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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Muslim charity run

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Thomasina79 · 12/10/2025 08:10

Has banned women and girls over the age of 12 from participating. Thoughts?

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Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:11

HermioneWeasley · 12/10/2025 12:06

Nope. In this country equality and freedom of speech are protected in law. Communities can’t have their own rules. If people want to live under sharia law and religious theocracies they have about 50 other countries to choose from.

Communities can’t have their own rules

But they already do now what?

Tirquoise · 12/10/2025 13:12

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JustTryingToBeMe · 12/10/2025 13:12

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 09:03

What if you found out that women were instrumental in deciding the entry criteria?

I wouldn’t believe it; do you have evidence? Anything that undermines the British Rule of Law should be banned. Our laws are there to protect everyone whilst other court systems cannot demonstrate the same.

roseyposey · 12/10/2025 13:14

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 12/10/2025 10:05

How is that supposed to work, 2 objects occupying the same space at the same time?
If a liberal, tolerant, pluralistic society plays host to communities that not only reject its values but actively practice customs that undermine them, how can they coexist within the same national framework?
At what point does pluralism collapse under the weight of irreconcilable worldviews?

Very interesting questions. Thanks for the food for thought.

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 13:14

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:11

Communities can’t have their own rules

But they already do now what?

Depends what you mean by rules.

The tennis club can have its own rules about membership, but they can't contravene UK law.

JustTryingToBeMe · 12/10/2025 13:14

Greysowhat · 12/10/2025 11:49

They are children and it's part of the fun. The race is for men just as there are races for women where men are excluded. People are choosing to be outraged at this charity run because it's a Muslim event. Xenophobia thinly disguised as feminism

Please can you provide us with the link to the information to this women’s race as I can’t find it.

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:16

spannasaurus · 12/10/2025 12:12

Are you saying that Muslim men can't be trusted to not sexually abuse girls unless they are segregated from them.

Do you think we should ban women only gyms,yoga classes fitness groups?

spannasaurus · 12/10/2025 13:18

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:16

Do you think we should ban women only gyms,yoga classes fitness groups?

What's that got to do with the question of whether you think Muslim men cannot be trusted not to abuse girls unless segregated

Bumdrops · 12/10/2025 13:18

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:16

Do you think we should ban women only gyms,yoga classes fitness groups?

female only safe spaces are long established as required for many reasons as well u will be aware - unless you are male and just here to agitate ?

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 12/10/2025 13:20

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:16

Do you think we should ban women only gyms,yoga classes fitness groups?

oy vey

the phrase 'proportionate means to achieve a legitimate aim' means nothing to you does it?

Vinvertebrate · 12/10/2025 13:20

Whatever the rights and wrongs I think this is pretty clearly unlawful. It’s distinguishable from a single sex race (permissible) because it allows females up to age 12. As a matter of law, it’s discriminatory.

Tessisme · 12/10/2025 13:21

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 11:37

. I don’t want muslim women to think they have to accept this and I think it’s up to the rest of society to say “no we don’t think it’s ok to treat women like this”.

But many Muslim women are fine with this because it's their religion. And they love their religion and their lives most of them.
Heck even if you go to certain restaraunts in the uk run by muslims there are seperate seating areas and rooms for women only that many Muslim women want to use.
I understand your concern but I don't think most would want or need your concern

But surely the default should be for women, as equal members of society, to have a choice? Then they can exclude themselves if that’s their preference.

roseyposey · 12/10/2025 13:22

FKAT · 12/10/2025 09:13

You're on the feminism board. Feminists campaign against rape, sexual harassment, sexism all day and all of the night - regardless of race, religion or class. And we don't discriminate either - regardless of the special sky god you claim, you are going to get called out for your sexist, illegal behaviour.

PS: women aren't responsible for male behaviour.

I love special sky god 😂

Another2Cats · 12/10/2025 13:23

Bigpinksweater · 12/10/2025 12:16

What physical risk if there from men and women running together?

In the article, the mosque say that they are relying on Section 195 of the Equality Act. This applies where an activity is a "gender-affected activity". In other words something where being stronger, taller etc affects the outcome.

So, the mosque itself is saying that this event is a gender-affected activity and should have separate categories. The only trouble is that they exclude women over the age of 11.

Another example of running being a gender-affected activity is Parkrun which organises runs in parks throughout the country. They have seperate gender categories.

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 13:25

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:16

Do you think we should ban women only gyms,yoga classes fitness groups?

Depends why they are single sex. I have already posted the reasons that a service can be single sex, and an association does not need any reason to be single sex.

We allow religions more leeway than other organisations, but there is a line that they can't cross.

