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BundleBoogie · 13/10/2025 14:52

Needmorelego · 13/10/2025 14:06

@BundleBoogie I don't know if you use Facebook but if you do go on any local groups for any average town and just read the comments on anything that's do with a religious event that isn't Christian.
You will see the levels of ignorance I am talking about.
Or maybe they aren't as ignorant as I believe but just people trying to be "edgy" when they make such stupid comments about "we're not even allowed to say the word Christmas anymore" or similar untrue crap.

You are getting quite hung up on this perceived ‘ignorance’.

Have you considered the wider issues here? The negative impact on real people which is sometimes reported in the Daily Mail among other outlets?

Do you acknowledge that some aspects of Islam are incompatible with our law and values of our society? Do you think Muslim leaders with these views should be given more power over all of our lives?

Fizbosshoes · 13/10/2025 16:23

It mentioned unity and family fun, rather than single sex
Family fun where some are allowed to participate and some are invited to watch (gee, thanks) doesnt sound like fun for all the family to me, regardless of who organised it.

Thissickbeat · 14/10/2025 08:01

The organisers have massively wiped their Instagram page. Seem to have taken off details of the charities who benefit and blocked comments.

User2025meow · 14/10/2025 08:38

Unsurprising -they’re probably aware they broke the law.

DontStopMe · 14/10/2025 08:47

I've just seen a post from Naomi Cunningham on the subject. She says "It's thoroughly unattractive, but unfortunately it's far from clear that it's unlawful."

DrBlackbird · 14/10/2025 09:06

Someone on the other thread posted about the Labour Party’s website’s definition of Islamophobia. They claimed the definition included not being able to criticise anything in relation to Islam. That seemed quite broad so I was curious and went and looked.

I could not see any formal definition from the Labour Party itself (though it might be somewhere) but there was an ‘Introduction to Islamophobia’ video on their website that at 11:51 min in offers this definition: Islamophobia is rooted in racism and is a type of racism that targets expressions of Muslimness or perceived Muslimness. This seems quite broad, too broad, and many posted comments in the two threads might fall under this definition I think. What does ‘target’ mean?

Criticising aspects of any religion can be hurtful to those following the religion but is worrying if we are not allowed to criticise any group in our liberal society. For example, IMO, it was wrong for the police to arrest the man who held a placard protesting against the King during his ascendency to the throne.

EasternStandard · 14/10/2025 09:51

DrBlackbird · 14/10/2025 09:06

Someone on the other thread posted about the Labour Party’s website’s definition of Islamophobia. They claimed the definition included not being able to criticise anything in relation to Islam. That seemed quite broad so I was curious and went and looked.

I could not see any formal definition from the Labour Party itself (though it might be somewhere) but there was an ‘Introduction to Islamophobia’ video on their website that at 11:51 min in offers this definition: Islamophobia is rooted in racism and is a type of racism that targets expressions of Muslimness or perceived Muslimness. This seems quite broad, too broad, and many posted comments in the two threads might fall under this definition I think. What does ‘target’ mean?

Criticising aspects of any religion can be hurtful to those following the religion but is worrying if we are not allowed to criticise any group in our liberal society. For example, IMO, it was wrong for the police to arrest the man who held a placard protesting against the King during his ascendency to the throne.

It is concerning. Is a new law being considered?

Pharazon · 14/10/2025 12:52

Tower Hamlets "uber-liberal enclave" 😂😂😂😂
WTF does that even mean?

And yes, it's likely that this event is unlawful as it appears to be combined discrimination under s.14 of the Equality Act 2010.

Pharazon · 14/10/2025 13:01

But as Maya Forster says, they have an easy get out. They were actually running TWO separate races (that happen to run at the same time - common in mass participation events):

  1. a race for children under 13 using single characteristic exception (age)
  2. a race for males using single characteristic exception (sex)

It would be sneaky, but it would be a pretty good defence.

BundleBoogie · 14/10/2025 13:52

EasternStandard · 14/10/2025 09:51

It is concerning. Is a new law being considered?

I’m not sure if the exact mechanism but Keir Starmer confirmed recently that he was working with the Muslim Council of Britain on a new definition of Islamophobia possibly to be added to the hate crime laws? So this could be something they are trying to slip in fairly quietly so people don’t notice until they start making example arrests for Islamophobia. Like they have been doing to women (and some men) on women’s rights.

