It is perfect thank you as it gives people like me, who have witnessed first hand, the terrible instances of men who come to work in their fetish gear.
So for me, he turned up for a meeting with me, on a friday, at lunchtime, when the kids who visited our work location [usually we had 3-4 coaches of kids mainly primary] would be preparing for lunch. I didn't know it prior to the meeting but he had booked a day's leave that day.
I was sitting in the cafe in a location that I could see the car park, to witness a man in his 50s, with his wire curly balding hair put into pink pigtails, dressed as Little Bo Peep. Mary Jane shoes, little socks, pink gingham dress that was little more than a belt and frilly knickers.
As he came walking up to me, I went into flight or fight and froze...and all I could do was stare at the empty spaces where the coaches would have been had we had kids in that day. He stood over me and said he trusted me to look through the document that we were supposed to be reviewing and waltzed off into the saff area.
I hand on heart, don't care if these people are not given work when they bring their fetish with them. I note that his current job, which is quite prestigious, does not use him in their promotions or even mention that he works at the place that he works at. Even though they showcase all their other staff.
I did not give permission to be part of his fetishistic sex life. And it was the reason I decided to go when my contract was up and not reapply for my own job. Why is it ok for women to have to walk away to avoid these men, and not for them to be kept away from women just trying to be normal and do their job properly?