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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

"Darlington Nurses" vs County Durham and Darlington NHS Trust Tribunal Thread 9

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ThreeWordHarpy · 16/01/2026 12:36

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Five nurses working at Darlington Memorial Hospital filed a legal case against their employer, an NHS trust, for sexual harassment and sex discrimination. The nurses objected to sharing the women’s changing facilities with a male colleague, Rose, who identifies as female. The hearing was held between 20th October and 11th November and was live tweeted by Tribunal Tweets who have comprehensive information regarding this case on their substack, including archives of the twitter threads, lists of people involved and press releases.

At the time this thread was started, the judgment had not yet been published on the Courts website but was widely reported in the media that the NHS was found to have discriminated against the nurses, but the claims against Rose were not upheld.

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Grammarnut · 24/06/2026 17:35

RedToothBrush · 17/01/2026 10:49

That sounds like you are trying to suggest they are thick as mince. That would be unkind.

It would be unkind to mince, which I have always found to be perfectly literate and not thick.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 24/06/2026 17:50

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 24/06/2026 17:22

For most Trusts, I would assume the logistics would be very simple. Literally just rip up the policies (change a few words in a Word doc and republish it) and ensure that their toilets and changing rooms, if they say "Women", mean biological women only. Same for "Men." Then tell all your employees about it and tell them that not following Trust policy will be a disciplinary issue. This is how it was before the Gender Wagon appeared.

Changing NHS culture will probably be the hard part, but I suspect most women will be glad. Probably all of them, even if they won't admit it.

Some men will be #Sad.

ed. SPAG

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If only it were that simple. It is not just one policy - the Trans at Work type policy - or even two policies - Trans at Work plus Single Sex Accommodation type policies. Instead it is (often but not always) embedded throughout all possible relevant NHS policies, including chaperoning, underage patients, maternity and breastfeeding policies, etc, etc.

It will take fine tooth combs and someone working backwards through the Stonewall playbook to eradicate it all.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 24/06/2026 17:59

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 24/06/2026 17:50

If only it were that simple. It is not just one policy - the Trans at Work type policy - or even two policies - Trans at Work plus Single Sex Accommodation type policies. Instead it is (often but not always) embedded throughout all possible relevant NHS policies, including chaperoning, underage patients, maternity and breastfeeding policies, etc, etc.

It will take fine tooth combs and someone working backwards through the Stonewall playbook to eradicate it all.

Ah, yes, forgot about all the other policies! I wonder if they could just use the policies they had in place 15 years ago? I suppose some of those might be outdated now, though.

Could it be done centrally, once , then disseminated to all trusts? Or three times, for England, Scotland, and Wales?

Surely things can be changed locally, staff told verbally, and signs changed if necessary, while the policies are being updated?

moto748e · 24/06/2026 18:02

The idea of x hundred Trusts all individually writing their own (virtually identical) policies did seem absolutely crazy, I must say. Has no MP every queried this?

SexRealistic · 24/06/2026 18:05

singthing · 24/06/2026 16:24

I can almost feel the fury burning through the words "sincere apologies" from the Trust's letter. They would have been apoplectic at having been found so dismally contrary to the law first of all, and now they have to APOLOGISE as well?

Good. Now go "learn your lessons".

Perhaps the Darlington Nurses could get all the middle managers in a room for a bit of re education.

Picture of Rose in Holley boxers - a man
Photo of the nurses - not a man.

Pretty simple!

MyrtleLion · 24/06/2026 18:08

moto748e · 24/06/2026 18:02

The idea of x hundred Trusts all individually writing their own (virtually identical) policies did seem absolutely crazy, I must say. Has no MP every queried this?

The NHS in all the nations should jointly write a policy. I’m aware Northern Ireland isn’t covered by the Equality Act, but it should still distinguish between men and women in changing rooms.

moto748e · 24/06/2026 18:15

MyrtleLion · 24/06/2026 18:08

The NHS in all the nations should jointly write a policy. I’m aware Northern Ireland isn’t covered by the Equality Act, but it should still distinguish between men and women in changing rooms.

You'd think... 🙁

Cailin66 · 24/06/2026 18:30

Wonderful news. Really wonderful. Those lovely brave ladies deserve nothing less, and a lot more.

theilltemperedamateur · 24/06/2026 19:00

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 24/06/2026 17:59

Ah, yes, forgot about all the other policies! I wonder if they could just use the policies they had in place 15 years ago? I suppose some of those might be outdated now, though.

Could it be done centrally, once , then disseminated to all trusts? Or three times, for England, Scotland, and Wales?

Surely things can be changed locally, staff told verbally, and signs changed if necessary, while the policies are being updated?

Ah, yes, forgot about all the other policies! I wonder if they could just use the policies they had in place 15 years ago? I suppose some of those might be outdated now, though

Some things used not to need to be said at all, like 'using single-sex services for the opposite sex is not allowed' or 'patients who request a same-sex HCP should not be treated by an opposite-sex HCP in disguise'.

How about tearing up the 'trans' guidelines and replacing them with a) don't bully trans people, and b) if staff or patients refuse to use services for their own sex, try to provide a gender-neutral alternative if at all possible'?

What did I miss out?

DrBlackbird · 24/06/2026 20:33

SexRealistic · 24/06/2026 18:05

Perhaps the Darlington Nurses could get all the middle managers in a room for a bit of re education.

