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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

“A school faces a threat of legal action over policies that protect all children – so we’re fighting back.”

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 03/02/2026 11:48

https://goodlaw.social/a8mo

the GLP are sort of the curse of bad luck so let’s see what happens…

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onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 09:44

Hueyblueyandtheshoes · 06/02/2026 09:40

Are you saying that teenage girls and boys have to be taught which sex people are or is it something that is innate?

The reason I ask is because as a middle aged biological female all the heckling, attempted rape, indecent exposure I have experienced in my lifetime was by biological males to me because I was female. How did they know I was female? I was wearing jeans and have short hair. But still the perpetrators knew I was female and I knew they were male.

The reason I am saying what I said has everything with me as a middle aged woman all the (adult) heckling, rape, assault, indecent exposure I have experienced in my lifetime was by men to me because I was a woman. How did they know I was a woman? I was wearing jeans and have had short or no hair. But still they knew I was a woman and I knew they were men.

FallenSloppyDead2 · 06/02/2026 09:48

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 09:44

The reason I am saying what I said has everything with me as a middle aged woman all the (adult) heckling, rape, assault, indecent exposure I have experienced in my lifetime was by men to me because I was a woman. How did they know I was a woman? I was wearing jeans and have had short or no hair. But still they knew I was a woman and I knew they were men.

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Sadly, men being men, I imagine they were heckling you because you present as a woman, not because they thought you actually were a woman

Myalternate · 06/02/2026 09:49

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 09:44

The reason I am saying what I said has everything with me as a middle aged woman all the (adult) heckling, rape, assault, indecent exposure I have experienced in my lifetime was by men to me because I was a woman. How did they know I was a woman? I was wearing jeans and have had short or no hair. But still they knew I was a woman and I knew they were men.

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I’m sorry you were subjected to vile assaults but men who don’t pretend to be women have and continue to be assaulted by other men that want control over their victims. They pick on those they consider weaker.

Coatsoff42 · 06/02/2026 09:50

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 09:44

The reason I am saying what I said has everything with me as a middle aged woman all the (adult) heckling, rape, assault, indecent exposure I have experienced in my lifetime was by men to me because I was a woman. How did they know I was a woman? I was wearing jeans and have had short or no hair. But still they knew I was a woman and I knew they were men.

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But how did you know they were cis men? You probably didn’t check their gender identity and they may well have been trans women still in the closet, or gender fluid men. You should try not to judge people by their appearances. Or of course they could have been trans men who pass really really really well. You have made a lot of assumptions.

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 09:51

FallenSloppyDead2 · 06/02/2026 09:48

Sadly, men being men, I imagine they were heckling you because you present as a woman, not because they thought you actually were a woman

As a gender critical person you would likely have to believe this.

TheNightingalesStarling · 06/02/2026 09:51

Remember people... its men that violent but its all womens fault as we aren't "accepting enough".

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 09:53

Myalternate · 06/02/2026 09:49

I’m sorry you were subjected to vile assaults but men who don’t pretend to be women have and continue to be assaulted by other men that want control over their victims. They pick on those they consider weaker.

I have never met a man who has been drugged by men in a bar used numerous times in the middle of a spree of druggings and rapes of women. Maybe I am just sheltered as a non gender critical woman.

FallenSloppyDead2 · 06/02/2026 09:54

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 09:51

As a gender critical person you would likely have to believe this.

That's a little admission, just there. I don't have to believe one way or the other. I just make my mind up on the facts. You have to believe that they see you as a woman, all day every day.

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 09:55

Coatsoff42 · 06/02/2026 09:50

But how did you know they were cis men? You probably didn’t check their gender identity and they may well have been trans women still in the closet, or gender fluid men. You should try not to judge people by their appearances. Or of course they could have been trans men who pass really really really well. You have made a lot of assumptions.

I sure as hell didn't request ID from any of them. I've never met a trans man who left his semen behind. Perhaps that's a thing now.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 06/02/2026 09:56

Helleofabore · 06/02/2026 09:20

If I remember correctly, sometime on this thread it was suggested that ‘all’ children have the right to privacy in a change room.

This can be taken two ways. First, of course, if a child wishes to use a cubicle, they should if one is available.

However, schools don’t have the space or the time to allow every student to change in an individual cubicle. My child’s recent build primary school had their senior class changing in make shift rooms, not even purpose built change rooms.

There are also no rights governing policy for organisations in general to provide privacy from the same sex category of people in that way. Hence there are still communal changing rooms for each sex.

