Are you talking about women? Because what you’ve described is exactly what you do every time you join these discussions. You belittle and scold and lecture us on what we should be discussing and how we should be doing it.
You accuse us of homophobia and transphobia , telling us that we’re prudish and old fashioned. It’s all an attempt to silence us and bully us into submission.
What you fail to recognise is that a lot of the women on this forum are lesbians, who have forgotten more about discrimination than you will ever know.
You’ve described yourself in this post, with your attitude towards women, maybe reflect on that.