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"Biological sex is a multidimensional variable with various components" - Discuss

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dunBle · 23/07/2025 00:12

To save further derailment of the Sandie Peggie tribunal threads with people debating Tandora's statements on the above theme, I've started this thread to point them to instead.

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cloudyblueglass · 24/07/2025 17:22

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:19

I wholeheartedly support Beth Upton correct. I don't believe that she compromised the privacy or safety of any woman.

You belueve men swinging their dicks around in female changing rooms, demanding to know why women present aren’t getting changed, doesnt compromise women’s privacy and safety?

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 17:22

@Tandora which bit is unhelpful?

Do you not agree with one of the statements?

Mipe · 24/07/2025 17:22

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:09

Correct. I am not interested in this. Because it is a completely unreasonable conversation in the current climate where there is so much misunderstanding of and prejudice towards trans people.

@Tandora what do you feel we are misunderstanding about trans people?

BeLemonNow · 24/07/2025 17:22

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 17:15

Ah, ok. Which bit is unhelpful?

@Tandora I did my best to summarise from the posts you've made and you are very welcome to amend. I do genuinely want to know what your overall argument is, and it's very important to set this out clearly and concisely otherwise lots of the posters are just attacking a straw woman. I think it's very reasonable to want to understand someone's position.

crazysnakess · 24/07/2025 17:22

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:16

Because they have CAIS, and while their bodies produce some oestrogen it's not enough for healthy development.

How do they know they have CAIS?

Fwiw all males produce some oestrogen.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/07/2025 17:22

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:19

I wholeheartedly support Beth Upton correct. I don't believe that she compromised the privacy or safety of any woman.

So you don't believe that women have the right to say "no" to taking their clothes off in front of Beth Upton? Or having Beth Upton (who was a colleague at the time) standing at the business end during their gynaecological procedure?

Jesus Christ on a fucking bike.

The person who used the word "evil" was not wrong.

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:23

cloudyblueglass · 24/07/2025 17:20

No.

You are incorrect.

Medicine recognises that they are androgen insensitive males, generally around the time that periods fail to start (with underdeveloped and undescended testes - note, the female sex cannot have testes) with a female phenotype as a result and need supportive medications.

I can assure you that it's not normalised within the medical profession to believe that women with CAIS are appropriately labelled "male".

You are wrong. This is really harmful.

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:24

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 17:22

@Tandora which bit is unhelpful?

Do you not agree with one of the statements?

No

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 17:24

Hello!!!??? @Tandora ? Which bit is unhelpful?

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 17:25

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:24

No

Aha! Thank you. Which one?

This is feeling a bit like a parlour game....

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/07/2025 17:25

Mipe · 24/07/2025 17:22

@Tandora what do you feel we are misunderstanding about trans people?

It doesn't bloody matter, does it?

Women don't need to understand anything in particular about trans people. The only thing we need to understand is our own personal boundaries and legal rights, and how to ensure that those boundaries and rights are respected.

cloudyblueglass · 24/07/2025 17:25

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:16

Nope that's not what I said. I'm a woman with girls, and privacy and safety is important to me.

Good luck with that - you refuse to acknowledge what a man is.

ErrolTheDragon · 24/07/2025 17:26

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/07/2025 17:19

So what, vulnerable women currently at risk of being seriously sexually assaulted or raped by trans identifying male prisoners in a women's prison need to wait until the rest of us in the non prison population are kinder to trans people before we can even have a conversation about their safety?

I beg to differ.

It is a conversation of vital importance which will be more productive if you are not involved in it, so feminists and politicians can have that conversation and you can be quiet and go and, I don't know, knit scarves in the colours of the trans flag or something.

Edited

Talk about getting things the wrong way round. The ‘current climate’ exists precisely because the proper ‘conversations’ didn’t happen before males were given carte blanche - whether they had a GRC or not - to colonise facilities which were specifically meant for women. In the case of women’s jails, the risk assessments were all about the safety and well-being of the males, not the women prisoners or afaik the staff.

set up an outrageous system and then punish women for being outraged? Same old misogyny in a different wrapper.

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 17:27

@Tandora is it the first one?

  • You feel that probably most or all (not sure which) trans people have a medical reason for being trans. Is this right?
Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:27

crazysnakess · 24/07/2025 17:22

How do they know they have CAIS?

Fwiw all males produce some oestrogen.

Either because they have had tests at birth or when puberty doesn't start as expected. Tests would reveal amongst other things that they have a male karyotype.

You still seem to be struggling with the idea that a karyotype and a person are not the same things - that the latter is not reducible to the former. No one is denying that women with CAIS have a male karyotype, that does not make it in anyway appropriate or acceptable to call the person "male". Nor is this type of labelling supported by science or medicine.

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 17:28

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 17:27

@Tandora is it the first one?

  • You feel that probably most or all (not sure which) trans people have a medical reason for being trans. Is this right?

This one @Tandora?

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:29

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 17:27

@Tandora is it the first one?

  • You feel that probably most or all (not sure which) trans people have a medical reason for being trans. Is this right?

Honestly I don't understand your statements.

What do you mean by "a medical reason"?

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 17:30

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:29

Honestly I don't understand your statements.

What do you mean by "a medical reason"?

I mean not in their minds

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:31

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 17:30

I mean not in their minds

the mind and the body are part of the same biological system

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/07/2025 17:33

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:31

the mind and the body are part of the same biological system

So you make no distinction between physical illnesses and mental health conditions?

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 17:33

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:31

the mind and the body are part of the same biological system

I'll try again.

I mean a biological underpinning to transness which is tied to broader process of sex development.

BeLemonNow · 24/07/2025 17:33

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:31

the mind and the body are part of the same biological system

Everyone whose studied philosophy shouts "category error", "category error!"...

cloudyblueglass · 24/07/2025 17:33

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:23

I can assure you that it's not normalised within the medical profession to believe that women with CAIS are appropriately labelled "male".

You are wrong. This is really harmful.

No.
Medicine recognises that CAIS is a male genetic disorder. Peopld eith two X chromosomes cannot have CAIS - you need a Y chromosome and a faulty X chromosome for CAIS.

The harmful part comes with people such as yourself using DSDs as a tool to try to convince others that sex isn’t really a binary and men can be women if they really wish it so.

Have a good one.

BackToLurk · 24/07/2025 17:34

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:19

I wholeheartedly support Beth Upton correct. I don't believe that she compromised the privacy or safety of any woman.

Did their presence compromise the integrity of a single-sex space? Or are they female? And if so on what basis?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/07/2025 17:34

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:27

Either because they have had tests at birth or when puberty doesn't start as expected. Tests would reveal amongst other things that they have a male karyotype.

You still seem to be struggling with the idea that a karyotype and a person are not the same things - that the latter is not reducible to the former. No one is denying that women with CAIS have a male karyotype, that does not make it in anyway appropriate or acceptable to call the person "male". Nor is this type of labelling supported by science or medicine.

It's also not relevant to the discussion about trans people.

I note that you have come back to flogging this horse just after confirming that you don't think women have the right to say no to taking their clothes off in front of Beth Upton.

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