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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

"Biological sex is a multidimensional variable with various components" - Discuss

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dunBle · 23/07/2025 00:12

To save further derailment of the Sandie Peggie tribunal threads with people debating Tandora's statements on the above theme, I've started this thread to point them to instead.

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KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 18:06

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 18:00

@Tandora

  • You feel that probably most or all (not sure which) trans people have a medical reason for being trans. Is this right?
  • You believe there is extensive research to support this view, but have yet to cite it or provide links. Is this right? Have I missed the links?
  • Is BeLemonNow's summary of your thinking on this point correct (page 27)?
  • You believe that the tiny percentage of people currently diagnosed with DSD fall within this group (see above) of trans people (or do you think they are a separate group?)

Please correct my understanding if incorrect.

Now here's the thing:

why does any of the above mean that this small percentage of trans women (men at birth) have a right to be in a space for women if women don't want them there?

Go on, go on, just a quick response clarifying where we differ before the tread closes.

In the spirit of sharing what you know.

Edited

@Tandora ?

BackToLurk · 24/07/2025 18:07

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:02

Based on what reproductive anatomy the person had, which they would deduce based on their perception of the person's sex.

So if a transwoman, whose ‘transness’ was based on how they felt, but whose reproductive anatomy was entirely male, went to the GP what type of contraception would be appropriate?

ErrolTheDragon · 24/07/2025 18:07

BeLemonNow · 24/07/2025 18:01

PS on a purely logical basis it doesn't matter what proportion of transwomen are sexual predators, some are, so letting them into a cis women spaces increases the risk of sexual assault purely by numbers.

And, of course, the overwhelming majority of sexual predators are male. There is no objective means to distinguish between a transwoman and a predator pretending to be a transwoman. Does this really need spelling out?

we have specific services, sports etc divided by sex for a variety of good reasons. I’ve never seen any convincing arguments why anything at all should be divided on the basis of ‘gender’.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/07/2025 18:07

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/07/2025 17:53

Well, quite obviously allowing trans women into female spaces increases the risk of rape, because trans women can commit rape and women cannot. This is not actually up for debate.

So if your daughter was raped in a women only space, and she said to you, "I know you really believe that trans women are women and that sharing our spaces with them doesn't increase the risk of rape or sexual assault, and I believed that too until I was actually raped by a trans woman in a women only space, but now I don't believe that anymore because I know I wouldn't have been raped in that space if only other female people had been in it."

What would you say in response?

@Tandora, how would you answer your daughter if she said this to you?

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:08

BackToLurk · 24/07/2025 18:07

So if a transwoman, whose ‘transness’ was based on how they felt, but whose reproductive anatomy was entirely male, went to the GP what type of contraception would be appropriate?

They would require condoms or a vasectomy.

cloudyblueglass · 24/07/2025 18:09

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:08

They would require condoms or a vasectomy.

Because….?

Keeptoiletssafe · 24/07/2025 18:09

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:55

Yes what of it?

This is not evidence that allowing trans women to use female toilets increases incidents of rape and sexual assault. It doesn't.

You can ban trans women from using female toilets - it will have zero impact on reducing rape and sexual assault.

From my data that’s not correct.
Single sex toilets can have door gaps. To put it bluntly, in case this thread runs out of posts, this design puts men off as if they are attacking in the cubicle, they’ll have witnesses. Single sex designs (the ones with door gaps) I believe can prevent assaults.
IF single sex toilets are ambiguous in terms of who is using them, then the design changes and they become private.
Unisex toilets are always private. It’s in building regs.
Children and women are raped in toilets that are in very public areas - but it’s private ones that’s the problem - concealment.

Single sex (with door gaps) is safer but it has to be single sex for that.

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:09

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/07/2025 18:07

@Tandora, how would you answer your daughter if she said this to you?

In the same way I would handle if she were assaulted by a "green" person at school and she said that she didn't want to be in a school with "green" people anymore.

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:10

cloudyblueglass · 24/07/2025 18:09

Because….?

Because they have a penis and testes.

BackToLurk · 24/07/2025 18:10

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:08

They would require condoms or a vasectomy.

Because they are male? Or are condoms and vasectomies also for female people?

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 18:10

Here lies @KateShugakIsALegend

Blanked by @Tandora

For reasons unknown

Maybe the questions were too hard....

