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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

“Why are TERFs so well organized compared to us?”

480 replies

TheIsleOfTERF · 05/05/2025 16:56

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/s/iQskn15N11

For anyone interested on theories of how TERF Island has come to be!

Get the bingo board out as it has all the classics!

-Housewives
-Lonely
-Jealous
-Funded by the right wing

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Kinsters · 06/05/2025 08:12

It's wild to me that they can't see that the media, government, institutions etc have been (and to varying extents still are) on their side! They had the prime minister of the UK saying that a non-zero percentage of women had penises. Labour had self-ID in their manifesto and Theresa May's government unsuccessfully tried to introduce it in 2016. Stonewall was hugely influential and women were fired for daring to voice their opinions. They had all that and still failed because TWAW is fundamentally not true.

The cognitive dissonance is just mind boggling.

I find trans Reddit equal parts amusing, sad and terrifying. I often want to post on there but there's really no point. I don't think they're capable of having a discussion about this issue. I've seen lately them saying "your comfort doesn't trump my rights". There's really no GC argument they won't take and distort to desperately try and make it fit them (I won't say what sprung to my mind when I wrote that sentence but it was not flattering 🤭)

GreenFriedTomato · 06/05/2025 08:18

@PriOn1 I had planned to attend the last LWS event in Nottingham but I chickened out after watching footage of the event that was held a couple of months earlier. The TRA had already taken over the spot where KJK was going to set up, so they had to set up on the other side of the square. There was no police support or buffer zone either. The TRA were literally screaming in women's faces and jumping into the wall and banging drums next to where women were speaking.
They eventually took the meet to outside the local police station 😂
I'm not sure what happened at the event I was going to attend. I'll have to look that up.

Someone else completely unrelated (a YouTuber) stumbled across the TRA gathering and didn't realise what was going on. He had been invited to the LWS event but somehow confused the TRA with them. He spoke to several TRA and was initially sympathetic, but when he started asking questions they got paranoid, turned on him and he was physically attacked. I think he went from potential ally to Terf in about 60 seconds!

There was also the issue of my travelling to and from the event alone and fear of being followed by some rabid TRA after the meet.

I do hope to attend one day though.

Shortshriftandlethal · 06/05/2025 08:28

Crackerjacked · 06/05/2025 08:11

What a joke. The terfs aren’t well organised at all. We’ve been infighting since 2015. The trans issue would have been put to bed years ago if we had been organised. The TRAs are very organised. It’s only now they’re losing that they’re becoming dissatisfied with themselves

I think there has been significant organisation. Groups such 'Sex Matters' , 'Transgender Trend', 'Legal Feminist' 'Labour Women's Declaration', The LGB
Alliance are now established, and earlier on local Resisters groups were impoortant in pushing back at local levels and raising consciousness.

The early 'A woman's Place' conferences and meetings were very important too.

PriOn1 · 06/05/2025 08:38

GreenFriedTomato · 06/05/2025 08:18

@PriOn1 I had planned to attend the last LWS event in Nottingham but I chickened out after watching footage of the event that was held a couple of months earlier. The TRA had already taken over the spot where KJK was going to set up, so they had to set up on the other side of the square. There was no police support or buffer zone either. The TRA were literally screaming in women's faces and jumping into the wall and banging drums next to where women were speaking.
They eventually took the meet to outside the local police station 😂
I'm not sure what happened at the event I was going to attend. I'll have to look that up.

Someone else completely unrelated (a YouTuber) stumbled across the TRA gathering and didn't realise what was going on. He had been invited to the LWS event but somehow confused the TRA with them. He spoke to several TRA and was initially sympathetic, but when he started asking questions they got paranoid, turned on him and he was physically attacked. I think he went from potential ally to Terf in about 60 seconds!

There was also the issue of my travelling to and from the event alone and fear of being followed by some rabid TRA after the meet.

I do hope to attend one day though.

The potential violence has to be a consideration for any woman. Also a reason I would never take the dog, even though he’s generally good with crowds and noise. The film where a TRA was shouting at a baby was a perfect illustration of how unhinged some objectors are.

There was also a video of a man who goes out and films police. I think he called himself the laughing auditor, or something along those lines. He came across some TRAs who were objecting to a small group of lesbians meeting and was also shocked and quickly peaked by their paranoia and anger. He was even more bemused at the end when the small group of utterly unthreatening lesbians filed out a short while later.

theressomanytinafeysicouldbe · 06/05/2025 08:52

What is a TERF?

