No. Your words didn't live in my head. I saw them again because someone posted about it and I was struck again at the direct contradiction within that sentence. But in the same spirit of your opening sentence, it is great that it makes you feel good to think I was thinking about you at all between mentions. Fill your boots if it makes you feel good.
You seem to have either not understood or are simply ignoring the point of my post. Additionally, my 'womanhood' is only defined by my using the word 'woman' because I am female.
For sure, if the word woman was not used at all in the English language, we would still have a unique word to describe being an adult who has a body formed around the production of large gametes regardless of the production status of those gametes. It would never include a male person who had a body formed around the production of small gametes (regardless of the production status of those gametes).
In other words, whatever word was used to describe my body type and my development stage, would not include male people. So, if you then create a description of a group of male people that makes any positive reference to the word of used to uniquely describe a female person, it contradicts your point.
Using that alternative term in your point “The existence of a trans [insert term] does not redefine or diminish your [insert term]hood in any way, your [insert term]hood is personal to you, no one can change it, steal it, whatever else you claim trans people are doing to it”.
The first part of your point directly contradicts the rest of your point because that group you are saying does not redefine or diminish my experience of being an adult who has a body formed around the production of large gametes regardless of the production status of those gametes, has by the very nature of that sentence 'redefined' my experience. Thereby 'diminishing' it.
What is also interesting, is that this is a direct consequence of creating the space between the words 'trans' and 'woman'.