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spannasaurus · 21/01/2025 20:22

Katbum · 21/01/2025 20:19

I have read it, it’s about gender ideology. Not sex based rights. Its seems some women on here think women’s rights is about the use of a toilet. But they are celebrating a rapist in the White House. Feminism has failed.

No it's about having female only
Prisons
Hospital wards
Rape crisis centres
Sports
Intimate care
Etc etc

FlirtsWithRhinos · 21/01/2025 20:22

Katbum · 21/01/2025 20:00

its fairly obvious that trans women are at a huge risk of male violence. I don’t think ‘validation’ comes into it.

No one is saying they have to go in with the men. Yes women's spaces and women's protections and women's rights and women's opportunities are now closed to them, but those things should never have been opened to them in the first place.

But trans women and their allies could certainly still campaign for separate provision either for themselves alone or as part of a cohort of other vulnerable men.

And frankly, if there are some groups of men that simply can't be safe with other men then that is what they should have done at the start. There never any valid reason to assume a man who choses to look or act like some type of female archetype somehow actually is more like a woman than he is a man.

Datun · 21/01/2025 20:22

Katbum · 21/01/2025 20:19

I have read it, it’s about gender ideology. Not sex based rights. Its seems some women on here think women’s rights is about the use of a toilet. But they are celebrating a rapist in the White House. Feminism has failed.

I have no problem using women's toilets. I have a problem with men who want to use them.

EasternStandard · 21/01/2025 20:25

I don't see what male on male violence has to do with women.

Yes it needs to be resolved in their sex class. Women and girls were over ridden for a couple of decades, now it's back to men to resolve

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 21/01/2025 20:26

Katbum · 21/01/2025 19:48

You think being in prison is a woman’s right?!

Being in a female-only prison for the duration of her sentence is absolutely a female criminal's right.

Bring remanded in a female-only prison whilst awaiting trial is absolutely a female defendant's right.

To be locked up with male prisoners is a violation of women's human rights.

To come out with your statement requires creative and deliberate misrepresentation of ResisterOfTwaddleRex's post.

Datun · 21/01/2025 20:27

Personally, I don't think it's about men's safety, and there's not much evidence to back that argument up.

If they were worried, they would've campaigned. I don't think they were and they didn't.

I still don't think they are.

But now they don't have much choice.

Toseland · 21/01/2025 20:29

Ppzd · 21/01/2025 19:46

no families, no inventions, no eccentricity, no pioneers

What the absolute fuck are you on about?

Hmm, yes maybe I've not explained that very well. Take David Bowie, if he had been growing up today he'd probably be transitioned to being a girl and been too busy with that to bother making any music.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 21/01/2025 20:29

Katbum · 21/01/2025 19:52

I think the reaction on this thread indicates a lot of people who say they are ‘gender critical’ (which I am btw) are in fact bigots. What are trans people who live as women or men supposed to actually do now? There are lines to be drawn for sure, sports, prisons. But a trans women who has lived 30 years as a woman now can’t use a public bathroom safely? Is that what you wanted? Because what I wanted was reversal of self ID and a return to the logic of actually transitioned people being accepted, albeit with caveats for safety. This order makes gender non conformity and the right for those with gender dysphoria to live safely impossible. That’s not women’s rights. It’s cruelty.

Pro-tip for TRA concern trolls: gender critical feminists do not use the terms "live as women" and "live as men" because we don't believe in that concept.

It's a very very obvious tell.

Katbum · 21/01/2025 20:30

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 21/01/2025 20:26

Being in a female-only prison for the duration of her sentence is absolutely a female criminal's right.

Bring remanded in a female-only prison whilst awaiting trial is absolutely a female defendant's right.

To be locked up with male prisoners is a violation of women's human rights.

To come out with your statement requires creative and deliberate misrepresentation of ResisterOfTwaddleRex's post.

As I say if you think this is a positive thing for women you are mistaken, but this is getting circular and we’ll see who’d right in the fullness of time.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 21/01/2025 20:30

Katbum · 21/01/2025 20:12

How do you already know whether someone is male or female? My sister who is a lesbian often gets mistaken for a man. This is a stupid line of argument, the facts are a group of extremely vulnerable people have been made more so by a regime that is very obviously going to deliver nothing positive for women and a forum of supposed feminists is crowing. Gross.

