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Muslim charity run

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Thomasina79 · 12/10/2025 08:10

Has banned women and girls over the age of 12 from participating. Thoughts?

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User37482 · 12/10/2025 09:05

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 09:04

If you have a problem with religious courts, it should be all religious courts, surely. And things like women being forbidden from driving. Not just followers of a certain religion.

I agree with this, they should all be banned.

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 09:05

User37482 · 12/10/2025 09:04

https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/forced-marriage-unit-statistics-2023/forced-marriage-unit-statistics-2023

Forced marriage unit has the majority of offenders being basically pakistani.

Thats the marriages that they know of and purposely hunt. Meanwhile they'd totally miss the Sikh girl who is in the same situation. This is part of the problem. Forced marriage is an issue in many communities. We only care about the Muslim ones.

FKAT · 12/10/2025 09:06

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 08:37

You know what is fucking hilarious about the uproar around this? British men make jogging a bloody hellhole for women. You know how many women are sexually harassed while out running? So theyre upset at the Daily Mail that Muslim women have been banned from taking part, but when women do take part, Daily Mail type men sexually harass them!

It seems that you are the racist as you are implying these men are not British and British men are not Muslim. Hmm

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 09:06

FKAT · 12/10/2025 09:06

It seems that you are the racist as you are implying these men are not British and British men are not Muslim. Hmm

Yeah I said I fucked up on that

AllPlayedOut · 12/10/2025 09:06

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 08:55

Enough for your brothers, husbands and sons to stop hurting women and girls from their own communities.

So we can never address it then? And sexism from one community doesn’t only harm women in that community though that’s inexcusable enough. It harms women generally. None of it is excusable. That other groups of people also abuse and demean women is a pathetic excuse for not being allowed to discuss the topic. Enough with the deflections.

I’m centre-Left btw but fuck me am I tired of the Left refusing to allow people to discuss problems within their particular favoured group whether it’s Islam in this case or TRAs.

ProfoundlyPeculiarAndWeird · 12/10/2025 09:07

So many posts cite the alleged illegality of this event, under the Equality Act. But the act makes limited exemptions allowing religious organisations to exclude women or men from an event if it is deemed to be necessary for religious purposes. And it may well be the case that the conditions for the exemption are met here - I understand from the article that this is being looked into

I think it is pretty bad to exclude women from this event, but if there are plenty of other runs (including Muslim runs) that allow both men and women then is it so very shocking to have one event from which women are excluded? Presumably it makes it possible for highly religiously observant males to participate. So you could make the case that to meet everyone's needs you need a variety of different events, including men's events, mixed events, and women only events.

I want to live in a society in which religious people with values different from mine can live in accordance with their beliefs, even if they are distasteful to me. Unless this one event has the consequence that Muslim women runners lack opportunities to participate in runs, then I can't see why a pluralist society should be up in arms about it.

KarminaBurana · 12/10/2025 09:07

AllPlayedOut · 12/10/2025 09:06

So we can never address it then? And sexism from one community doesn’t only harm women in that community though that’s inexcusable enough. It harms women generally. None of it is excusable. That other groups of people also abuse and demean women is a pathetic excuse for not being allowed to discuss the topic. Enough with the deflections.

I’m centre-Left btw but fuck me am I tired of the Left refusing to allow people to discuss problems within their particular favoured group whether it’s Islam in this case or TRAs.

This, exactly.

FKAT · 12/10/2025 09:09

ProfoundlyPeculiarAndWeird · 12/10/2025 09:07

So many posts cite the alleged illegality of this event, under the Equality Act. But the act makes limited exemptions allowing religious organisations to exclude women or men from an event if it is deemed to be necessary for religious purposes. And it may well be the case that the conditions for the exemption are met here - I understand from the article that this is being looked into

I think it is pretty bad to exclude women from this event, but if there are plenty of other runs (including Muslim runs) that allow both men and women then is it so very shocking to have one event from which women are excluded? Presumably it makes it possible for highly religiously observant males to participate. So you could make the case that to meet everyone's needs you need a variety of different events, including men's events, mixed events, and women only events.

