Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

"Darlington Nurses" vs County Durham and Darlington NHS Trust Tribunal Thread 3

1000 replies

AuthorisedCat · 28/10/2025 12:20

Link to Thread 1, 7-Oct to 23-Oct; pre-hearing discussion, evidence from KD (Day 1) and BH (Day 2).

Link to Thread 2
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5432103-darlington-nurses-vs-county-durham-and-darlington-nhs-trust-tribunal-thread-2

Five nurses working at Darlington Memorial Hospital have filed a legal case suing their employer, an NHS trust, for sexual harassment and sex discrimination. The nurses object to sharing the women’s changing facilities with a male colleague, Rose, who identifies as female. The NHS trust’s HR department dismissed the nurses’ concerns, stating they should “broaden their mindset” and “be educated”. More details can be found at Sex Matters and at Christian Concern who are supporting the nurses via the CLC.
The hearing started on October 20th, with evidence starting on October 22nd and is scheduled to last 3 weeks. To view the hearing online, requests for access had to be made by October 17th. The hearing is being live tweeted by Tribunal Tweets who have background to this case on their substack. An alternative to X is to use Nitter: nitter.net/tribunaltweets or nitter.poast.org/tribunaltweets
The Judge made clear at the start of the public hearing on Day 1 that only TT or press have permission to tweet. If online observers see/hear something in the court that isn’t reported by TT, we don’t mention it until the next time there’s a break. This is a very cautious approach to avoid any accusations of “live reporting” on MN. Commentary on the content of TT tweets is fine as soon as they’re posted on X.
Key people:
C/Ns - Claimants, the Darlington nurses
R/T/Trust - Respondent, County Durham and Darlington NHS Foundation Trust
J/EJ – Judge/Employment Judge
NF - Niazi Fetto KC, barrister for claimants
SC - Simon Cheetham, KC, barrister for respondents
RH - Rose Henderson, trans identifying nurse
CG – Clare Gregory, ward manager
KD – Karen Danson, first claimant to give evidence.
BH – Bethany Hutchison, second claimant to give evidence
AH – Alistair Hutchison, husband of Bethany
Other abbreviations:
WFTCHTJ – Waiting For The Conference Host To Join
ET - Employment Tribunal
DMH/H – Hospital, Darlington Memorial Hospital
CR/CF - changing room or facilities
IX - internal investigation
XX – cross examination

Tribunal Tweets (@tribunaltweets) on X

Citizen journalists -"a valuable service" The Lawyer Magazine See also @tribunaltweets2

https://x.com/tribunaltweets

OP posts:
Thread gallery
14
OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 29/10/2025 14:30

Would someone nip over to K wing on Strangeways and put all the blokes in frocks? All the risk vanished in an instant. It'll work miracles.

What is this man smoking?

NotNatacha · 29/10/2025 14:30

With this witness I’m even more grateful to TT and the kind, capable people who c/p their tweets on here. Thank you, @ickky

I just can’t work out what this witness is saying.

ILikeDungs · 29/10/2025 14:31

despite not being able to hear the words at all really, it feels like TA does blether on a bit

WearyAuldWumman · 29/10/2025 14:31

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 29/10/2025 14:30

Would someone nip over to K wing on Strangeways and put all the blokes in frocks? All the risk vanished in an instant. It'll work miracles.

What is this man smoking?

You don't even need the frock. Just say you're a woman.

WandaSiri · 29/10/2025 14:32

thanks for copying and pasting, ickky

PoshCoffee · 29/10/2025 14:32

I do wonder if this witness is heading into Isla Bumba territory here

chilling19 · 29/10/2025 14:32

So was a safeguarding assessment carried out?

nauticant · 29/10/2025 14:32

Ahh, they've finally realised that if the witness speaks into the microphone then it works.

Easytoconfuse · 29/10/2025 14:33

Limehawkmoth · 29/10/2025 14:20

In my experience of dealing with nhs, (as carer not employed), one of biggest issues is their lack of understanding around the difference between responsibility and authority when it comes to leadership vs staff

I sat in a room numerous times listening to nhs staff say “we all have accountability “…well that’s probably why it’s a shit show then. There appears to be little time spent in nhs defining who is responsible, who is involved , who consulted and who is ultimately accountable for any number of tasks. And that matters. Otherwise everyone passes the buck.

whislt this witness can state he was not responsisble for task a,b,c etc he was, as senior leader, accountable. If he was unaware of issues happening, this is a failure of his polciies for escalation . As leader he must have oversight to ensure he is making the decisions he needs to. Becuase that’s what accountability is

he’s paid a lot more money than staff on coal face, to do just that. Take accountability that is his and only his.

