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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

“A school faces a threat of legal action over policies that protect all children – so we’re fighting back.”

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 03/02/2026 11:48

https://goodlaw.social/a8mo

the GLP are sort of the curse of bad luck so let’s see what happens…

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onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 20:50

Datun · 05/02/2026 20:05

Men's sport, prisons, intimate care, locker rooms.

Where are all the trans identified women and girls clamouring to be included??

No-where.

And it's entirely unsurprising that you can't see what GC women are talking about.

You're the oppressor class trying to strip women of their rights. Your activism relies on it.

Where are all the trans identified women and girls clamouring to be included??

I have no connection to trans stuff outside of this forum and even I can tell you that they're all over the world. If someone were to be fishing for tokens, maybe they could use Google Search?

My only trans activism is here in this forum. Thanks, now I am giving financial support to orgs. I never knew I had it in me.

Oppressor class.

Thank you for the laugh.

RedToothBrush · 05/02/2026 20:54

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 20:44

I don't want the job. I have no idea who or why someone is trans. Maybe medical science will work it out one day. If someone says they are trans I will support them as a trans person. If they decide they are not trans, I will support them as a non-trans person. It is all I can do.

But I....

Take some responsibility. You just said but I would... But have zero solution and zero explanation above "well I..."

Can you actually get through a post without centring yourself and thinking of others?

You can not have your cake and eat it here. You either are for safeguarding or you are not. Which is it?

If you want to wang on about how we should support trans people and stop non trans people you need more than that. Otherwise we safeguard by stopping all unnecessary and unethical surgery UNTIL we can work out who really is trans BEFORE we start medicalisation because this is the principle of 'Do no harm'.

There is no half in half out make it up as you go along and hope you got it right option.

This also applies to facilities for girls and women. Since we can't tell - but your own admission - who is true trans and who is not we need to keep out all trans.

That includes you. We have no way of knowing if you are true trans or non trans. You admit this. Even then it's not appropriate for to be there because we deserve privacy and dignity and women have no means by which to object if they feel uncomfortable.

Datun · 05/02/2026 20:56

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 20:50

Where are all the trans identified women and girls clamouring to be included??

I have no connection to trans stuff outside of this forum and even I can tell you that they're all over the world. If someone were to be fishing for tokens, maybe they could use Google Search?

My only trans activism is here in this forum. Thanks, now I am giving financial support to orgs. I never knew I had it in me.

Oppressor class.

Thank you for the laugh.

Mate, you've unlawfully been using women's intimate spaces without their consent for 40 years.

Places where they go to clean up leaked milk, to deal with period floods, to be sick when they're pregnant, to miscarry, to get away from men.

It doesn't get more oppressing.

AnSolas · 05/02/2026 20:56

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 19:56

I will apologise to say I cannot believe your characterisation of the situation based on what I understand as gender critical beliefs.

Which part of the situation changes based on your understanding of gender critical beliefs?

Is there a male running a fund raising or
is there not a male running a fund raising ?

If the objective is not to force the OPs girl into having males in
▪︎ her shower area
▪︎ her changing room and
▪︎ her toilet block
what do you think the objective is if that male is running his fund raising?

Please do expand on what your belief is regarding that males motivation and as for any money raised what it may be spent on .....

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 21:11

RedToothBrush · 05/02/2026 20:54

But I....

Take some responsibility. You just said but I would... But have zero solution and zero explanation above "well I..."

Can you actually get through a post without centring yourself and thinking of others?

You can not have your cake and eat it here. You either are for safeguarding or you are not. Which is it?

If you want to wang on about how we should support trans people and stop non trans people you need more than that. Otherwise we safeguard by stopping all unnecessary and unethical surgery UNTIL we can work out who really is trans BEFORE we start medicalisation because this is the principle of 'Do no harm'.

There is no half in half out make it up as you go along and hope you got it right option.

This also applies to facilities for girls and women. Since we can't tell - but your own admission - who is true trans and who is not we need to keep out all trans.

That includes you. We have no way of knowing if you are true trans or non trans. You admit this. Even then it's not appropriate for to be there because we deserve privacy and dignity and women have no means by which to object if they feel uncomfortable.

