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New Pride window in Belfast City Hall

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TheWitchWon · 23/05/2025 17:23

https://x.com/ripx4nutmeg/status/1925882503417454717?t=LdPsR5-OaXqN7CJw6pFKlA&s=19

The slogan on the window

"Save Sodomy from Ulster"
It celebrates inclusivity apparently and is the Lord Mayor's proudest moment as the city's Mayor.

https://x.com/ripx4nutmeg/status/1925882503417454717?s=19&t=LdPsR5-OaXqN7CJw6pFKlA

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SammyScrounge · 24/05/2025 02:42

suggestionsplease1 · 24/05/2025 02:05

Heading out with the boys tonight then?

Do you seriously think this window will survive? That the provocation will be ignored?

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/05/2025 02:44

Thunderpants88 · 24/05/2025 01:52

I meant through the window

What kind of arsehole destroys a piece of public art because it commemorates and celebrates the fight for gay rights?🤔

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/05/2025 02:58

SammyScrounge · 24/05/2025 02:42

Do you seriously think this window will survive? That the provocation will be ignored?

What provocation? Who's being "provoked"?

I've checked Belfast Live, BBC NI and UTV. Not a mention. I asked teen DC if anything came up on their socials. Nada. Even the OP hasn't come back with where they've seen outrage.

suggestionsplease1 · 24/05/2025 03:01

SammyScrounge · 24/05/2025 02:42

Do you seriously think this window will survive? That the provocation will be ignored?

Can you explain what the provocation is exactly?

Omg 😱 shock, horror, gay people dare to...exist 🤯 and have a wee window tae themselves.

Down With That Sort Of Thing? Eh?

TheWitchWon · 24/05/2025 03:09

You really don't see the irony of your posts, do you?
You talk about being silenced, while criticising someone for speaking.
It's a discussion about a slogan on a window.
No agenda, no hate (from me).
Just a discussion about the appropriateness of the slogan being put as a permanent fixture of a public building.
Some people love it, others don't (for various reasons).
But you seem to not want it discussed at all and are now veering towards this thread being a conspiracy to erase the existence of the Lgbtqia+ community.
Perhaps taking a break from FWR might help.

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suggestionsplease1 · 24/05/2025 03:10

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/05/2025 02:58

What provocation? Who's being "provoked"?

I've checked Belfast Live, BBC NI and UTV. Not a mention. I asked teen DC if anything came up on their socials. Nada. Even the OP hasn't come back with where they've seen outrage.

Edited

I imagine The Provoked are on the "Don't tell anyone else that we're a right wing extremist group, pretend it's all about that trans stuff as that Mumsnet site seems to be into that stuff haha, and then we can build up to homophobic stuff in time when we've nailed that one as they seem like they'll be on board with that as well heehee" groups.

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/05/2025 03:11

TheWitchWon · 24/05/2025 03:09

You really don't see the irony of your posts, do you?
You talk about being silenced, while criticising someone for speaking.
It's a discussion about a slogan on a window.
No agenda, no hate (from me).
Just a discussion about the appropriateness of the slogan being put as a permanent fixture of a public building.
Some people love it, others don't (for various reasons).
But you seem to not want it discussed at all and are now veering towards this thread being a conspiracy to erase the existence of the Lgbtqia+ community.
Perhaps taking a break from FWR might help.

Ah. So this thread is an Art Appreciation/Criticism thread? Why didn't you say so? And why is it in FWR?

TheWitchWon · 24/05/2025 03:12

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/05/2025 02:58

What provocation? Who's being "provoked"?

I've checked Belfast Live, BBC NI and UTV. Not a mention. I asked teen DC if anything came up on their socials. Nada. Even the OP hasn't come back with where they've seen outrage.

Edited

I did come back and said I wasn't outraged. I don't object to the window itself, I just don't like the slogan on it.
I definitely wouldn't be throwing stones at it or anything like that 😲

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suggestionsplease1 · 24/05/2025 03:14

TheWitchWon · 24/05/2025 03:09

You really don't see the irony of your posts, do you?
You talk about being silenced, while criticising someone for speaking.
It's a discussion about a slogan on a window.
No agenda, no hate (from me).
Just a discussion about the appropriateness of the slogan being put as a permanent fixture of a public building.
Some people love it, others don't (for various reasons).
But you seem to not want it discussed at all and are now veering towards this thread being a conspiracy to erase the existence of the Lgbtqia+ community.
Perhaps taking a break from FWR might help.