I want to live in a society in which religious people with values different from mine can live in accordance with their beliefs, even if they are distasteful to me. Unless this one event has the consequence that Muslim women runners lack opportunities to participate in runs, then I can't see why a pluralist society should be up in arms about it.

It's not excluding females though, it's excluding a certain cohort of females which does breach the equality act.

Thissickbeat · 12/10/2025 09:10

It looks like some runners are running for 16th East London Scouts. While I know Scouting need the money, I hope for the sake of equality that they refuse the donation and tell the run organisers why.

PegDope · 12/10/2025 09:11

ProfoundlyPeculiarAndWeird · 12/10/2025 08:43

I do think the event should allow women and I would certainly want to support Muslim women objecting to their exclusion from the event (on the off-chance that they wanted input from some random non-Muslim woman!!).

But the outrage about this from the Mail and from a lot of posters here seems to be motivated by a powerful desire to present Islam as problematic, and to further the US-promoted narrative that Britain is becoming more and more subject to Sharia law.
Yawn yawn yawn. 'Event organised by a religious community found to be operating on exclusionary religious principles' is hardly shock horror news.

But Islam IS problematic. Or should I say the men who use it to oppress women are.

Same for Christianity or any organised religion that uses fear to keep women oppressed.

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 09:11

AllPlayedOut · 12/10/2025 09:06

So we can never address it then? And sexism from one community doesn’t only harm women in that community though that’s inexcusable enough. It harms women generally. None of it is excusable. That other groups of people also abuse and demean women is a pathetic excuse for not being allowed to discuss the topic. Enough with the deflections.

I’m centre-Left btw but fuck me am I tired of the Left refusing to allow people to discuss problems within their particular favoured group whether it’s Islam in this case or TRAs.

You shoukd spend your energy addressing the issues that are in your home before you think about what might be happening elsewhere. Nice boys from good homes are raping their girlfriends because they dont understand consent. Male bosses are oppressing and sexually harassing their female employees and colleagues. These are issues from your community and haven't been solved. Focus on those. It will be better for everyone.

LizzieSiddal · 12/10/2025 09:11

AramintaWildbloode · 12/10/2025 08:44

This is awful. Thin end of the wedge Taliban lite.

Does religion get a free pass on equality?

The issue of women's rights and islam is a frequent issue.
It seems to be a minefield to even talk about this.

Of course all religions that I know of are male dominated and abusive/ controlling to women on varying degrees but it is more noticeable and extreme in islam, or at least interpretations of it.
(I am not a religious scholar. I can only draw conclusions from what I see.)

Things like this open discrimination, which should surely be unlawful, is a gift to racists who actually don’t give a shit about women’s rights.
Hence Daily Wail covering it.

On the other hand, The Guardian wouldn’t dream of publishing such an inconvenient truth.

Women’s rights are secondary to each sides agenda.

Comparing this incident to what the Taliban do to women in Afghanistan is disgraceful.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 12/10/2025 09:12

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 09:11

You shoukd spend your energy addressing the issues that are in your home before you think about what might be happening elsewhere. Nice boys from good homes are raping their girlfriends because they dont understand consent. Male bosses are oppressing and sexually harassing their female employees and colleagues. These are issues from your community and haven't been solved. Focus on those. It will be better for everyone.

Women know your place!!!

just to say you have absolutely no idea of the religion of any of the women posting on this board

MyAmpleSheep · 12/10/2025 09:13

AllPlayedOut · 12/10/2025 09:00

I’m also in favour of closing all religious courts but I think it’s hardly surprising that Sharia courts get more attention considering the difference in numbers in the UK between the Muslim population and the Jewish population. Both should end though.

Jewish courts have the same “powers” as any private arbitration organization, in that their decisions are enforceable in by UK courts in exactly the same situations, I.e. when both parties have agreed in advance to be bound by the decision. It’s all in the Arbitration Act 1996. There are many many organizations that use the same powers.

