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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

I wonder what the WI are going to announce on Woman's Hour in the next few minutes?

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nauticant · 03/12/2025 10:30

Apparently it will be a matter of the greatest seriousness and sorrow.

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Brefugee · 03/12/2025 11:11

sillygoof · 03/12/2025 10:47

Apparently the WI has had trans members for 40 years. I wonder how many?

well this is the overriding issue isn't it? Probably, in before times, not many of us would have batted an eyelid (exceptions being women who cannot be in a space with a man at all) and would have probably rolled our eyes a bit in private, but been kind and inclusive. Because there would have been very few and they would honestly have been trying to "pass" and so on.

But no. Stonewall barged in and ruined it for those quiet, genuinely dysphoric people. And now they must ALL stay out of women's spaces.

Genuinely dysphoric (i don't want to say "tru trans") people must and should be angry at the TRAs who have utterly ruined their lives over this. Not women who would probably have just carried on carrying on. As we do.

(have not rtft: is this as a result of the MNetter's DH who challenged them?)

JennyForeigner · 03/12/2025 11:11

Can't wait to see an agenda for a sisterhood meeting.

'Welcome
My Important Thoughts about Me (Chair to present)
How to Make Jam In An Expressively Gendered Way'

er...

'AOB Why This Is Not Good Enough and How We Now Campaign To Make the WI Submit to Sisterhood Harder'

Queues out the doors, applause [Brighton Branch only, future meetings cannot be guaranteed, pictures to be taken for the WI annual report to show we WEREN'T WRONG AND WE DON'T CARE)

itsthetea · 03/12/2025 11:11

The men’s shed allows women as well as men - a condition of funding according to DH

whixh surprised me because of the great work they do with make mental health for which I would have thought a sex restriction was appropriate… unlike for making jam

nicepotoftea · 03/12/2025 11:11

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 11:04

I hope the SC are taking note of the ridiculous consequences of their shallowly thought-through judgement.
that civil society organisations are having to exclude people from their membership, against their values, because of (their interpretation of) the law. What kind of a country is this becoming?

They don't have to exclude anyone. There is nothing stopping the WI inviting men to join, as long as they include all men.

Lovelyindevon · 03/12/2025 11:11

How cruel.

Basically telling some members to fuck off, get back in your hole.

I'd imagine this was a safe space for many. Not anymore.

This was in the Guardian this morning.

“As an organisation that has proudly welcomed transgender women into our membership for more than 40 years, this is not something we would do unless we felt that we had no other choice.”
Transgender WI members known to the leadership team at the organisation had already been informed of the decision before an announcement, said Green.
“They’ve been so respectful and so understanding of the decision, but profoundly sad,” she said. “I spoke to one 80-year-old woman who has been in our organisation for decades, who said it was one of the greatest experiences of her life, and the only place in her 80 years where she’s been treated as a woman with respect.”

I'd have thought the WI would have had more bottle. They should be ashamed of themselves.

For reference - the Mothers' Union will have mothers, non mothers, men.

Daleksatemyshed · 03/12/2025 11:12

If in future they'll be WI meetings for women born biologically female and Sisterhood for the TW then I wonder _ how many TW will still attend since it won't validate them as women

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 03/12/2025 11:13

Phew, I saw the thread title and was terrified that it would be something truly schismatic and controversial. My money was on apricot jam being officially declared an abomination.

So glad to see that it's just something as straightforward as the Women's Institute confirming that it's an organisation for women only.

Has Battersea Dogs' & Cats' Home confirmed whether they're expanding to include giraffes and pigeons yet?

Screamingabdabz · 03/12/2025 11:13

“However, this change is only in respect to our membership policy and does not change our firm belief that transgender women are women.”

Who are these absolute morons who believe this? wtf.

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 11:13

ProfessorBettyBooper · 03/12/2025 11:10

Oh did we vote to allow men into women's spaces? I must have missed that...

I was referring to the independence of civil society organisations as a core democratic value and an essential element for a strong and healthy democracy.

It is certainly anti democratic that a civil society group has been forced to restrict their membership against their core values because of (interpretations) of state law.

ItsCoolForCats · 03/12/2025 11:14

Daleksatemyshed · 03/12/2025 11:12

If in future they'll be WI meetings for women born biologically female and Sisterhood for the TW then I wonder _ how many TW will still attend since it won't validate them as women

Yes, and they will be so concerned that it will "out" them 🙄

SexRealismBeliefs · 03/12/2025 11:14

Brefugee · 03/12/2025 11:11

well this is the overriding issue isn't it? Probably, in before times, not many of us would have batted an eyelid (exceptions being women who cannot be in a space with a man at all) and would have probably rolled our eyes a bit in private, but been kind and inclusive. Because there would have been very few and they would honestly have been trying to "pass" and so on.