The quote about ‘expressions of Muslimness’ is in the Labour Party website part way down after reference to the APPG. @DrBlackbird , I copied most of the text from the website in a previous post and included a link. Sorry an at work and haven’t got time to revisit now.

DrBlackbird · 14/10/2025 13:56

EasternStandard · 14/10/2025 09:51

It is concerning. Is a new law being considered?

That I don’t know. Just saw that there’s a post on the LP website about Islamophobia as well as one about antisemitism and a complaint process. No definition on its website. Just that one definition included in the recorded talk but without any reference to where the definition was being drawn from by the women talking.

Edit: posted before seeing bundleboogie post.

BundleBoogie · 14/10/2025 14:04

DontStopMe · 14/10/2025 08:47

I've just seen a post from Naomi Cunningham on the subject. She says "It's thoroughly unattractive, but unfortunately it's far from clear that it's unlawful."

Interesting to hear from Naomi. This case highlights the deliberate exclusion of Muslim women from a ‘family’ event on religious grounds. I would be interested to hear what she thinks of their ‘legitimate aim’ given the difficulties women are currently having in excluding men where there is a clearly legitimate aim. There is an asymmetry there that only benefits men.

As we can see by the majority reaction, that does not sit well with our society and raises a wider point about detrimental treatment of women on religious grounds and whether we wish to allow that.

If we say nothing when women are excluded from what is billed as a ‘family’ and ‘community’ event m, what implications does that have for the future as Muslim leaders who hold these views aim to have more power over all of us?

BundleBoogie · 14/10/2025 14:07

DrBlackbird · 14/10/2025 13:56

That I don’t know. Just saw that there’s a post on the LP website about Islamophobia as well as one about antisemitism and a complaint process. No definition on its website. Just that one definition included in the recorded talk but without any reference to where the definition was being drawn from by the women talking.

Edit: posted before seeing bundleboogie post.

Edited

Here you go.

In section 5. Seems like a work in progress but may get slipped into law at some point.

labour.org.uk/resources/labours-islamophobia-policy/

DrBlackbird · 14/10/2025 14:26

BundleBoogie · 14/10/2025 14:07

Here you go.

In section 5. Seems like a work in progress but may get slipped into law at some point.

labour.org.uk/resources/labours-islamophobia-policy/

Thanks bundle. It’s a fine balancing act when the definition and examples are so all encompassing. I think b and c could be easily breached with v little effort. Is it, for example, derogatory to claim that that Islam’s religious values are patriarchal and oppressive to many women? Is that too sweeping? Are we allowed, according to that definition, to refocus on men and the patriarchy to say that many men practising Islam use the religious tenets to oppress women? Or not?

Anyhow, I wonder what Jess Philips would say about this…

EasternStandard · 14/10/2025 15:04

BundleBoogie · 14/10/2025 14:07

Here you go.

In section 5. Seems like a work in progress but may get slipped into law at some point.

labour.org.uk/resources/labours-islamophobia-policy/

It’s a new law which concerns me. How would you determine what is ok to say about a major religion that impacts women and girls.

BundleBoogie · 14/10/2025 16:01

DrBlackbird · 14/10/2025 14:26

Thanks bundle. It’s a fine balancing act when the definition and examples are so all encompassing. I think b and c could be easily breached with v little effort. Is it, for example, derogatory to claim that that Islam’s religious values are patriarchal and oppressive to many women? Is that too sweeping? Are we allowed, according to that definition, to refocus on men and the patriarchy to say that many men practising Islam use the religious tenets to oppress women? Or not?

Anyhow, I wonder what Jess Philips would say about this…

Exactly. This is the worry (and to @EasternStandard ). I really really want to be wrong here but we’ve seen the chilling effect of broadly and badly drafted laws on free speech already.

Should we not be allowed to condemn expressions of Muslimness like forced and child marriage? Or FGM? Or not allowing girls to be educated or seen outside of the home? These are all expressions of Muslimness both here and abroad. (Remember the government estimates 60,000 girls at risk of FGM IN THIS COUNTRY)

And if the current Muslim Council of Britain are deferred to as arbiters of which ‘expressions of Muslimness’ and make a list that sounds ok and we pass a law so broadly defined as above to back that, what’s to stop the next generation of Islamic leaders being more extreme and deeming the above as acceptable in the UK? Some clearly already do, hence the ongoing fight by the authorities to protect girls.

