Supporting men who want access to women-only spaces such as prisons, toilets, changing rooms, rape crisis centres and so on, is proving to be quite the career killer.
Most mistakes, even very large errors, at work will be forgiven. Providing you're genuinely sorry, explain honestly how it happened, do your best to help to fix it and can credibly pledge it will never happen again.
Dr Upton is now a very, very, high-risk hire. A prospective supervisor or HR hiring specialist will look at his application with horror.
Will he:
- gaslight patients who have asked to see a woman HCP for an intimate procedure?
- require his own expensive changing room and toilet facilities?
- go off sick with stress for long periods?
- fail to treat nurses, and his team of colleagues in general, with the required collegiate respect and trust?
- waste time taking copious notes to prepare for (largely imaginary) complaints against colleagues?
- generate so much additional work for his colleagues through selfish and disruptive behaviour that he becomes a large net financial loss to the hospital?
- result in damage to the professional reputation of the Hospital, and potentially to my own reputation too?
I expect Dr Upton will end up working for a medical centre specialising in transgender 'care'. There, his infamy will be an asset. Elsewhere I can't see him even getting through the sift prior to interviews.
So much hard work was required to get him to this position in his medical career. Yes, he has a very privileged background, but a medical degree (4-6 years) and the 2 years of foundation training are tough for anyone.
It's such a shocking self-inflicted waste of everyone's time, effort and money.