“You only hear from the complainers,” one delegate told me earlier this year, after I spoke at a talk to face transplant surgeons at an international conference in Helsinki. “The happy patients are quietly living their lives.”
Such claims are meaningless without accurate data. And patients are often scared to tell surgeons the truth; even without the power imbalances of healthcare, people feel ungrateful or worry about being a “bad patient”.
This is a really really important quote from that article.
We are talking about children in a situation where it's already acknowledged there are parents who are behaving in a manner like Munchausen by proxy AND there is significant peer pressure not to detransition otherwise you have let everyone down.
The cult like elements of Transactivism and the age of the participants make the above point even more potent.
We ALREADY have extensive information about why women don't complain - yet the NHS as an institution seems unable to grasp this.
Take Bounty - the NHS response was 'no one has complained so there's no problem' despite mountains of evidence on MN and the circumstances being totally unethical and falling foul of illegal high pressure sales tactics. This is the same but with way more vulnerable patients and way more serious consequences.
There is an institutional issue with understanding how consent isn't consent if it's under undue pressure. And ultimately I fear, that in time, this is where legal claims WILL eventually succeed because they will demonstrate that the children involved were conditioned to pass tests to get on the trial and conditioned to give certain responses and were unable to understand risks and were generally under so much undue pressure that it should never have occurred in the first place. Unless someone wakes up and starts to actually listen to what was said by staff at the Tavistock and in all these other cases where 'but there was no complaints' as a line was trotted out despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary from none institutionalised sources.