It appears that the Labour want to keep the Muslim vote. How far will they sell us and our democracy down the river to do that? How will we combat it if we are silenced?

Imnobody4 · 14/10/2025 16:13

BundleBoogie · 14/10/2025 14:04

Interesting to hear from Naomi. This case highlights the deliberate exclusion of Muslim women from a ‘family’ event on religious grounds. I would be interested to hear what she thinks of their ‘legitimate aim’ given the difficulties women are currently having in excluding men where there is a clearly legitimate aim. There is an asymmetry there that only benefits men.

As we can see by the majority reaction, that does not sit well with our society and raises a wider point about detrimental treatment of women on religious grounds and whether we wish to allow that.

If we say nothing when women are excluded from what is billed as a ‘family’ and ‘community’ event m, what implications does that have for the future as Muslim leaders who hold these views aim to have more power over all of us?

Isn't there an issue with Muslim schools that are mixed sex but then segregate for lessons. I think it went to the Court of Appeal. It's the same principle.
Redstone Academy, a private secondary school in Birmingham, has an Islamic ethos. A damning Ofsted report in 2019 highlighted unlawful segregation between boys and girls 'for all school activities apart from assemblies' and noted that boys were 'treated favourably and have more privileges.

JetFlight · 14/10/2025 16:52

BundleBoogie · 14/10/2025 16:01

Exactly. This is the worry (and to @EasternStandard ). I really really want to be wrong here but we’ve seen the chilling effect of broadly and badly drafted laws on free speech already.

Should we not be allowed to condemn expressions of Muslimness like forced and child marriage? Or FGM? Or not allowing girls to be educated or seen outside of the home? These are all expressions of Muslimness both here and abroad. (Remember the government estimates 60,000 girls at risk of FGM IN THIS COUNTRY)

And if the current Muslim Council of Britain are deferred to as arbiters of which ‘expressions of Muslimness’ and make a list that sounds ok and we pass a law so broadly defined as above to back that, what’s to stop the next generation of Islamic leaders being more extreme and deeming the above as acceptable in the UK? Some clearly already do, hence the ongoing fight by the authorities to protect girls.

It appears that the Labour want to keep the Muslim vote. How far will they sell us and our democracy down the river to do that? How will we combat it if we are silenced?

Those things are covered by law so nothing should be accepted as Muslimness if it’s against the law. The majority of Muslims will be against all those things, and rightly so.

BundleBoogie · 14/10/2025 18:48

JetFlight · 14/10/2025 16:52

Those things are covered by law so nothing should be accepted as Muslimness if it’s against the law. The majority of Muslims will be against all those things, and rightly so.

Can you see where the clash comes though? It doesn’t say that Islamophobia = speaking against expressions of Muslimness unless they are already unlawful.

We know that there are a significant number of people who think that FGM, child marriage and forced marriage SHOULDN’T be unlawful so what happens if they become in charge?

BundleBoogie · 14/10/2025 19:07

JetFlight · 14/10/2025 16:52

Those things are covered by law so nothing should be accepted as Muslimness if it’s against the law. The majority of Muslims will be against all those things, and rightly so.

It’s not about the ‘doing’ of these things - it’s being able to speak about them. It’s not currently unlawful to do that but if the definition of Islamophobia in the Labour Party website becomes law, we won’t be able to speak about them which makes preventing them a million times more difficult.

Also we have the expressions of Muslimness that are not unlawful but just anti social - like the ongoing battles over the public call to prayer. One of which is at 5am. We want to retain the lawful right to criticise that imo.

EasternStandard · 14/10/2025 19:24

BundleBoogie · 14/10/2025 16:01

Exactly. This is the worry (and to @EasternStandard ). I really really want to be wrong here but we’ve seen the chilling effect of broadly and badly drafted laws on free speech already.