So what's your solution? That due to the existence of this group of supposedly "extremely vulnerable people", all the women of the US just have to throw their hands in the air, agree some men are actaully women on the inside and that's all there is to it, and suck up sex being undefined as a meaningful criteria in law and protection despite it being quite blatantly something that does affect how every single one of us lives, the opportunities we get and the risks we face? Because obviously, while having the basis on which feminist analys exists and women's rights are justified utterly undefined and delegitimised is bad, being "gross" is clearly so much worse, right?

EasternStandard · 21/01/2025 20:33

As I say if you think this is a positive thing for women you are mistaken, but this is getting circular and we’ll see who’d right in the fullness of time.

Why aren't female only prisons a positive for women?

teawamutu · 21/01/2025 20:37

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 21/01/2025 20:29

Pro-tip for TRA concern trolls: gender critical feminists do not use the terms "live as women" and "live as men" because we don't believe in that concept.

It's a very very obvious tell.

As are:

  • Calling another poster 'dear'
  • Using childish terms like 'gross' for acknowledging basic reality
  • Countering a question with a straw man
  • 'but intersex'
  • The Baddies say this (true) thing and you've agreed or failed to denounce it so you are also A Baddie
  • Hardly anyone is affected
  • ... What about the huge number of trans people who will be affected?

Change the fucking record, people. If it was going to work it would've by now. Get better arguments or a new cause.

TheCatsTongue · 21/01/2025 20:39

Katbum · 21/01/2025 20:19

I have read it, it’s about gender ideology. Not sex based rights. Its seems some women on here think women’s rights is about the use of a toilet. But they are celebrating a rapist in the White House. Feminism has failed.

If this was a Biden/Democrat policy would you support it?

Pluvia · 21/01/2025 20:44

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 21/01/2025 18:31

Trump is a reality check for all those who thought they could deny reality.

This. If Starmer or Biden had sad it we'd all be cheering because it's re-established a commitment to biological reality and women's rights. We're not going to decry it because it took someone on the right to say it.

ElizaMulvil · 21/01/2025 20:51

FlirtsWithRhinos · 21/01/2025 13:12

And wheeling out the tired old "everything I don't like is just like the Nazis" argument doesn't work anymore.

True. Unfortunately in this case, it pretty much is the Nazis. Trump is 100% going to adopt the same playbook as Fascism ie populism, economic protectionism, monopolism for favoured corporates and social conservatism. And it will look like it's working fueled by his supporters optimism, loose monetary policy and probably a crypto bubble right up until the wheels fall off and it doesn't, at which point he will become more and more authoritarian and anti free speach to maintain his position and keep the media and populace cowed about acknowledging the failure for as long as he can.

Because Trump can't stand criticism so he is never going to tell his supporters that he can't solve their problems after all, or that the reasons they think things are bad are not the real reasons, or that things will get worse before they can get better (and stay worse for some people because actually they already had it better than they deserved based on their input). So he'll just keep pulling all the short term fixes he can until he runs out. And then god knows what he'll do.

The US Left are finding out they are the boy who cried wolf and when the eal Nazis came no one was listening. :(

The best hope for the US is for one of Trump's side who has less stage charisma to take advantage of a period of weakness to attack and dethrone him, and then fail to keep popular support.

The Democrats are hardly left in any but American Terms. The Left do not believe men can be women or women men viz Communist Party of Britain (which is definitely left surely ) declaration on the subject.

AlisonDonut · 21/01/2025 20:51

teawamutu · 21/01/2025 20:37

As are:

  • Calling another poster 'dear'
  • Using childish terms like 'gross' for acknowledging basic reality
  • Countering a question with a straw man
  • 'but intersex'
  • The Baddies say this (true) thing and you've agreed or failed to denounce it so you are also A Baddie
  • Hardly anyone is affected
  • ... What about the huge number of trans people who will be affected?

Change the fucking record, people. If it was going to work it would've by now. Get better arguments or a new cause.

