these two were quoted as evidence for enclosing cubicles (for Part M feeding into Document T) and this government-commissioned report’s remit was to look at people with long term health conditions. There was no discussion on why enclosing cubicles isn’t a good idea but there was also no mention of many long term health conditions either. However in this report there was discussion of non-binary crotch heights for urinals. Periods were only discussed in terms of transmen - no mention of endometriosis. Their reason for recommending enclosed cubicles in the evidence listed is this sentence, ‘A better solution, supported by many transactivists, and increasingly found in trendy nightclubs and restaurants, is to eliminate gender-segregated facilities entirely and treat the public restroom as one single open space with fully enclosed stalls.’

Knowing what I know about what goes on in trendy nightclub and restaurant toilets, this is not down to health and safety. This is creating an environment to accommodate privacy so misuse is ‘out of sight, out of mind’ to the proprietors. It is the opposite of safeguarding. Safeguarding used to be having traditional single sex designs and accessing the only mixed sex, private toilet with a radar key. Edit to add: In schools the unisex toilet was and still is listed to be opposite reception for closer supervision.

‘treat the public restroom as one single open space with fully enclosed stalls’
Interestingly is a design that was suggested by Beth Upton for changing rooms in Fife as well as now being a new design used by secondary schools around the country for toilets. It has been shown to be a disastrous design choice around the country too
https://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/education/drug-dealing-drinking-dirt-problems-28517175

It’s time to align schools to stronger health and safety regulations and legislation.

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