I was a trans child.

I was apparently an uncommonly tenacious person. I've met maybe two others in my life prior who shared my experience. Our experience is not representative of anyone else's. Being trans is incredibly challenging in ways non-trans people have never been able to convey understanding to me. It is also obvious that trans people have innumerable experiences prior to transition.

The state of NHS trans clinics has had the unexpected result of returning us to the world of 'non-prescribed' HRT that was popular in the 70s and 80s. If gender critical people continue to revert supportive programs and laws, I suspect the trans youth of today may have a lot more in common with me than with anyone from the most recent 20 years or so.

I don't understand a lot of trans experiences. I don't have to. I don't care about true trans or not. That stuff didn't exist 40 years ago. If you say you're trans you're trans. If you say you're not trans, you're non trans.

There's all sorts of trans in-fighting about purity that doesn't concern me and probably shouldn't concern non-trans people.

Oh and "unnecessary" and "unethical" are your beliefs.

RedToothBrush · 05/02/2026 21:13

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 21:11

I was a trans child.

I was apparently an uncommonly tenacious person. I've met maybe two others in my life prior who shared my experience. Our experience is not representative of anyone else's. Being trans is incredibly challenging in ways non-trans people have never been able to convey understanding to me. It is also obvious that trans people have innumerable experiences prior to transition.

The state of NHS trans clinics has had the unexpected result of returning us to the world of 'non-prescribed' HRT that was popular in the 70s and 80s. If gender critical people continue to revert supportive programs and laws, I suspect the trans youth of today may have a lot more in common with me than with anyone from the most recent 20 years or so.

I don't understand a lot of trans experiences. I don't have to. I don't care about true trans or not. That stuff didn't exist 40 years ago. If you say you're trans you're trans. If you say you're not trans, you're non trans.

There's all sorts of trans in-fighting about purity that doesn't concern me and probably shouldn't concern non-trans people.

Oh and "unnecessary" and "unethical" are your beliefs.

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And?

As I say can you get through a post without

But I...

?

It's not all about you.

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 21:15

Datun · 05/02/2026 20:56

Mate, you've unlawfully been using women's intimate spaces without their consent for 40 years.

Places where they go to clean up leaked milk, to deal with period floods, to be sick when they're pregnant, to miscarry, to get away from men.

It doesn't get more oppressing.

This is your belief.

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 21:16

RedToothBrush · 05/02/2026 21:13

And?

As I say can you get through a post without

But I...

?

It's not all about you.

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I suppose I cannot.

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 21:24

RedToothBrush · 05/02/2026 21:13

And?

As I say can you get through a post without

But I...

?

It's not all about you.

Edited

The answer you are fishing for is:

Make pathways to and through transition harder than anything anyone should ever successfully accomplish. Begrudgingly allow those very uncommon few to overcome the cultural hurdles, source resources, convince skeptical medical providers and make it through to a subjective and highly regulated socially invisible and isolated post-transition life.

This was what my life was like 40 years ago. You wish to send everyone back to the 1980s.

No.

Needapadlockonmyfridge · 05/02/2026 21:30

solerolover · 05/02/2026 18:53

Nitter allows you to see the comments without having an account:

https://nitter.net/goodlawproject/status/2018368057194823873?s=46

ETA: the comments are largely supportive of your case and fwiw, so am I

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The comments are heartening.

titchy · 05/02/2026 21:34

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 21:24

The answer you are fishing for is:

Make pathways to and through transition harder than anything anyone should ever successfully accomplish. Begrudgingly allow those very uncommon few to overcome the cultural hurdles, source resources, convince skeptical medical providers and make it through to a subjective and highly regulated socially invisible and isolated post-transition life.

This was what my life was like 40 years ago. You wish to send everyone back to the 1980s.

No.

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Bloody hell. Me me me. What about me. This is what it was like for me.

