Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

“Why are TERFs so well organized compared to us?”

480 replies

TheIsleOfTERF · 05/05/2025 16:56

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/s/iQskn15N11

For anyone interested on theories of how TERF Island has come to be!

Get the bingo board out as it has all the classics!

-Housewives
-Lonely
-Jealous
-Funded by the right wing

OP posts:
Thread gallery
43
PaintDecisions · 05/05/2025 18:32

It's a very sad reddit community tbh. It's a closed shop where moderates and progressives who truly aren't "TWAW" are ridiculed and kicked out. These forums are exactly how people become radicalised, especially when they jump straight onto the newbies seeking support. It's a fast shift into "your parents hate you, you need to emancipate yourself" and I do worry about the safety of people they are clearly messaging off the boards.

That thread alone shows the lack of critical thinking about any of it, the swallowing of the propaganda about RW funding and low levels of intellect tbh.

Igneococcus · 05/05/2025 18:33

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 05/05/2025 18:30

they're not coming to the fucking garden party

They better not because I'm in charge of pudding and I'm catering for six.

Helleofabore · 05/05/2025 18:34

If we are just socks, we don’t need feeding. Just washing !

ChompandaGrazia · 05/05/2025 18:34

FiveBarGate · 05/05/2025 17:28

Oh my.

Never has anything demonstrated so clearly that you know nothing of what it is to be a woman.

When do I get to join those sitting about all day thinking about my 'hate'.

Or in reality we have work, caring responsibilities and mental load.

It is utterly ridiculous but extremely depressing to see how middle aged women are viewed by men.

And young men at that, who have presumably grown up with mothers who go out to work.

Hoppinggreen · 05/05/2025 18:38

We cut our teeth on The PTA
Nothing holds any fear after that.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 05/05/2025 18:43

Just got to look at the pictures outside the courthouse when it was announced. All those celebrating with champagne were housewives of the wealthy or those who’ve taken (very) early retirement

Completely failing to mention that the 3 women who brought the case were lesbians, and therefore part of the 'community' they claim to speak for.

TheIsleOfTERF · 05/05/2025 18:43

Igneococcus · 05/05/2025 18:28

'It's much easier to organise a group of 10 people than 200,000'

Hang on! I thought there was six of us. Who let four others join? Are they going to get a share of our wad of cash from the US right?

Perhaps they’re including the lawn boys in that number?

OP posts:
AlexandraLeaving · 05/05/2025 18:44

Are the lawn boys and garden parties an either/or situation, or are we allowed both?

Igneococcus · 05/05/2025 18:46

TheIsleOfTERF · 05/05/2025 18:43

Perhaps they’re including the lawn boys in that number?

That's a possibility. I might make another trifle then, or maybe a pavlova.

Boiledbeetle · 05/05/2025 18:47

"...powerful and influential scenes and building direct, personal relationships with power. They share their talking points at garden parties and dinners..."

Garden parties!! We have garden parties??

Why have I never been invited?????

<Sobs in corner>

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 05/05/2025 18:47

MoistVonL · 05/05/2025 17:31

Wow, that was absolutely bananas! Apparently JKR is a closet transman, and we're all rolling in money.

I'm sure my overdraft will be delighted to hear that last bit.

I've been at this for years now; when does that cascade of American right wing Christian money kick in? Did I neglect to fill in a form?

Can't your overdraft just identify into the black? 😜

#queerfinance

Pluvia · 05/05/2025 18:50

Yet again I'm reminded that my Christian-right and Fascist-donated money has yet to arrive.

Callipygion · 05/05/2025 18:54

illinivich · 05/05/2025 17:16

Bless 'em.

They are hiding their light under a bushel, they have achieved so much.

Or rather they did until they made everyone look at their bushels.

They are hiding their light under a bushel

or is that their prick?

Pluvia · 05/05/2025 18:55

And hell, have the rest of you been invited to garden parties without me?

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 05/05/2025 18:56

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 05/05/2025 18:43

Just got to look at the pictures outside the courthouse when it was announced. All those celebrating with champagne were housewives of the wealthy or those who’ve taken (very) early retirement

Completely failing to mention that the 3 women who brought the case were lesbians, and therefore part of the 'community' they claim to speak for.

Shhh don't let the facts get in the way!!

ThisOpenMauveLurker · 05/05/2025 18:56

Especially liked the bit about all having been at private school together. They wouldn’t have survived 5 minutes of my multicultural inner city Oxford 1980s experience, where most of us lived in council houses and our mums were cleaners and car factory workers 🤷‍♀️

Boiledbeetle · 05/05/2025 18:57

So now I've caught up has ANYONE actually been to one of our garden parties??

EmpressaurusKitty · 05/05/2025 19:01

Boiledbeetle · 05/05/2025 18:57

So now I've caught up has ANYONE actually been to one of our garden parties??

I once went to the pub with Allison Bailey.

Does that count?

Boiledbeetle · 05/05/2025 19:01

Igneococcus · 05/05/2025 18:28

'It's much easier to organise a group of 10 people than 200,000'

Hang on! I thought there was six of us. Who let four others join? Are they going to get a share of our wad of cash from the US right?

Wait... Am I supposed to have shared the millions paid into my account from far right organisations? I thought it was all for me.

“Why are TERFs so well organized compared to us?”
Soitis83 · 05/05/2025 19:02

Boiledbeetle · 05/05/2025 18:57

So now I've caught up has ANYONE actually been to one of our garden parties??

No but I would love to! They say we are middle aged with nothing better to do. I suppose they're right. Having 3 children under 5, a career and a house to run just isn't keeping me busy enough

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 05/05/2025 19:02

i think due to an admin SNAFU it's just a bunch of very puzzled lawn boys at the garden parties

ProfessorFellatioHornblower · 05/05/2025 19:02

I imagine with all those lawn boys, that the gardens for the parties would be ace.

Igneococcus · 05/05/2025 19:03

Boiledbeetle · 05/05/2025 19:01

Wait... Am I supposed to have shared the millions paid into my account from far right organisations? I thought it was all for me.

I know. I started looking at that kitchen remodel I'm planning, I'm counting on that money.

EmpressaurusKitty · 05/05/2025 19:03

Boiledbeetle · 05/05/2025 19:01

Wait... Am I supposed to have shared the millions paid into my account from far right organisations? I thought it was all for me.

I’ll PM you my bank details & the amount I need to pay off my mortgage, @Boiledbeetle.

Hoppinggreen · 05/05/2025 19:03

Pluvia · 05/05/2025 18:55

And hell, have the rest of you been invited to garden parties without me?

You can keep your Garden parties
I just want my Right Wing fascist money and my Lawn Boy
Not entirely sure what a Lawn Boy is but I think I want one