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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

"Supporting trans colleagues through this difficult time."

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StopTheHyperbole · 03/12/2025 21:59

So I've NC for this, I'm a fairly regular poster on this board, but I've been pushed to start this thread as I am just in despair at the hyperbolic statements certain people at my place of work are spouting. Ugh!!!!

Anyway, so, I work in the public sector, there was a big gathering of opinions on the workplace, all invited to chat, round tables, discussions etc. Key questions being: what can we do to improve? How do we do things well? What do you think about our organisation? Etc. It's a yearly thing that's gone on for at least 20 years.

One of the colleagues on another table (everyone asked to write down then summarise discussions) said the company could "do more to help support trans colleagues during this extremely difficult time." Silence round the room and then when asked to clarify, they said "due to the supreme court decision."

I had to physically stop myself from sighing out loud as I was right in the eye line of the person who said this. A young, fairly grumpy they/them (actual female though) from a different team. It's just such utter UTTER bullshit. No one challenged this view, a few people NODDED!!! ARGH, it's just so frustrating.

What difficult time? Nothing is difficult??? The court decision just clarified equality law, why the need for this hyperbole? Nobody is banned from anything, this over-dramatic language about a law being clarified to ensure that single sex spaces are respected in certain circumstances is just...nuts.

Anyway I'm venting, but it worries me it's so prevalent at my work, when we should be neutral to activist causes (as a public sector organisation) and it clearly isn't the case. I wish I'd been braver in challenging this arrogant, grumpy young person but I didn't. And I slightly hate myself for it, but I have kids, mortgage and bills to pay. I just can't rock the boat. HR and the internal equality team are very much on board with it all unfortunately.

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climbintheback · 05/12/2025 17:26

Well female NBs whatever are women go in the mens if you feel like it on the day!

HildegardP · 05/12/2025 17:38

Todaysanewday · 05/12/2025 15:30

I am confused by the they/thems NB people. If its about male and female toilets where do they think they should be?

That's something the Supreme Court settled in a different case. In law they're just men or they're just women, the PC of Gender Reassignment doesn't apply to them, & whatever they may imagine themselves to be, they must use the facilities appropriate to their ineluctable biological sex.

SwirlyGates · 05/12/2025 18:41

Greyskybluesky · 05/12/2025 16:47

No, but it's an interesting question. We know they should use the ladies or gents, but where do they think they should go?

They are probably too special to pee and poo like the rest of us.

TWETMIRF · 05/12/2025 21:24

How binary of you

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