But no. Stonewall barged in and ruined it for those quiet, genuinely dysphoric people. And now they must ALL stay out of women's spaces.

Genuinely dysphoric (i don't want to say "tru trans") people must and should be angry at the TRAs who have utterly ruined their lives over this. Not women who would probably have just carried on carrying on. As we do.

(have not rtft: is this as a result of the MNetter's DH who challenged them?)

Yes 🙌🏼 they say they’d lose loads in legal challenges and the Charity Commission would be crawling all over them.

PoisonCrystal · 03/12/2025 11:14

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 11:09

Certainly looking less and less like a democratic one

Why did you reply to yourself?

GrandmaMazur · 03/12/2025 11:15

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 11:09

Certainly looking less and less like a democratic one

The WI has certainly not been democratic about this. If they ask med the women in the WI their opinion I can guarantee that the majority would not have voted to include men in the membership.

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 11:16

Screamingabdabz · 03/12/2025 11:13

“However, this change is only in respect to our membership policy and does not change our firm belief that transgender women are women.”

Who are these absolute morons who believe this? wtf.

Decent, educated and open minded individuals, capable of perceiving diversity and complexity in human experience.

CarpeVitam · 03/12/2025 11:16

SidewaysOtter · 03/12/2025 10:58

"...almost no one within the organisation DARED complain..."

There, Melissa, fixed that for you.

Exactly!!

FragilityOfCups · 03/12/2025 11:16

For reference - the Mothers' Union will have mothers, non mothers, men.

They're a completely separate organisation with different founding principles and presumably charitable objectives.

Basically telling some members to fuck off, get back in your hole.

That's not actually true, though, is it.
It's saying a group that was set up for a specific group of people remains for that group of people. And they're setting up new groups that include everyone.

I don't feel like any organisation I'm not eligible for is telling me to 'fuck off'. I haven't joined the orchestra because I'm terrible at the violin, not because they've told me to fuck off. This childish pretence is not helping.

idrinkwineandiknitthings · 03/12/2025 11:16

There’s a lot of sad faces and “how could they” on the unofficial WI FB group

ThatCyanCat · 03/12/2025 11:16

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 11:13

I was referring to the independence of civil society organisations as a core democratic value and an essential element for a strong and healthy democracy.

It is certainly anti democratic that a civil society group has been forced to restrict their membership against their core values because of (interpretations) of state law.

I'm sorry, mate, but no matter how purple you make the prose, "women can have knobs" is never going to be clever and "women should not be allowed to gather away from men" is never going to be reasonable. I realise this is precisely why you need the purple prose, but you're not fooling anyone.

Isthisreasonable · 03/12/2025 11:17

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 03/12/2025 10:48

I simply do not believe that.
It cannot be true.

It doesn't say how many though. It only needs 1 trans member to claim that.

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 11:17

PoisonCrystal · 03/12/2025 11:14

Why did you reply to yourself?

It was an additional thought / comment to my previous post.

SexRealismBeliefs · 03/12/2025 11:17

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 11:13

I was referring to the independence of civil society organisations as a core democratic value and an essential element for a strong and healthy democracy.

It is certainly anti democratic that a civil society group has been forced to restrict their membership against their core values because of (interpretations) of state law.

I suppose it’s like me setting up a charity to take care of horses and fundraising for horses but then wanting my membership to prioritise lions.

Rather against the purpose for which the Charity was founded.

I can choose to become a lion 🦁 focused charity instead.

I can’t however be a horse charity that wants to focus on the needs of lions.

They either become a mixed sex organisation or stay single sex. They had a choice.

SeriousTissues · 03/12/2025 11:17

This is good news!

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 11:17

ThatCyanCat · 03/12/2025 11:16

I'm sorry, mate, but no matter how purple you make the prose, "women can have knobs" is never going to be clever and "women should not be allowed to gather away from men" is never going to be reasonable. I realise this is precisely why you need the purple prose, but you're not fooling anyone.

What a fresh, sophisticated and mature take.

ProfessorBettyBooper · 03/12/2025 11:17

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 11:13

I was referring to the independence of civil society organisations as a core democratic value and an essential element for a strong and healthy democracy.

It is certainly anti democratic that a civil society group has been forced to restrict their membership against their core values because of (interpretations) of state law.

No, their core values are that they are the Women's Institute. For women only.

Hth.

FragilityOfCups · 03/12/2025 11:18

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 11:16

Decent, educated and open minded individuals, capable of perceiving diversity and complexity in human experience.

I bet you're not decent enough to give an example of what differentiates men and women.
Either you think there's no difference, and any transition is meaningless, or you think there is a difference but you can't say what it is because soo many reasons but they all go to a different school.

It's more open-minded to think that a woman can have any personality, character, set of skills, desires, etc than to think only certain of these are women.

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