I'm quite happily reading everything you have to say, it's probably one of my less desirable character traits, enjoying someone shoot themselves in the foot 😁

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/05/2025 03:17

suggestionsplease1 · 24/05/2025 03:10

I imagine The Provoked are on the "Don't tell anyone else that we're a right wing extremist group, pretend it's all about that trans stuff as that Mumsnet site seems to be into that stuff haha, and then we can build up to homophobic stuff in time when we've nailed that one as they seem like they'll be on board with that as well heehee" groups.

This stained glass window has nothing, I mean absolutely nothing to do with trans.

Who is ripx4nutmeg anyway? Why do they care about Belfast City Hall art?

TheWitchWon · 24/05/2025 03:18

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/05/2025 03:11

Ah. So this thread is an Art Appreciation/Criticism thread? Why didn't you say so? And why is it in FWR?

Whats wrong with FWR?
Lot of topics are discussed here?

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TheWitchWon · 24/05/2025 03:21

suggestionsplease1 · 24/05/2025 03:14

I'm quite happily reading everything you have to say, it's probably one of my less desirable character traits, enjoying someone shoot themselves in the foot 😁

You better look down then.

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suggestionsplease1 · 24/05/2025 03:24

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/05/2025 03:17

This stained glass window has nothing, I mean absolutely nothing to do with trans.

Who is ripx4nutmeg anyway? Why do they care about Belfast City Hall art?

Edited

Ah...but don't you see...a careful pathway is being laid... It starts with the anti-trans rhetoric and the fraudulent narrative is espoused - where trans people have supposedly taken over Pride...this then justifies hostility towards any signifiers of Pride and gay people by extension. And eventually the homophobia as seen in this thread and others in FWR is legitimised.

It's a carefully curated route which FWR has well honed.

You're probably not on the groups where this technique is discussed!

TheWitchWon · 24/05/2025 06:42

suggestionsplease1 · 24/05/2025 03:24

Ah...but don't you see...a careful pathway is being laid... It starts with the anti-trans rhetoric and the fraudulent narrative is espoused - where trans people have supposedly taken over Pride...this then justifies hostility towards any signifiers of Pride and gay people by extension. And eventually the homophobia as seen in this thread and others in FWR is legitimised.

It's a carefully curated route which FWR has well honed.

You're probably not on the groups where this technique is discussed!

🙄

New Pride window in Belfast City Hall
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LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 24/05/2025 06:56

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/05/2025 22:39

Ok, so it's still not on Belfast Live. I'm surprised because they print anything that'll get them clicks and comments.

Where are you seeing this?

It’s all over X, he said he’s had to close the comments due to the homophobia. I just saw people saying it’s awful or a waste of money, no homophobia.

I’m not on X but you can find it all on nitter.net.

TheWitchWon · 24/05/2025 07:06

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 24/05/2025 06:56

It’s all over X, he said he’s had to close the comments due to the homophobia. I just saw people saying it’s awful or a waste of money, no homophobia.

I’m not on X but you can find it all on nitter.net.

Love is love.
Trans women are women.
No mention of Trans men, perhaps they aren't important.

New Pride window in Belfast City Hall
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LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 24/05/2025 07:14

suggestionsplease1 · 24/05/2025 01:27

This is the age old technique to silence, shame, and diminish gay people.

Make us invisible and then we are easier to isolate and eventually dismiss.

Pretend we don't exist and you don't have to have to acknowledge the harms that are done to us.

Make us invisible so we can not find each other, and can not support each other.

Visibility enables us to combat the prejudices and hostilities that have always existed, and are returning with more force in the world today.

"Just keep quiet won't you, we don't want to hear this" That is what this thread is all about.

Are you talking about women? Because what you’ve described is exactly what you do every time you join these discussions. You belittle and scold and lecture us on what we should be discussing and how we should be doing it.

You accuse us of homophobia and transphobia , telling us that we’re prudish and old fashioned. It’s all an attempt to silence us and bully us into submission.

What you fail to recognise is that a lot of the women on this forum are lesbians, who have forgotten more about discrimination than you will ever know.

