I agree. It’s all quite subjective isn’t it. Who decides if the child has the necessary level of maturity, etc? 🤷♀️
From about the age of 5 to about 13 or 14 I was so cross I was a girl. Dressed like a boy, short hair, boys name (a shortening of my female name), played with cars and toy guns, rode a bmx and went fishing. Repeatedly told my parents I wanted to be a boy. In reality I had older brothers and male cousins and just seemed they had more fun than the girls I knew. They were allowed to go in the woods on their own….I wasn’t supposed to. They were allowed to ride motorbikes, I wasn’t supposed to. They were allowed to learn to drive the tractor, I wasn’t allowed to. If things back then had been what they are now God knows what might have happened to me.