I do not know LM except to nod at, but on the question of Difficult Women...
Many years ago I got an insight into how this works in Laurence's political circles, at a talk organised by the Mary Ann McCracken Society.
The speaker, whose name I can't quite remember (I think it was Chrissie McAuley, but may have been some other prominent Sinn Fein woman) was giving a spirited talk and building to a crescendo on the theme of how Republican women were their own political subject and would no longer be content to make the tea.
At this point Gerry Adams entered the room. By the time he sat down, a woman was at his shoulder with a cup of tea.
It doesn't matter how revolutionary Irish men are in their own minds, Mrs Doyle Syndrome is never far away.