ThatCyanCat · 06/05/2025 08:57

theressomanytinafeysicouldbe · 06/05/2025 08:52

What is a TERF?

Someone who is Tired of Explaining Reality to Fu- Fools.

dubaichocolate · 06/05/2025 09:02

There’s also the time spent watching porn and masturbating. If they cut down on that and instead started organising and writing to their MP, who knows what they could achieve?

VaddaABeetch · 06/05/2025 09:06

EmpressaurusKitty · 06/05/2025 07:41

I don’t think I need a lawn boy. Having a weekly cleaner might be useful though. And he could sweep the balcony.

Is it an either/or situation on the cleaner or lawn boy do you know? I’d like a cleaner please.

LeftieRightsHoarder · 06/05/2025 09:08

CassOle · 05/05/2025 17:09

MimTheWitch said this (my bolding) rather amusing load of crock: "Another advantage the TERFs have over us is that they aren't limited to telling the truth. The media don't want truth, they want controversy, views and clicks. Indeed the basic TERF premise, from which all others flow, that trans women are a special threat to cis women has no basis in reality. Once they lie about that, without getting called out on it by the media, then any other lie is fair to them. We are limited to telling the truth only, rigorously backed by stats, or be pilloried for it. If we call out one TERF lie, they'll scattergun a dozen more, so we are always on the back foot."

Wow!!! This is DARVO on stilts!

Actually it looks like a reversal of something a woman might have written about the movement that is based on men claiming to be women. Funny 😂

LeftieRightsHoarder · 06/05/2025 09:13

GreenFriedTomato · 06/05/2025 03:02

THIS is a beautiful handmade sign

Magnificent! 😃😃😃

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/05/2025 09:15

LeftieRightsHoarder · 06/05/2025 09:08

Wow!!! This is DARVO on stilts!

Actually it looks like a reversal of something a woman might have written about the movement that is based on men claiming to be women. Funny 😂

That was the very first thing I noticed about this movement a decade ago. It’s a TRA signature. I think they get a kick when they make the most outrageous DARVO they can pull off.

Boiledbeetle · 06/05/2025 09:19

theressomanytinafeysicouldbe · 06/05/2025 08:52

What is a TERF?

Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist. In reality it means anyone who disagrees that men can actually become women or anything else the TRAs voice as fact.

ScrollingLeaves · 06/05/2025 09:19

TheIsleOfTERF · 05/05/2025 16:56

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/s/iQskn15N11

For anyone interested on theories of how TERF Island has come to be!

Get the bingo board out as it has all the classics!

-Housewives
-Lonely
-Jealous
-Funded by the right wing

I saw one comment that Terfs don’t tell the truth!!

DiaAssolellat · 06/05/2025 09:23

Boiledbeetle · 06/05/2025 09:19

Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist. In reality it means anyone who disagrees that men can actually become women or anything else the TRAs voice as fact.

See also:

Tired of
Explaining
Reality to
Fuckwits

RedToothBrush · 06/05/2025 09:24

most terfs I've seen are middle age + house wives etc with fuck all better to do than sit round and gossip and bitch about others while their husbands are busy fucking the lawn boy at the golf course

I don't think anyone has commented on this seriously. We should. It describes the husband fucking the lawn boy. It's a classic case of casual homophobia. It should be noted.

GreenFriedTomato · 06/05/2025 09:25

@PriOn1 There was also a video of a man who goes out and films police. I think he called himself the laughing auditor,

Yes the Scots fella. I follow a few of these auditors and it was via his videos I started to see the behaviour of TRA's during their protests.
He filmed one protest they held outside the LGB alliance HQ. It was like some weird street party/daytime rave. The middle-aged women walked out afterwards and made a few humorous quips about the TRA's there
I don't know if that's the one you mean. I think he's also filmed a few LWS events too.

Boiledbeetle · 06/05/2025 09:39

GreenFriedTomato · 06/05/2025 09:25

@PriOn1 There was also a video of a man who goes out and films police. I think he called himself the laughing auditor,

Yes the Scots fella. I follow a few of these auditors and it was via his videos I started to see the behaviour of TRA's during their protests.
He filmed one protest they held outside the LGB alliance HQ. It was like some weird street party/daytime rave. The middle-aged women walked out afterwards and made a few humorous quips about the TRA's there
I don't know if that's the one you mean. I think he's also filmed a few LWS events too.

