For lurkers.
Julie Bindel states that there should not be gendered behaviour expectations such as women having to have babies or women staying at home or changing your name after marriage - pretty much any other behavioural expectation that is put on women.
A previous poster is making out that means we should not document and address the male behaviours which are not expected, but do seem to spill out. Behaviours such as harassment, rape, stalking, murder.
These are not the same things.
Honestly though, if this is the woman that you are defending, explain why you are so invested in her rather than have a go at the woman on the other side of the debate.
Explain why stopping kids from growing into adults through puberty is your bag.
Explain why making men look like little girls is part of your argument.
Just explain why women should be subject to menopause in their 20s and osteoporosis is such a good thing.
It should be an easy explanation if you are so keen on it.