"Insisting that trans people are not who they know/say they are, despite zero insight into the lived experiences of trans people or transness as a biopsychological, neurodevelopmental experience."
This is a good time to post this reminder. Because this really is hypocritical in that it is forgetting that male people are declaring that they can describe themselves as being 'female', based only on their own belief of how a female person 'feels' / interacts with the world.
No male person can ever experience life as a woman. They can only ever experience life as a male person who believes they are a woman.
Even when they 'act' like a woman, they are acting as they believe a 'woman' should act. Which is an act of misogyny by the way.
Even if they are treated 'as a woman' by some people, they are being treated as a 'male who presents as a woman and believes they are a woman'. Because their every reaction is based on that. Not on them being female in any way.
Even when they have extreme body modifications, it is to be their own concept of what a female looks like to them. It is not what a female is.
How can it be?
The only way a person can experience life as a woman, is to have a female body, formed around the production of large gametes, even if it doesn't produce those and to navigate their life based on the decisions they and society makes that revolve around them having that body.
And no male can have that body, not matter what chemicals or surgeries they have.
A male can conceptualise what it might be like to be a female, but that is all it ever is - their concept of being female.
They may do it because they don't feel they fit into how they conceptualise how a male person interacts with the world (ie. their own stereotypes around being male) or they do it because they want to be seen as a female (using their own stereotypes of how a female navigates life). It really doesn't matter though. Their motivation is irrelevant to the outcome. And I consider the outcome can only be described as misogyny.
Which is that they will always be just a male who believes they are something they are objectively not.
How can the material reality be any different?
The logic cannot be any different than that I am afraid.