I think this is the video

MarieDeGournay · 06/05/2025 09:41

Crackerjacked · 06/05/2025 08:11

What a joke. The terfs aren’t well organised at all. We’ve been infighting since 2015. The trans issue would have been put to bed years ago if we had been organised. The TRAs are very organised. It’s only now they’re losing that they’re becoming dissatisfied with themselves

You make a valid point about TERFs infighting - the Tunnocks Teacakes v. Tunnocks Wafers split got quite ugly at one point.

Fortunately, the rift was healed by somebody saying 'A Tunnocks split! that sounds delicious!' so they split a Tunnocks wafer in half and filled it with smashed Tunnock Teacake and ice cream. Sprinkled with Tunnock crumb, and topped off with whipped cream. Then a bit more Tunnock crumb, then a bit more whipped cream, then somebody called halt.

We have been united and laser-focused ever sinceGrin

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 06/05/2025 09:43

MarieDeGournay · 06/05/2025 09:41

You make a valid point about TERFs infighting - the Tunnocks Teacakes v. Tunnocks Wafers split got quite ugly at one point.

Fortunately, the rift was healed by somebody saying 'A Tunnocks split! that sounds delicious!' so they split a Tunnocks wafer in half and filled it with smashed Tunnock Teacake and ice cream. Sprinkled with Tunnock crumb, and topped off with whipped cream. Then a bit more Tunnock crumb, then a bit more whipped cream, then somebody called halt.

We have been united and laser-focused ever sinceGrin

Damn. Is it too early for second breakfast? Because for some reason I fancy some Tunnocks…

ThatCyanCat · 06/05/2025 09:44

MarieDeGournay · 06/05/2025 09:41

You make a valid point about TERFs infighting - the Tunnocks Teacakes v. Tunnocks Wafers split got quite ugly at one point.

Fortunately, the rift was healed by somebody saying 'A Tunnocks split! that sounds delicious!' so they split a Tunnocks wafer in half and filled it with smashed Tunnock Teacake and ice cream. Sprinkled with Tunnock crumb, and topped off with whipped cream. Then a bit more Tunnock crumb, then a bit more whipped cream, then somebody called halt.

We have been united and laser-focused ever sinceGrin

Sorry, but that's what the top brass wanted you to think. In truth, we just quietly acquired a few more lawn boys and that solved everything.

GreenFriedTomato · 06/05/2025 09:46

@Boiledbeetle that's the one
The lady at the end. 'i know, they're trans, they're nuts'

fromorbit · 06/05/2025 09:56

Latest GC organisation news from those in the know.

https://x.com/AjaTheEmpress/status/1919647583749709836

"A recent ex-GC person said this week that the GC movement is highly organised, operating in local cells of about 50 people to a cell, carrying out leafleting and other operations, with private WhatsApp groups which are mostly mockery of trans people and advocates."

How did they find out about size of the local cells? Who has been blabbing?

https://x.com/bencooper/status/1919506528798638376

KnottyAuty · 06/05/2025 10:01

fromorbit · 06/05/2025 09:56

Latest GC organisation news from those in the know.

https://x.com/AjaTheEmpress/status/1919647583749709836

"A recent ex-GC person said this week that the GC movement is highly organised, operating in local cells of about 50 people to a cell, carrying out leafleting and other operations, with private WhatsApp groups which are mostly mockery of trans people and advocates."

How did they find out about size of the local cells? Who has been blabbing?

Damn! There’s 52 in ours. And I was last in. Will I get the boot?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/05/2025 10:01

”carrying out leafleting and other operations, with private WhatsApp groups which are mostly mockery of trans people and advocates."

the HORROR! Call Prevent!

MarieDeGournay · 06/05/2025 10:04

fromorbit · 06/05/2025 09:56

Latest GC organisation news from those in the know.

https://x.com/AjaTheEmpress/status/1919647583749709836

"A recent ex-GC person said this week that the GC movement is highly organised, operating in local cells of about 50 people to a cell, carrying out leafleting and other operations, with private WhatsApp groups which are mostly mockery of trans people and advocates."

How did they find out about size of the local cells? Who has been blabbing?

A easy mistake to make - there are only 5 in each cell, as per instructions from TERF HQ, but because it's five women we can each do the work of ten men.....

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