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Muslim charity run

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Thomasina79 · 12/10/2025 08:10

Has banned women and girls over the age of 12 from participating. Thoughts?

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TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 12/10/2025 12:53

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 12:02

When will some of you realise they don't want or need your help.
Please help yourself.

How do you know 'they' don't, if they don't know what rights they have through living in this country, if they don't know there is another way of doing things if they wanted to. If they only aware of what they are told by a male dominated religion, that treats them as property, they're never going to know they have choices.

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 12:54

VexedofVirginiaWater · 12/10/2025 11:36

@ThatSpryShaker

Is it just easier to understand when a white Headmaster from a Christian background says your daughter's short skirt is distracting the guys? Is it more palatable?

Absofuckinglutely not! I would be complaining to the governors if I had an explanation like that from a headteacher. It's not the fifties!

(Edited to embolden the relevant section of the quote.)

Edited

Yet I bet you would have a problem with male teachers around your daughters modifying their attire to make things shorter or tighter.
If your daughters male teacher came into school wearing tight shorts,penis bulging, or things hanging out so you could see what he had for breakfast you would have a lot to say. But such is the hypocrisy of a lot of you on here.
This is why I don't get angry when teachers say things like this.

ArabellaSaurus · 12/10/2025 12:54

'Open to everyone: runners, walkers, and children (girls under 12 and boys of any age), plus family and friends as spectators or volunteers. Whether you’re taking part in the 5 km run or cheering from the sidelines, you’re welcome!'

But not women? How on earth is that 'everyone'?

Kulwinder54 · 12/10/2025 12:56

Disgusting.

Ill go out of my way making sure I run infront of Muslim men in my shorts and cropped top.

happydappy2 · 12/10/2025 12:57

It's appalling. Should not be allowed in this country. This is why people are unsettled by the rise of a certain demographic.

BundleBoogie · 12/10/2025 12:57

TeaBiscuitsNaptime · 12/10/2025 11:12

The government knows that if they clamp down on these things, it will cause uproar with a lot of Muslims within the UK and with other Muslim countries. Muslims make up a decent percentage of the population too

Edited

Muslims are 6.5% of the population. This has grown by 1.2 million since 2011 - a rapid rise but still a small minority that seems to have a growing influence in our society.

If the government and Islamic leaders (and Humza Yousaf) get their way, they will have more power.

User37482 · 12/10/2025 12:58

For those who think muslims should be able to live untouched by Uk legislation, does that extrend to having more than one wife? Or to the verbally reprimand your wife, then withdraw from her bed and then hit her with a stick no wider than your thumb thing if you have a disagreement? Both would be illegal, would you expect the law to step in or would that be a Muslim matter too?

Keepingthingsinteresting · 12/10/2025 12:59

ProfoundlyPeculiarAndWeird · 12/10/2025 09:07

So many posts cite the alleged illegality of this event, under the Equality Act. But the act makes limited exemptions allowing religious organisations to exclude women or men from an event if it is deemed to be necessary for religious purposes. And it may well be the case that the conditions for the exemption are met here - I understand from the article that this is being looked into

I think it is pretty bad to exclude women from this event, but if there are plenty of other runs (including Muslim runs) that allow both men and women then is it so very shocking to have one event from which women are excluded? Presumably it makes it possible for highly religiously observant males to participate. So you could make the case that to meet everyone's needs you need a variety of different events, including men's events, mixed events, and women only events.

I want to live in a society in which religious people with values different from mine can live in accordance with their beliefs, even if they are distasteful to me. Unless this one event has the consequence that Muslim women runners lack opportunities to participate in runs, then I can't see why a pluralist society should be up in arms about it.

Frankly I don’t think misogyny and the oppression of women should be protected by religion, but I’m at risk of saying something that will offend people of I go much further.

You are entirely missing the point I and others have made which makes it clear the organisers don’t consider women and girls as “people”, which shows where the religion is coming from.

Bumdrops · 12/10/2025 12:59

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 12:37

Case closed

Wow
on what planet is it ok to permit / promote misogyny

and say case closed ??

no discussion about laws / equality / discrimination

and then stand behind : bigotry / racism

we need to shout louder to protect human rights / civil society

Another2Cats · 12/10/2025 12:59

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 12:30

So is segregation OK or not?
It's someone else said I'm pretty sure things like this have and do happen in other walks of life. Grass roots football for one

In the Daily Mail article the mosque say that they are relying on Section 195 and Schedule 23 paragraph 2 of the Equality Act.