Should we not be allowed to condemn expressions of Muslimness like forced and child marriage? Or FGM? Or not allowing girls to be educated or seen outside of the home? These are all expressions of Muslimness both here and abroad. (Remember the government estimates 60,000 girls at risk of FGM IN THIS COUNTRY)

And if the current Muslim Council of Britain are deferred to as arbiters of which ‘expressions of Muslimness’ and make a list that sounds ok and we pass a law so broadly defined as above to back that, what’s to stop the next generation of Islamic leaders being more extreme and deeming the above as acceptable in the UK? Some clearly already do, hence the ongoing fight by the authorities to protect girls.

It appears that the Labour want to keep the Muslim vote. How far will they sell us and our democracy down the river to do that? How will we combat it if we are silenced?

I’m interested in how similar any new law would be to the NCHI about people feeling upset etc

The impact on speech could be chilling. It’s a major religion, it should withstand those outside it criticising it. Especially since it has an impact on women and girls.

Imnobody4 · 14/10/2025 19:28

This is from Tell Mama. I find this very worrying. It could be used against ex - Muslims who robustly criticise Islam.

Anti-Muslim prejudice whilst being targeted against the followers of Islam, (Muslims), can also sometimes include opinions on Islam such as that it has no common values with other cultures, is inferior to the ‘West,’ and is a violent political ideology rather than a religion. Anti-Muslim prejudice in this context can therefore promote a social stigma towards Muslims and Islam, namely by creating a sense of fear and dread about them.

missmollygreen · 14/10/2025 19:29

Noorandapples · 12/10/2025 13:02

Plenty of runs are organised by and for muslim women explicitly excluding men, in general most muslim women dont WANT to run with a bunch of sweaty men

I hate to break it to you, but women sweat when they run too. And it is no nicer than mens sweat.

Barr77 · 14/10/2025 19:44

BundleBoogie · 14/10/2025 16:01

Exactly. This is the worry (and to @EasternStandard ). I really really want to be wrong here but we’ve seen the chilling effect of broadly and badly drafted laws on free speech already.

Should we not be allowed to condemn expressions of Muslimness like forced and child marriage? Or FGM? Or not allowing girls to be educated or seen outside of the home? These are all expressions of Muslimness both here and abroad. (Remember the government estimates 60,000 girls at risk of FGM IN THIS COUNTRY)

And if the current Muslim Council of Britain are deferred to as arbiters of which ‘expressions of Muslimness’ and make a list that sounds ok and we pass a law so broadly defined as above to back that, what’s to stop the next generation of Islamic leaders being more extreme and deeming the above as acceptable in the UK? Some clearly already do, hence the ongoing fight by the authorities to protect girls.

It appears that the Labour want to keep the Muslim vote. How far will they sell us and our democracy down the river to do that? How will we combat it if we are silenced?

It would be sheer madness by Labour to allow for any such law to be introduced, quietly, through the back door or wrap it up in legislation.

if they do, they might as well hand the next government to Reform with a big blue ribbon.

The electorate are already hugely distrustful and hostile toward the government in light of the grooming scandals they spectacularly mishandled, the Lucy Connelly case, and the Southport incidents. Media attention would be intense, and unforgiving, and I can see thr comments from Trump and Elon Musk already.

Labour would be taking a huge risk to think they could get away with this quietly, deluded in fact., Even if they did, what would be the point? The next government could undo it, making the effort largely pointless.

Imnobody4 · 14/10/2025 20:02

Barr77 · 14/10/2025 19:44

It would be sheer madness by Labour to allow for any such law to be introduced, quietly, through the back door or wrap it up in legislation.

if they do, they might as well hand the next government to Reform with a big blue ribbon.

The electorate are already hugely distrustful and hostile toward the government in light of the grooming scandals they spectacularly mishandled, the Lucy Connelly case, and the Southport incidents. Media attention would be intense, and unforgiving, and I can see thr comments from Trump and Elon Musk already.

Labour would be taking a huge risk to think they could get away with this quietly, deluded in fact., Even if they did, what would be the point? The next government could undo it, making the effort largely pointless.

I agree they would be idiots to do it, but the again they have a track record.
I don't think they will go ahead with it, as the Sikh community are raising concerns.

the Network of Sikh Organisations (NSO), a charity representing over 130 gurdwaras and other Sikh groups, said adopting the definition into law would have "serious implications" for free speech, including the ability to discuss "historical truths"