You forgot 'educate yourself'. Whilst also never ever actually answering any questions that could clarify anything. (Because they have no answers, as we know).

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 21/01/2025 20:53

Ignoring the TRA derailers:

How fucked up is it that a rapist signs this document protecting women and girls (which he clearly didn't actually write but outsourced to a proper legal drafting team, but he agreed with it and signed it) whilst Obama lied to women about his intention to protect Roe? I can understand people who hate Trump voting for him, just because they at least know that what they see is what they get.

But also, wow. I squeed with delight several times reading it.

  1. Section Two clarifies the use of male and female.
  2. Section Three B places a duty on all federal agencies to enforce all "laws governing sex-based rights, protections, opportunities, and accommodations" on the basis of sex.
  3. Section Four A guarantees female-only prisons.
  4. Four B guarantees female-only rape shelters (yes, the irony is not lost on me).
  5. Section Five guarantees that single-sex spaces at work actually be single-sex.

I am dismayed at Section Four C's lack of nuance. Stopping "Prison Onset Gender Dysphoria", where violent males pretend to transition for underhanded reasons, is a laudable goal, however there will be prisoners who will be dependent on exogenous sex hormones for their bone health who will lose their current treatment and this will endanger their health. Thinking here of people like "Jim" from Dean Spade's Normal Life book.

PatatiPatatras · 21/01/2025 20:54

Checked the first 3 posts
Then the last 3 posts and my bingo card was full already.

Thanks for the reminder that being female happens to all females all over the world irrespective of who thinks what and what country or party line is trying to manipulate it. And it never happens to males no matter what body part they modify or name they use or how much they are afraid of other men.

That was the quickest popcorn session.

Plastictrees · 21/01/2025 20:56

Datun · 21/01/2025 20:14

I suppose it's predictable that when people are told to use the facilities of their own sex, they come up with rot like this.

I'm looking forward to all the new campaigns though, for a third space.

All your problems will be solved!

What a strange post. I’ve no idea what you think my problems are.

You seem totally ignorant to the fact that most people who are desperate to ‘transition’ are obviously in a state of distress and unhappy with themselves and their lives. Medical professionals, including mental health professionals, promote the idea that the solution to this distress is to ‘change gender’. Therefore it’s unsurprising we are in the position we are as a society, but I don’t blame individuals as this is very much a societal problem. If people are now expected to ‘de transition’ of course this will cause distress and possibly suicides, considering this was meant to be a solution to their problems and it’s now being ripped away - especially if they have had surgeries and taken hormones for years. It’s only human to have some empathy.

Hermyknee · 21/01/2025 21:04

spannasaurus · 21/01/2025 20:19

So do you want four spaces?

How would that work then?

spannasaurus · 21/01/2025 21:07

Hermyknee · 21/01/2025 21:04

How would that work then?

Female
Male
AFAB gender neutral
AMAB gender neutral

Personally I think female and male with a third gender neutral space works well.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 21/01/2025 21:08

Hermyknee · 21/01/2025 21:04

How would that work then?

I've seen individual private spaces marked as unisex. Most disabled toilets are like this. It seems to work as long as footfall is low.

Hermyknee · 21/01/2025 21:15

spannasaurus · 21/01/2025 21:07

Female
Male
AFAB gender neutral
AMAB gender neutral

Personally I think female and male with a third gender neutral space works well.

What about non-binary? Do they get one too?

Gender neutral is mixed sex.

All the young non binary women who campaigned for gender neutral lost a set of loos. The men go in there for a long sit down so the non binaries use the ladies on another floor. One man even forgot to close the cubicle door when he went for a wee. It stinks.

spannasaurus · 21/01/2025 21:19

Hermyknee · 21/01/2025 21:15

What about non-binary? Do they get one too?

Gender neutral is mixed sex.

All the young non binary women who campaigned for gender neutral lost a set of loos. The men go in there for a long sit down so the non binaries use the ladies on another floor. One man even forgot to close the cubicle door when he went for a wee. It stinks.

That's why I specfied separate AFAB and AMAB gender neutral toilets so they're not mixed sex

spannasaurus · 21/01/2025 21:20

We could of course just go back to having male and female toilets

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