Section 195 deals with sport and allows for single-sex competitions (eg men-only and women-only events) where the activity is "a gender-affected activity". In other words where being stronger, taller etc can make a difference.

This can include things like running, playing football, swimming etc. But it also covers other sports such as, most recently, pool.

There is ongoing debate about at what age young boys start to outperform young girls and so at what age does sport, such as running, become a "gender-affected activity".

It appears that the mosque would likely argue that running is not a gender-affected activity for children aged under 12. However, if you have any 11 year old children then you will have noticed that boys of that age can definitely run faster than girls - on average.

The Schedule 23 part is that they can restrict participation to muslim people only.

BundleBoogie · 12/10/2025 12:59

Brainworm · 12/10/2025 10:55

Insisting only Muslim women can lead or join a protest ignores the broader issue of women’s rights, which transcends race or religion. There are plenty of women who would want to raise awareness to Muslim women as well as men that it’s wrong to exclude women and give them good for thought to even if they don’t object.

Yes. That didn’t go well for Afghani, Iranian or Iraqi women.

ArabellaSaurus · 12/10/2025 13:01

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 12/10/2025 12:29

they are muslim

yes, and they are also British and operating in Britain. This means they should be required to obey British law, regardless of their religion. I'm thoroughly puzzled by people arguing that one's religion allows you to pick and choose which laws to obey

as an aside, as noted by a PP, the organisers, East London Mosque Trust have a regulatory alert against them although I can't find details of it. On the surface they do look as if they could be dodgy. Allowing religious charities seems to me a very bad idea.

register-of-charities.charitycommission.gov.uk/en/constituency-search/-/charity-details/4034875/charity-overview?_uk_gov_ccew_onereg_charitydetails_web_portlet_CharityDetailsPortlet_organisationNumber=4034875

https://www.gov.uk/government/news/east-london-charity-given-official-warning-over-loss-of-1-million

'The Commission has issued an Official Warning to East London Mosque Trust over an investment deal which resulted in the loss of £1 million. The regulator found trustees failed to have sufficient oversight of the charity’s activities and it has given the charity six months to take remedial action or possibly face further regulatory scrutiny.

Presumably this.

East London charity given Official Warning over loss of £1 million

The Charity Commission has taken regulatory action against East London Mosque Trust for failing to responsibly manage charity funds.

https://www.gov.uk/government/news/east-london-charity-given-official-warning-over-loss-of-1-million

timesublimelysilencesthewhys · 12/10/2025 13:02

If this was a race for men, and their children could join in, that would be practical, and family orientated.

Just like when small children go into the public loos with their parents, or women bring their children with them to womens events.

Since when do 12 year olds be classed as adults and not children? Im taking that the 12 year old boys are there because they are classed as men?

Shineonyoucrazy · 12/10/2025 13:02

@ThatSpryShakeryou may see no issue with a race that’s billed as open to everyone excluding females of 12 and above but the Equality and Human Rights Commission may well do. It it was a men’s race highlighting a men’s health issue that would be different, as the exclusion of women could be seen as a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim, but this purports to be for everyone but excludes women in any role other than spectators. Sex equality is a British value and it trumps religious and cultural customs. No Muslim woman should be compelled to run in a race with men, but Muslim women are British citizens who deserve the same protection of the law - why should Muslim women have to ask you (or anyone) for support to uphold their legal rights?

Brainworm · 12/10/2025 13:02

Good law making involves addressing unwanted consequences. When it comes to single sex provision, I can understand making exceptions for children that prevents unwanted exclusion of parents.

I would be bloody delighted if the motivation to include girls under 12 in the race was because of the likely preponderance of teenage and adult male runners having caring responsibilities that could prohibit them from running if not. I doubt that’s the motivation though!

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 13:02

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 12/10/2025 12:53

How do you know 'they' don't, if they don't know what rights they have through living in this country, if they don't know there is another way of doing things if they wanted to. If they only aware of what they are told by a male dominated religion, that treats them as property, they're never going to know they have choices.

A Supreme Court judgement was necessary to confirm which rights women have in the UK. We have learned from the NHS Fife case that generally accepted practice is to copy whatever everybody else is doing, not to consult a lawyer. I don't know why it would be assumed that any group of people is aware of their rights, particularly if there may be barriers to consulting a lawyer who is properly qualified equality law specialist.