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:11

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 18:10

Here lies @KateShugakIsALegend

Blanked by @Tandora

For reasons unknown

Maybe the questions were too hard....

sorry there's a lot of people talking to me. Remind me again what you wanted to ask?

cloudyblueglass · 24/07/2025 18:11

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:10

Because they have a penis and testes.

Edited

And they are objectively….,what sex?

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:12

cloudyblueglass · 24/07/2025 18:11

And they are objectively….,what sex?

It depends what you mean by "sex". And that's what this thread was about.

NextRinny · 24/07/2025 18:12

Tandora · 24/07/2025 17:09

Correct. I am not interested in this. Because it is a completely unreasonable conversation in the current climate where there is so much misunderstanding of and prejudice towards trans people.

The misunderstanding here is of women's boundaries and the aims of safe guarding.

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 18:12

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:11

sorry there's a lot of people talking to me. Remind me again what you wanted to ask?

Lol

BackToLurk · 24/07/2025 18:12

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:10

Because they have a penis and testes.

Edited

But those penises and testes would be entirely unproblematic in a female-only changing room? No one could possibly object?

cloudyblueglass · 24/07/2025 18:13

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:09

In the same way I would handle if she were assaulted by a "green" person at school and she said that she didn't want to be in a school with "green" people anymore.

But how does one identify the green petiole when green people have convinced everyone that they are in fact purple and if you do not play along with the game you’re reported to your employer and are suspended pending and investigation, and your daughter is expelled for refusing to play along?

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:14

BackToLurk · 24/07/2025 18:12

But those penises and testes would be entirely unproblematic in a female-only changing room? No one could possibly object?

Not all trans women have a penis and testes. Where they do they tend to be exceptionally private about them.

Helleofabore · 24/07/2025 18:14

NextRinny · 24/07/2025 18:12

The misunderstanding here is of women's boundaries and the aims of safe guarding.

I think it has long been established that some posters have no interest in safeguarding principles.

KateShugakIsALegend · 24/07/2025 18:14

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:14

Not all trans women have a penis and testes. Where they do they tend to be exceptionally private about them.

That was a cracker, thank you

cloudyblueglass · 24/07/2025 18:14

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:12

It depends what you mean by "sex". And that's what this thread was about.

Edited

🤣

NextRinny · 24/07/2025 18:16

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:14

Not all trans women have a penis and testes. Where they do they tend to be exceptionally private about them.

Castration does not imply that the sexual pathway was defective.
Privacy is not a symptom of a dsd.

Transwomen who no longer have a penis had one before. If you can't tell yourself this truth then you also can't define a transwoman. And you negate their very existence.

Helleofabore · 24/07/2025 18:16

Tandora · 24/07/2025 18:14

Not all trans women have a penis and testes. Where they do they tend to be exceptionally private about them.

"Not all trans women have a penis and testes. Where they do they tend to be exceptionally private about them."

This is a lovely blanket statement and overgeneralisation.

In fact, it can reasonably be said that around the same proportion of male people with transgender identities are 'private' about their testicles and penises as all other male people.

This is where robust safeguarding risk assessment comes in.

We have the MoJ prisoner statistics that can be used to show that male people at any stage of transition do not have a reduced risk of committing sex crimes when compared to the rest of the male population of the UK. There is absolutely no indication that this group of male people have the same risk of committing sex crimes as female people.

It is this blind adherence to statements such as this that show a level of ideological belief to the exclusion of being able to make rational and reasonable decisions about this group of male people.

And it all seems to come down to some posters who wish to present a case that some male people with a philosophical belief that does not reflect material reality should not be treated as all other male people. It comes down to some people believe that this group of male people, those with a philosophical belief that does not reflect material reality, should be excluded from legitimate discrimination.

Remember, of course, there is no biological or neurological markers that can be used to test whether someone is 'transgender'. The only commonality that this group shares is their philosophical belief. Laws and policies around safeguarding are not shaped by the potential of future discoveries, only what is known right now.

The questions that always remain. Why does one group of male people expect to be treated as if they are not male based on their philosophical belief when this belief does not reflect material reality?

Who benefits from this? (and the answer to this is 'Not female people or children')

theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 24/07/2025 18:16

Thank goodness this suffering is almost over.

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