You’ve described yourself in this post, with your attitude towards women, maybe reflect on that.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 24/05/2025 07:17

suggestionsplease1 · 24/05/2025 02:20

Yes, and you're going out of your way to post on FWR aren't you?

I mean people have lots of opinions on lots of different things, windows included ( not a fan of velux myself); they occur as passing thoughts and drift away again.

But no, this has animated and energised you so much that it was worthy of a thread on FWR. 🥱 Anyone else might think there was an agenda 🙄

Scold, scold, scold. You just can’t stop yourself from trying to control the narrative can you? It’s hilarious 😆

Gettingmadderallthetime · 24/05/2025 07:22

Is this a building that does public tours? What will the tour guide say about this window? (Imo it's a bit horrid but could have been far worse). Wondering what window it replaced and whether there is (say) a women's rights window in the building.

Thank you to @suggestionsplease1 for the phrase 'gay visibility'. It's a bit like trans visibility? Insistence that gay people have to seen and acknowledged applauded all the time? Otherwise it's homo/transphobia. It's not about denying existence it's about denying the spotlight. I had never understood the 'denying our existence' claim before but now I have a better grasp.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 24/05/2025 07:22

suggestionsplease1 · 24/05/2025 03:10

I imagine The Provoked are on the "Don't tell anyone else that we're a right wing extremist group, pretend it's all about that trans stuff as that Mumsnet site seems to be into that stuff haha, and then we can build up to homophobic stuff in time when we've nailed that one as they seem like they'll be on board with that as well heehee" groups.

Wow, I really didn’t have paranoia on my bingo card but you live and learn.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 24/05/2025 07:29

suggestionsplease1 · 24/05/2025 03:24

Ah...but don't you see...a careful pathway is being laid... It starts with the anti-trans rhetoric and the fraudulent narrative is espoused - where trans people have supposedly taken over Pride...this then justifies hostility towards any signifiers of Pride and gay people by extension. And eventually the homophobia as seen in this thread and others in FWR is legitimised.

It's a carefully curated route which FWR has well honed.

You're probably not on the groups where this technique is discussed!

Yes, it’s all a big conspiracy, Mumsnet is made up of sleeper cells who will be galvanised at the appropriate signal to …. Oh that’s right, stand up for women and girls and protect our rights to single sex spaces and sports, and discuss this with other like minded women.

Please tell me where the secret groups are, I’m feeling a bit left out 😂😂

SionnachRuadh · 24/05/2025 07:31

Because I'm tactful and polite, I'm not going to suggest that by three in the morning suggestions had one too many.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 24/05/2025 07:33

SionnachRuadh · 24/05/2025 07:31

Because I'm tactful and polite, I'm not going to suggest that by three in the morning suggestions had one too many.

I think you’re being terribly polite by saying ONE too many 😂

suggestionsplease1 · 24/05/2025 07:40

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 24/05/2025 07:29

Yes, it’s all a big conspiracy, Mumsnet is made up of sleeper cells who will be galvanised at the appropriate signal to …. Oh that’s right, stand up for women and girls and protect our rights to single sex spaces and sports, and discuss this with other like minded women.

Please tell me where the secret groups are, I’m feeling a bit left out 😂😂

https://www.splcenter.org/resources/hatewatch/christian-right-tips-fight-transgender-rights-separate-t-lgb/

This link describes the general approach

Christian Right tips to fight transgender rights: separate the T from the LGB

Last week, from Thursday, October 13 through Saturday, October 15 the anti-LGBT hate group Family Research Council put on its annual Values Voter Summit in Washington, DC., A prime networking event for the Christian right where anti-LGBT and anti-Musli...

https://www.splcenter.org/resources/hatewatch/christian-right-tips-fight-transgender-rights-separate-t-lgb/

StellaAndCrow · 24/05/2025 07:44

I like stained glass, but think it's a bit odd to have a sex act stated in a permanent display like that.
I'd thing think the same whether it was sodomy, vaginal intercourse or any explicit sex act.

I mean, maybe it's educational . . . in a "what's sodomy mummy?/what does that say Harold?" kind of way.

I thought it referred to anal intercourse, but wanted to check, so I googled.

I was surprised by the Wikipedia entry:
Sodomy (/ˈsɒdəmi/), also called buggery in British English, generally refers to either anal sex (but occasionally also oral sex) between people, or any sexual activity between a human and another animal (bestiality).

Anal sex - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anal_sex

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