This, So very, very much this. My DH is now wondering if he's found the answer in a charity shop. One dress, one pair of high heels and it'll be 'oh, how can we help you.' And he may not even need those.

ickky · 29/10/2025 14:33

She was saying wouldn't think it a SG risk on sexual orientation or gender presentation.

Well neither would we, the concern is the sex of people involved. Why is so difficult to understand.

Londonmummy66 · 29/10/2025 14:33

NotNatacha · 29/10/2025 14:25

This morning’s witness is wearing a pale pink shirt, and a pale pink tie with small motifs all over it. No pocket square today.

I don’t know what message he intends to give with all the gentle pink.

So I was right with Sulking Room Pink - just didn't realise the tribunal room was the Sulking Room.....

Letthemeatgateau · 29/10/2025 14:34

Why do so many women turn themselves inside out to claim that there's no risk to other women when there's a bloke in our SSS?

ickky · 29/10/2025 14:34

From TT

NF - Putting it all together re SG risk
TA - I didnt say no but if concerns came to me I'd need to k ow what those facts are and presented to us.
NF - A bio male claiming F iD is using F CR is larger than most F users, fully sexually functional, not known to users, and may be alone with them, would u accept that as context as SG risk to be looked at?
TA - not sure thats context of the case. May be SG concern. More about vulnerability. Vulnerable duly, child, need clear allegation and then we ID whether than person is vulnerable
[TA being told to slow down]
[J asking for clarification on TA. Now asking mic to be sorted]
NF - Slow down please. I think I'm having a an RSI in my ear
J - Im struggling to keep up on the keyboard

SternJoyousBeev2 · 29/10/2025 14:35

We need Pete to turn up now.

ickky · 29/10/2025 14:36

From TT

NF - Another feature in the mix. Another element raised by Cs. The situation the bio male is behaving is ways that cause fear and alarm. That would be furyer element in potential DG concern?
TA - Yes
NF - Re vulnerability- does circs matter?
TA - yes
TA - I wasnt a decision maker and wasnt making SG decision but opportunity for all parties whether TG colleague feels vulnerable or nurses. All considered.

weegielass · 29/10/2025 14:36

Seems like everyone blaming everyone else!

nicepotoftea · 29/10/2025 14:37

TA - I wouldnt assess on stature - I'd assess on what is presenting and not stature in general.

If you want to avoid offence, it seems far more offensive to assess somebody's presentation that to simply tell them that they can't use a facility because it is for the opposite sex.

nauticant · 29/10/2025 14:37

I feel sorry for TT having the task of turning this verbal diarrhea into brief tweets conveying meaning.

chilling19 · 29/10/2025 14:37

I wonder how many people/roles will be thrown under the bus by this witness?

ickky · 29/10/2025 14:38

nicepotoftea · 29/10/2025 14:37

TA - I wouldnt assess on stature - I'd assess on what is presenting and not stature in general.

If you want to avoid offence, it seems far more offensive to assess somebody's presentation that to simply tell them that they can't use a facility because it is for the opposite sex.

Yes we are back to The Committee of Passing again.

nicepotoftea · 29/10/2025 14:38

TA - not sure thats context of the case. May be SG concern. More about vulnerability. Vulnerable duly, child, need clear allegation and then we ID whether than person is vulnerable

Surely the point of safe guarding is that you don't reach the point where an allegation is necessary?

ickky · 29/10/2025 14:38

From TT

NF - Was there any consideration of F users of that CR at any stage in your involvement ?
T! - we were trying to assess situation. I was unclear what we were dealing with. I didnt know individuals. Id never met DSU colleagues or met Rose.
[Judge asks again slow]

[Judge clarifies]
TA - our role is to support
NF - stand back and consider. Was any assessment or consideration made to F users of that CR to share with bio male?
TA - we were conscious of overarching principles. In terms direct RA, that would need to be done by the service.

MarieDeGournay · 29/10/2025 14:39

TA - I wasnt a decision maker and wasnt making SG decision but opportunity for all parties whether TG colleague feels vulnerable or nurses.

And if the one TG colleague felt vulnerable sharing the women's CR, the solution would be to move all the female colleagues into a fire-risk of a broom-cupboard somewhere....

Notanorthener · 29/10/2025 14:39

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 29/10/2025 13:04

So we have the women (of Fife), who appear to be largely TWAW, and the men (of Leonardo and Darlington) who basically DGAF.

Perfect. Just perfect.

ETA: it all adds up to misogyny writ large though, doesn’t it?

Edited

And of course the national head of nursing is a MAN!

AMillionMugsNoTeabags · 29/10/2025 14:39

So a big woman in (looks down) jeans and a tshirt is less acceptable in a single sex changing room than a man in a micro mini

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is not accepting new messages.