What's not clear here is whether the muslim women aren't allowed to run in this race because it is considered wrong for them to run at all. It would be disingenuous to suggest that this concern is not justified.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 12/10/2025 13:25

Vinvertebrate · 12/10/2025 13:20

Whatever the rights and wrongs I think this is pretty clearly unlawful. It’s distinguishable from a single sex race (permissible) because it allows females up to age 12. As a matter of law, it’s discriminatory.

yes. just because your imaginary friend says British law is wrong, it shouldn't mean you get to ignore it when you are in Britain. And frankly those in positions of authority turning a blind eye to law breaking depending on the motivation does fuck all for community cohesion, in fact it totally undermines it.

If we're not all subject to the same laws then we're not exactly all in it together are we?

5MinuteArgument · 12/10/2025 13:26

Bigpinksweater · 12/10/2025 12:50

There are a lot of disturbing things going on in the States but I wonder if they have a longer term vision than we do. Ultimately I bloody hope they wouldn’t let their key allies be ruled over by theological despots until they were a shark surrounded island. But - we should be salvaging our own country first, not allowing it to be taken because we are too weak and pathetic to stand up for ourselves.

Yes. Starmer can keep repeating we are decent, open, tolerant etc. But we just get seen as lily livered, feeble and pathetic. Better to be strong, and have the same rules for everybody.

HappyNewTaxYear · 12/10/2025 13:26

WeeGeeBored · 12/10/2025 11:41

If it’s a men’s race and boys can take part young girls might feel excluded so I kind of understand why all children can take part and run with their dads. - otherwise it would only be boys taking part in the event with their dads. I think I get it. Sort of. It is a men’s race but children are allowed to run with their dads.

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Wow, you had to do some mental gymnastics to ‘get it’ there, didn’t you?

Bigpinksweater · 12/10/2025 13:27

Why doesn’t it just say ‘men’s race’ on the ad then? Surely if they’re comfortable that it’s a men’s race for the purposes of male camaraderie they would just say so?

Bumdrops · 12/10/2025 13:28

Another2Cats · 12/10/2025 13:23

In the article, the mosque say that they are relying on Section 195 of the Equality Act. This applies where an activity is a "gender-affected activity". In other words something where being stronger, taller etc affects the outcome.

So, the mosque itself is saying that this event is a gender-affected activity and should have separate categories. The only trouble is that they exclude women over the age of 11.

Another example of running being a gender-affected activity is Parkrun which organises runs in parks throughout the country. They have seperate gender categories.

in park run both sexes run together - the results are cohorted separately

there is no male privilege at park run

HermioneWeasley · 12/10/2025 13:30

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:11

Communities can’t have their own rules

But they already do now what?

We should tackle it if it’s incompatible with our values and way of life

hence all the discussions about banning cousin marriage. It wasn’t necessary before because it had died out in the UK as a practice. Now there are communities with significant problems putting significant pressure on the NHS and other public resources because of generations of consanguinity. So now people want it banned.

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 13:32

Bumdrops · 12/10/2025 13:28

in park run both sexes run together - the results are cohorted separately

there is no male privilege at park run

There is lots of male privilege at park run - they famously refuse to breakdown the results by sex (unless they have changed their minds and I somehow missed it).

PreciousTatas · 12/10/2025 13:33

Hardly a surprise to anyone who has the slightest knowledge of Islam.

Neither the exclusion of women, nor the fact that girls of 12 years of age are considered 'old enough' for certain purposes.

Repugnant. Backwards. Incompatible.

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:34

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 12/10/2025 12:48

How do competing systems that have different values co-exist in one country? They're not a 'community' they are people who live in this country, how is it possible for values that are odds to co-exist in a single system which is what a country is?

How do competing systems that have different values co-exist in one country?

The same way if you go to tower hamlets bricklane,whitechapel etc you see the muslim people covered,not drinking and you see british white people drinking,not covered co existing and leaving eachother alone.
I see it all the time in that area.
The muslims go to the market,the chai shops,muslim restaraunts,British white people go to pubs,and indian restaraunts down brick lane.
People don't exactly mix or talk as such but people coexist and leave eachother alone and are very respectful.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 12/10/2025 13:35

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:34

How do competing systems that have different values co-exist in one country?

The same way if you go to tower hamlets bricklane,whitechapel etc you see the muslim people covered,not drinking and you see british white people drinking,not covered co existing and leaving eachother alone.
I see it all the time in that area.
The muslims go to the market,the chai shops,muslim restaraunts,British white people go to pubs,and indian restaraunts down brick lane.
People don't exactly mix or talk as such but people coexist and leave eachother alone and are very respectful.

a separate little state within a state? that kind of thing?

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