This thread is advocating for teenage girls. Your current and previous experience is utterly unrelated. We are safeguarding teen girls. You go advocate for trans teens to have their own space. But leave those of us with an iota of critical thinking to make sure girls are safe. And that means not getting undressed in front of male peers which you are supporting.

titchy · 05/02/2026 21:37

And really, you’re the only TRA on this thread. There are always several who appear to come and scold. Even the usual suspects have realised that supporting an action which forces a 13 year old girl's be naked in front of 13 year old males isn’t a good look!

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 21:47

titchy · 05/02/2026 21:37

And really, you’re the only TRA on this thread. There are always several who appear to come and scold. Even the usual suspects have realised that supporting an action which forces a 13 year old girl's be naked in front of 13 year old males isn’t a good look!

I've already agreed that no one should ever be forced to be naked in front of another person.

I continue to be shocked to learn any institution in this day and age would be forcing 13 year olds to be naked in front of anyone. Has anyone told the authorities? Based on this board, I would have suspicions that nakedness isn't the real focus.

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 21:49

titchy · 05/02/2026 21:34

Bloody hell. Me me me. What about me. This is what it was like for me.

This thread is advocating for teenage girls. Your current and previous experience is utterly unrelated. We are safeguarding teen girls. You go advocate for trans teens to have their own space. But leave those of us with an iota of critical thinking to make sure girls are safe. And that means not getting undressed in front of male peers which you are supporting.

If the solution to prejudice of every disliked minority was 'everyone gets their own space,' we would be above a dozen spaces by now.

1984Now · 05/02/2026 21:50

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 21:47

I've already agreed that no one should ever be forced to be naked in front of another person.

I continue to be shocked to learn any institution in this day and age would be forcing 13 year olds to be naked in front of anyone. Has anyone told the authorities? Based on this board, I would have suspicions that nakedness isn't the real focus.

That's a really sneaky response. You certainly know how to play the game. I guess you've had plenty of time to practice.

Keeptoiletssafe · 05/02/2026 21:56

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 18:43

I tried responding to keeptoiletssafe and my post was removed. It would seem gender critical people prefer to ignore trans people's experiences and instead throw accusations at straw men.

The trans men I've met used men's facilities. They joined men's groups and participated in men's recreational sport. But beliefs are beliefs, I understand.

Try again. I didn’t see it. I have spent lots of time looking at what the best designs are for everyone - I want everyone to be safe. That’s why I do this research.

My research is based on several years of evidence. My research findings are not a belief. I wouldn’t say anything I could not back up. I collect data, analyse it and present evidence. I have discussed toilet design with designers, manufacturers, architects, police, government officials, train station staff, cleaners, ambulance staff, other medics, scientists, academics, BSR, HSE, health charities, aid charities, women’s charities, politicians, fire service etc etc. I could write 3 volumes about what happens in non domestic toilets in this country.

Please tell me about the transmen who use men’s facilities. What kind of facility is this? Nightclub? Pub? Station? Schools? Is it toilets or changing rooms? I am intrigued as it is unusual. Did they have any options? What did they say about their experience? What did the men think?

Then please would you answer nine yes or no health and safety questions for me, on design, in return?

These are the yes or no questions so very quick to reply:
Q1) is it a good thing we have a programme of rolling out defibrillators across schools, venues and workplaces so that we have a timely and best chance of surviving if we collapse? ‬

‪Q2) is it important that the place where you go when you feel ill is safe?‬

‪Q3) and in a non-domestic situation that would often be the toilet cubicle?‬

‪Q4) so is it important that you would be found as quickly as possible in the toilet cubicle if the illness increased in severity to the point you suddenly collapsed?‬

‪Q5) so if toilets were all enclosed in full height ceiling-to-floor rooms that were resistant to the passage of sound, do you agree that could lead to delays finding someone who had collapsed?‬

‪Q6) so if we get rid of all the single sex designs that have door gaps to instead make them inclusive of gender, that would mean everyone was more at risk at their most vulnerable?‬

‪Q7) and would those people with invisible disabilities (conditions such as epilepsy, diabetes, heart conditions, POTS) be as safe in the workplace if only enclosed toilets were available?

‪Q8) and would women and children who were led or pushed back into a toilet room be less likely to be rescued in time if there was no knowledge of what was going on in the toilet room?