The idea of “closing” an organization that its community uses to decide if a chicken is kosher or not (something that is most unlikely to concern you yourself either way) seems either suspicious, or at least founded in a lack of understanding of what a Jewish court does.

APTPT · 12/10/2025 09:13

The fact these people can't see why classing 12 year old girls as adults is so sick.

ProfoundlyPeculiarAndWeird · 12/10/2025 09:13

FKAT · 12/10/2025 09:09

It's not excluding females though, it's excluding a certain cohort of females which does breach the equality act.

What on earth makes you think that?

People seem recently to have acquired a strange idea that you can't blend two protected characteristics when making decisions about complying with the Equality Act, based on a misunderstanding of the implications of the recent Supreme Court judgement.

CarrotCrusader · 12/10/2025 09:13

In some religions and cultures, women are not seen as equals, yet when this is pointed out, the screams of 'you must be racist' follow, but women are being left behind yet again.

FKAT · 12/10/2025 09:13

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 09:11

You shoukd spend your energy addressing the issues that are in your home before you think about what might be happening elsewhere. Nice boys from good homes are raping their girlfriends because they dont understand consent. Male bosses are oppressing and sexually harassing their female employees and colleagues. These are issues from your community and haven't been solved. Focus on those. It will be better for everyone.

You're on the feminism board. Feminists campaign against rape, sexual harassment, sexism all day and all of the night - regardless of race, religion or class. And we don't discriminate either - regardless of the special sky god you claim, you are going to get called out for your sexist, illegal behaviour.

PS: women aren't responsible for male behaviour.

AramintaWildbloode · 12/10/2025 09:14

LizzieSiddal · 12/10/2025 09:11

Comparing this incident to what the Taliban do to women in Afghanistan is disgraceful.

Ffs

Happyjoe · 12/10/2025 09:14

Bang out of order and should be illegal. Probably is.

FKAT · 12/10/2025 09:15

ProfoundlyPeculiarAndWeird · 12/10/2025 09:13

What on earth makes you think that?

People seem recently to have acquired a strange idea that you can't blend two protected characteristics when making decisions about complying with the Equality Act, based on a misunderstanding of the implications of the recent Supreme Court judgement.

Go on, you prove it's legal. I'll wait.

ForCraftyWriter · 12/10/2025 09:17

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 08:21

Are Muslim women allowed to take part in running competitions generally?

Yes in a women’s race. Men in a men’s race. Men and women in an open race or a race for families.
I don’t see why this is controversial, it’s surely exactly what we would be campaigning for over on the sex and gender boards.

I wonder which posters have another agenda here that’s got nothing to do with women’s rights?

EvelynBeatrice · 12/10/2025 09:18

User37482 · 12/10/2025 09:05

I agree with this, they should all be banned.

But they won’t be … because politicians like votes from religious communities and also activists ( eg trans activists) and other very vocal groups who threaten their majorities if the parties don’t follow whatever agenda they’re peddling, anti woman or not.

It’s only when women group together and are as vocal and litigious as their opponents that the blindest notice is paid - FWS and the recent Supreme Court judgement for example.

And challenging religion even where oppressive is particularly challenging due to the stated intention to reinstate blasphemy laws, the use of non- crime incidents and accusations of racism etc.

ErrolTheDragon · 12/10/2025 09:18

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 08:37

You know what is fucking hilarious about the uproar around this? British men make jogging a bloody hellhole for women. You know how many women are sexually harassed while out running? So theyre upset at the Daily Mail that Muslim women have been banned from taking part, but when women do take part, Daily Mail type men sexually harass them!

True.

but two wrongs never did make a right.

BundleBoogie · 12/10/2025 09:18

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 08:21

Are Muslim women allowed to take part in running competitions generally?

Are you spirits?

If they are not, then Islam is not a religion compatible with British society and the government needs to drastically scale back their growing influence and power.

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