No, I now believe that men who live as women deserve the right to that freedom and should be seen as our allies and partners in the much broader fight against the destruction of women’s rights unless they demonstrate otherwise by their behaviour. I believe that people who choose to live as non binary should be respected for that choice.
I know a lot of people on this thread disagree. And I understand why. I also held a GC opinion for a few years.
But I became aware that much of the discussion online on these issues around AFAB/AMAB and sex based rights was being funded directly by the Kremlin and by fascist actors in the US, and is part of a much bigger global process designed to destabilise and splinter female power, to break community solidarity and to reverse our existing rights.
I have watched how (former) friends who were once very left wing have been deeply radicalised through this issue and become tools of the right - online and and in real life
I realised that my attitudes towards trans women were hardening too, and that I too was being manipulated. I realised I had started dehumanising individuals in the way I was considering their rights and experiences.
i decided to step back and review my perspective about how I wanted people to live freely, in comfort and without restriction unless they show themselves an aggressor to women
i changed my views
there’s more nuance than have space for here eg I still believe it is right that medical records should include assignation at birth, but broadly on a socio political level I have shifted
i am only sharing this here for reference for others, not to get into a discussion about it. I have spent many years considering this stuff