Picture of Rose in Holley boxers - a man
Photo of the nurses - not a man.

Pretty simple!

And if they can’t or won’t admit to being able to tell the difference, they should not be working in the NHS.

TheKeatingFive · 24/06/2026 21:02

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 24/06/2026 17:50

If only it were that simple. It is not just one policy - the Trans at Work type policy - or even two policies - Trans at Work plus Single Sex Accommodation type policies. Instead it is (often but not always) embedded throughout all possible relevant NHS policies, including chaperoning, underage patients, maternity and breastfeeding policies, etc, etc.

It will take fine tooth combs and someone working backwards through the Stonewall playbook to eradicate it all.

Well they wrote it in, so they can write it out.

No excuses.

SidewaysOtter · 24/06/2026 22:08

The Trust has, however, refused to rule out taking disciplinary action against the nurses for speaking about their case, despite the Tribunal ruling going to the media was ‘a protected act.’

I think any further action against the Darlington Nurses would - in Sir Humphrey's words - be a very courageous decision.

Peregrina · 24/06/2026 22:26

I am not a lawyer - I assume that their 'disciplinary offence' was speaking out. But since the Trust was blatantly flouting both the equality law and health and safety laws, this to me would put them in the position akin to whistleblowers.

I wonder what it will be like for them to work there now.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/06/2026 22:28

I think so too @Peregrina

SexRealistic · 24/06/2026 23:06

I agree they’d be whistleblowers given they only spoke up after exhausting internal procedures and being offered re-education lessons from the man inflicting the sexual harassment.

But like the Scottish Gvt, the NHS seem a glutton for punishment. They might be stupid enough to try something. The Darlington Nurses would go again, and again and win. 🏆

The adherence to this ideology is strong and changing hearts and minds hasn’t followed fast after confirming the law.

Hedgehogforshort · 24/06/2026 23:09

They are protected under whistleblowing rules, which would have to lead to another tribunal.

RedToothBrush · 24/06/2026 23:49

Peregrina · 24/06/2026 22:26

I am not a lawyer - I assume that their 'disciplinary offence' was speaking out. But since the Trust was blatantly flouting both the equality law and health and safety laws, this to me would put them in the position akin to whistleblowers.

I wonder what it will be like for them to work there now.

I would say the Darlington NHS are already on shaky ground purely for refusing to rule out further action at this point given the nature of the case. Legally id argue that really they should be very careful.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/06/2026 23:59

Yes, surely it could be construed as victimisation.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 25/06/2026 08:28

moto748e · 24/06/2026 18:02

The idea of x hundred Trusts all individually writing their own (virtually identical) policies did seem absolutely crazy, I must say. Has no MP every queried this?

There are about 200 Trusts of various sorts. The really crazy thing is that all 200 Trusts are individually writing their own (virtually identical) policies not just on Single Sex Spaces but in thousands of other policies on everything from Car Parks to Bullying to Antibiotic choice etc etc The big dirty secret about the National Health Service is that it isn't National at all but Balkanised into 200 different organisations all reinventing the wheel on a daily basis.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 25/06/2026 08:34

PrettyDamnCosmic · 25/06/2026 08:28

There are about 200 Trusts of various sorts. The really crazy thing is that all 200 Trusts are individually writing their own (virtually identical) policies not just on Single Sex Spaces but in thousands of other policies on everything from Car Parks to Bullying to Antibiotic choice etc etc The big dirty secret about the National Health Service is that it isn't National at all but Balkanised into 200 different organisations all reinventing the wheel on a daily basis.

Where “reinventing the wheel” often means “cutting and pasting from the policies of the trust nearest us, because of course they must have bothered to get legal advice - which we are too lazy to do -and didn’t just c&p from somewhere else themselves.”

lcakethereforeIam · 25/06/2026 09:03

That's what Isla Bumba did in the Sandie Peggie case.

TheKeatingFive · 25/06/2026 09:37

PrettyDamnCosmic · 25/06/2026 08:28

There are about 200 Trusts of various sorts. The really crazy thing is that all 200 Trusts are individually writing their own (virtually identical) policies not just on Single Sex Spaces but in thousands of other policies on everything from Car Parks to Bullying to Antibiotic choice etc etc The big dirty secret about the National Health Service is that it isn't National at all but Balkanised into 200 different organisations all reinventing the wheel on a daily basis.

This is such nonsense. So much money could be saved by centralising this.

KnottyAuty · 25/06/2026 09:40

TheKeatingFive · 25/06/2026 09:37

This is such nonsense. So much money could be saved by centralising this.

Yes!

stickygotstuck · 25/06/2026 10:28

Absolute madness!
The amount of money that would be saved if all policy writing were centralised. And the added efficiency. And improved communication. And increased certainty...

Plus, crucially, you could employ actual clued up experts in the law and regs to write them. Rather than an army of under qualified dummies to copy and paste unlawful dribble.

Too sensible for the NHS, I guess.

stickygotstuck · 25/06/2026 10:32

sohard · 24/06/2026 13:27

The NHS trust not ruling out disciplinary action is outrageous!! How much more of our money is to be spent on their witch hunt against GC women?!

This.

Especially because this is despite the Tribunal ruling going to the media was ‘a protected act.’

Have they no shame? Or brains?

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