It is an unreasonable expectation that policy is changed purely to suit male people who have identities that have then rejecting male single sex provisions. As they are not female people, they should not and should never have been accessing female single sex provisions.

In school, it is unreasonable to say that the solution is to have individual cubicles because all children have a right to privacy, when that ‘right to privacy’ is being misrepresented.

Amidt all the derailing, this is an important issue.
Few schools have cubicles in their changing rooms. Neither older or modern school buildings. There are both cost issues and space. Along with the fact that nobody ever anticipated we'd have people trying to remove safeguarding form children by promoting mixed sex changing and showering.

Most children must change for PE / swimming in open plan changing rooms. There are all sorts of issues in terms of changing rooms that are never addressed by those who try to infuence compulsory mixed sex undressing

Coatsoff42 · 06/02/2026 09:57

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 09:55

I sure as hell didn't request ID from any of them. I've never met a trans man who left his semen behind. Perhaps that's a thing now.

I suppose if you think producing semen is what makes you a man?

AnSolas · 06/02/2026 09:57

AnSolas · 06/02/2026 09:42

🤣🤣🤣 just like sexual attraction trope

Anyone playing bingo this morning?

🚩 bingo card is filling up fast

Bluebootsgreenboots · 06/02/2026 09:57

MrsOvertonsWindow · 06/02/2026 09:56

Amidt all the derailing, this is an important issue.
Few schools have cubicles in their changing rooms. Neither older or modern school buildings. There are both cost issues and space. Along with the fact that nobody ever anticipated we'd have people trying to remove safeguarding form children by promoting mixed sex changing and showering.

Most children must change for PE / swimming in open plan changing rooms. There are all sorts of issues in terms of changing rooms that are never addressed by those who try to infuence compulsory mixed sex undressing

Cubicles are also a supervision issue.

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 09:58

Coatsoff42 · 06/02/2026 09:57

I suppose if you think producing semen is what makes you a man?

Fair. At trial, neither indicated they were anything other than men.

KnottyAuty · 06/02/2026 09:58

Greyskybluesky · 06/02/2026 09:41

Said no one in that post or on this thread.

Quoting himself again 🤣🤣🤣

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 10:00

Coatsoff42 · 06/02/2026 09:57

I suppose if you think producing semen is what makes you a man?

As far as the others go. I have my assumptions. As any other person does.

FallenSloppyDead2 · 06/02/2026 10:00

Being assaulted by men is not proof of womanhood.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 06/02/2026 10:01

Bluebootsgreenboots · 06/02/2026 09:57

Cubicles are also a supervision issue.

Yes they are. In some schools PE changing rooms are an opportunity to bully others. Body shaming, stealing property, coercing money from others, taunting - all sorts of issues and for staff, offering adequate supervision that doesn't appear intrusive, encourages classes to change swiftly before the bell goes etc can also be a challenge.
It's why some schools allow students to wear PE kit to school on PE days

Greyskybluesky · 06/02/2026 10:02

FallenSloppyDead2 · 06/02/2026 10:00

Being assaulted by men is not proof of womanhood.

Ugh.

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 10:03

FallenSloppyDead2 · 06/02/2026 10:00

Being assaulted by men is not proof of womanhood.

Who suggested it was?

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 06/02/2026 10:04

I've only got one square left to mark off on my bingo sheet. I'm sure it'll come up soon.

AnSolas · 06/02/2026 10:04

MrsOvertonsWindow · 06/02/2026 09:56

Amidt all the derailing, this is an important issue.
Few schools have cubicles in their changing rooms. Neither older or modern school buildings. There are both cost issues and space. Along with the fact that nobody ever anticipated we'd have people trying to remove safeguarding form children by promoting mixed sex changing and showering.

Most children must change for PE / swimming in open plan changing rooms. There are all sorts of issues in terms of changing rooms that are never addressed by those who try to infuence compulsory mixed sex undressing

Some times thats by design

How many TRA have gotten into positions of authority because their activism is based on gaining acccess to and control over women and children.

Samw old same old

The saying check the harddrive is used for a reason🤷‍♀️

Hueyblueyandtheshoes · 06/02/2026 10:04

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 09:32

Sex is more than just gametes and bodies formed around their use despite what anyone believes.

What else is it then?

DialSquare · 06/02/2026 10:05

Fuck me, the Man Character Syndrome is strong in this one.

Back to the OP. I’m another one who is wiling to donate should you need it.

Coatsoff42 · 06/02/2026 10:05

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 09:58

Fair. At trial, neither indicated they were anything other than men.

Possibly afraid to be their true selves.