Koko sounds like exactly the sort of place where a man in a dress would be safe in the gents.
On the subject of why countries like Australia, New Zealand, the Norwich countries have such high levels of male on female violence, I think I read somewhere that they all have highly macho cultures alongside all the "wokeness", which actually was put in place specifically because of the macho culture.
The issue in the Norwich countries is actually called "the Nordic Paradox". In Australia, New Zealand, Canada, Nigeria etc they blame colonialism. You can Google for more info on both of these.