We do know, from experience, that it can be hard for women to defend their rights, for many reasons.

Tessisme · 12/10/2025 13:02

ArabellaSaurus · 12/10/2025 12:54

'Open to everyone: runners, walkers, and children (girls under 12 and boys of any age), plus family and friends as spectators or volunteers. Whether you’re taking part in the 5 km run or cheering from the sidelines, you’re welcome!'

But not women? How on earth is that 'everyone'?

It’s almost as if … women don’t count.

Except of course as cheerleaders for men, boys and the not-yet-women. This year’s 11 year old girls will be excluded next year and pushed onto the sidelines with the rest of extras. Unbelievable.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 12/10/2025 13:03

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 12/10/2025 12:53

How do you know 'they' don't, if they don't know what rights they have through living in this country, if they don't know there is another way of doing things if they wanted to. If they only aware of what they are told by a male dominated religion, that treats them as property, they're never going to know they have choices.

to be fair, this is quite the generalisation. The muslim women I know are not at all in this position. I do accept that there will be women in this position though.

spannasaurus · 12/10/2025 13:05

If you're comparing this race to children being allowed in opposite sex changing rooms then the race is equivalent to providing male changing rooms that can be used by girls under 12 but not providing female changing rooms

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:06

HappyNewTaxYear · 12/10/2025 11:50

So it’s acceptable to have a significant tranche of women in Britain who are somehow excluded from the rights and freedoms that women in this country should expect to have? You don’t think that Britain itself is being racist by saying in effect that we don’t care about THOSE women, they’ve chosen oppression? You’re getting dangerously close to two tier justice there.

It's not oppression

Fabulously · 12/10/2025 13:07

Ew. So this group of men specifically want only females under the age of 12 there, with no females over 12 being able to watch over them like mothers? Sounds creepy to specifically seek out children like this.

Catwalking · 12/10/2025 13:07

MrTiddlesTheCat · 12/10/2025 11:18

In the same way that it's a women's changing room but boys under the age of x are allowed.

As far as I had thought, changing rooms aren’t in any way comparable to Charity runs!

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 12/10/2025 13:09

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:06

It's not oppression

women being excluded from things men can have is not oppression? right you are

BundleBoogie · 12/10/2025 13:11

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 11:37

. I don’t want muslim women to think they have to accept this and I think it’s up to the rest of society to say “no we don’t think it’s ok to treat women like this”.

But many Muslim women are fine with this because it's their religion. And they love their religion and their lives most of them.
Heck even if you go to certain restaraunts in the uk run by muslims there are seperate seating areas and rooms for women only that many Muslim women want to use.
I understand your concern but I don't think most would want or need your concern

The difficult with this is that while women across the world are being murdered for not confirming to these same rules, do all Muslim women truly have freedom of choice?

Have they been conditioned into ‘liking’ these rules because there is no choice? Even Muslim women in this country have been murdered for not sticking to the rules. The implied threat of consequences will always be present.

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 13:11

Another2Cats · 12/10/2025 12:59

In the Daily Mail article the mosque say that they are relying on Section 195 and Schedule 23 paragraph 2 of the Equality Act.

Section 195 deals with sport and allows for single-sex competitions (eg men-only and women-only events) where the activity is "a gender-affected activity". In other words where being stronger, taller etc can make a difference.

This can include things like running, playing football, swimming etc. But it also covers other sports such as, most recently, pool.

There is ongoing debate about at what age young boys start to outperform young girls and so at what age does sport, such as running, become a "gender-affected activity".

It appears that the mosque would likely argue that running is not a gender-affected activity for children aged under 12. However, if you have any 11 year old children then you will have noticed that boys of that age can definitely run faster than girls - on average.

The Schedule 23 part is that they can restrict participation to muslim people only.

Section 195 deals with sport and allows for single-sex competitions (eg men-only and women-only events) where the activity is "a gender-affected activity". In other words where being stronger, taller etc can make a difference.

From the website, this race only seems to have medals for finishers, and there is no information about timing competitors so it seems to be very much a fun run. Can a fun run be gender affected?

Interesting to compare to park run, who say that they don't need to segregate any of their results by sex, because they are just a fun run, even though they provide a service by timing participants.

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