‪Q9) so would single sex toilets that were in a single sex environment (and had door gaps) also be a preventative measure for sexual assaults on women and children?‬

‪I have studied toilet safety for years now and know the healthiest and safest design for the most vulnerable: the medically vulnerable, women and children. It is the single sex design, which is the one that can have door and partition gaps (typically up to 15cm from floor-door and space above the door and partitions). But this design becomes floor-to-ceiling enclosed when both sexes are in the space in front of the toilet door.‬

‘Inclusive’ designs are least bad for healthy men. Healthy men are least likely to understand the need for safe toilet and changing room design.

titchy · 05/02/2026 21:59

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 21:49

If the solution to prejudice of every disliked minority was 'everyone gets their own space,' we would be above a dozen spaces by now.

It’s nothing to do with being liked or disliked.
It’s everything to do with safeguarding. Where children are in a state of undress, then girls should be separated from males. Where a child needs their own facilities due to a disability then that should also be provided. There are solutions that safeguard everyone, including trans or disabled children (changing elsewhere, or once the rooms have been vacated or using a third space are all examples of how all children can be safeguarded and maintain their privacy. Forcing them to share spaces does not achieve that.

Keeptoiletssafe · 05/02/2026 22:01

@onepostwonder “If you say you're trans you're trans. If you say you're not trans, you're non trans”.

They said they were trans…
https://www.itv.com/news/central/2023-02-21/man-who-said-he-identified-as-female-sexually-assaulted-woman-in-station-toilet

https://www.chroniclelive.co.uk/news/north-east-news/paedophile-secretly-filmed-women-public-28737673

Datun · 05/02/2026 22:03

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 21:15

This is your belief.

Bloody hell, the gaslighting is ridiculous.

It's your assertion. Yours. You said it.

I have spent over 40 years in womens spaces. In toilets, changing rooms, shared sleeping accommodations.

You've been oppressing women and girls for 40 years by entering their spaces without their consent. It's unlawful.

Stop it.

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 22:06

Keeptoiletssafe · 05/02/2026 22:01

Based on what I could see (there was a paywall), they both are claiming a trans identity based on a criminal strategy. Thank you for demanding I narrow and specify my original statement. I suspect you can come up with several other people who gender critical folks believe are prime examples of trans people?

MrsOvertonsWindow · 05/02/2026 22:06

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 21:47

I've already agreed that no one should ever be forced to be naked in front of another person.

I continue to be shocked to learn any institution in this day and age would be forcing 13 year olds to be naked in front of anyone. Has anyone told the authorities? Based on this board, I would have suspicions that nakedness isn't the real focus.

There speaks someone who's never been a teenage girl undressing for a swimming lesson in a communal changing room.

The lack of insight into the lives of women and girls is quite startling.

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 22:07

Datun · 05/02/2026 22:03

Bloody hell, the gaslighting is ridiculous.

It's your assertion. Yours. You said it.

I have spent over 40 years in womens spaces. In toilets, changing rooms, shared sleeping accommodations.

You've been oppressing women and girls for 40 years by entering their spaces without their consent. It's unlawful.

Stop it.

Trans people are not oppression.

Shedmistress · 05/02/2026 22:07

I'm loving 'there isn't a cabal' and that knowing there are two sexes is a conspiracy theory.

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 22:07

MrsOvertonsWindow · 05/02/2026 22:06

There speaks someone who's never been a teenage girl undressing for a swimming lesson in a communal changing room.

The lack of insight into the lives of women and girls is quite startling.

You can staple all the straw men to my statement as you wish.

RedToothBrush · 05/02/2026 22:10

onepostwonder · 05/02/2026 21:24

The answer you are fishing for is:

Make pathways to and through transition harder than anything anyone should ever successfully accomplish. Begrudgingly allow those very uncommon few to overcome the cultural hurdles, source resources, convince skeptical medical providers and make it through to a subjective and highly regulated socially invisible and isolated post-transition life.

This was what my life was like 40 years ago. You wish to send everyone back to the 1980s.

No.

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Do no harm.

It's not about you. It's about children.

You are using children to properly up your own life. Women and girls are less than nothing to you.

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