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To me, the issues arising provide a salutary reminder of how misguidedly polarised people have become (across the board on a range of issues). Individuals are cast as goodies or baddies, victims or oppressors, deserving and undeserving. In real life, humans are not all that stable in character across different roles and contexts.
SP’s case is about the right to a single sex changing room and the impact the failure to provide this had. It is also about how her employer dealt with the issues arising from providing a mixed sex provision.
Whether DU or SP are lovely, horrid, or something in between shouldn’t be relevant beyond their behaviour relating to the issues at hand (the specific grievances raised by DU and SP and the organisation’s policies and practices relating to the grievances).
It is possible to take a strong position such as ‘I support SP’s argument’ and expressing ‘it’s outrageous how she has been treated’ without expressing global support for her character. Unless you know someone well, it’s not possible to make informed judgments about their character. There is a world of difference between agreeing with the case being made and citing unconditional support for her as a person.
Exactly the same goes for DU ‘supporters. I could write the exact same paragraph about people supporting him unconditionally.
Of course, people on the GI side will be regarding yesterday’s evidence as proof that DU is ‘the real victim’ and somehow that means women shouldn’t have female only changing rooms. However, it would be equally ridiculous if the evidence showed that SP had donated a kidney to an asylum seeker and the conclusions drawn from this meant winning her case should be a slam dunk.
I think the lesson here is to play the ball, not the man. Don’t idealise or degenerate characters in cases like this. Focus on the substantive issues, the rights and wrongs of what happened and what is needed to redress this.