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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Trump announces executive order that says legally there are only 2 genders (hmmm did he mis-speak and meant sex?)

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IwantToRetire · 20/01/2025 17:39

Well this will add to the confusion.

Have just heard him use the word gender, even though earlier news reports had said he would say only 2 sexes.

https://uk.news.yahoo.com/trump-sign-order-proclaiming-only-160700963.html

Trump to sign order proclaiming there are only two sexes

Donald Trump's government is set to recognise only two genders, male and female. The move will come as part of a swathe of executive orders the incoming president will sign on his first day back in the White House. It is one of two branded as "common...

https://uk.news.yahoo.com/trump-sign-order-proclaiming-only-160700963.html

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leftorrightnow · 22/01/2025 12:13

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/01/2025 12:02

In case you haven't noticed this is the board for discussions around sex and gender and women's rights issues more generally. Trans ideology runs counter to the dignity and integrity of women and girls ,and it puts children in extremely compromised situations in which they are vulnerable to medications and surgeries that will do damage to their bodies. Many of us are also parents.... and some are professionals who work with children.

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I am also a parent. Somehow, my kids being molested by a trans person or wanting to be transgender (fine if they do) is pretty low on my list of worries.

leftorrightnow · 22/01/2025 12:14

Anyone who has a fundamental issue with trans ideology is right wing, believes in rigid gender roles, is manipulated by Russia, is Hitler adjacent, denies climate change and so on........

I was taking about Trump who is all the above, expect Hitler adjacent, don’t recall having accused him or anyone else of that.

Snowypeaks · 22/01/2025 12:15

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/01/2025 12:13

That sounds like pre-manufactured conspiracy theory. It ticks all of the boxes.

Anyone who has a fundamental issue with trans ideology is right wing, believes in rigid gender roles, is manipulated by Russia, is Hitler adjacent, denies climate change and so on........

As for "classist supremacist" views....I was brought up in a working class family, and have been politicallly engaged since my early teens. My father was a union shop steward and nurtured my political instinct. I set up my first women's group at college, age 16, and then i helped to set up a peace camp outside of an American nuclear base. I lived on a grass verge for two years in a tent.

I've been on every left wing protest march going; have been vegetarian since I was 16. I've lived in squats and marched against 'the city'. I've been a Labour party member. You, on the otherhand appear to know very little, apart from your 'progressive script', and your level of discussion relies on stereotypes, misinformation and the usual round of cliches.

You claim you care about women's rights, yet you cannot even correctly identify what a woman is - other than some vague set of feelings and/or imaginings utterly detached from reality. I imagine you as being in your early thirties, and most likley without children.....and certainly with far less experience than many of us here.

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Top posting.

leftorrightnow · 22/01/2025 12:16

OverThinkingAnja · 22/01/2025 11:35

You’re suggesting legislation that restricts access of members of one sex to the services, spaces and/or sports of the other. Are you suggesting acknowledging them as a third sex? It’s unclear what you’re acknowledging them as which would restrict access

Yes I am suggesting acknowledging them as a third sex

leftorrightnow · 22/01/2025 12:20

Snowypeaks · 22/01/2025 12:15

Top posting.

All you have done has nothing to do with this conversation and views on transgender people. You may have done all that and still be against transgender rights, that’s not a contradiction in terms. Clearly.

what I have done in my personal life is irrelevant to this conversation. As it happens I’ve done a ton of volunteering and left wing activism, but as this is an anonymous forum there’s no way I (or you for that matter) can prove that’s true. So let’s stick to the conversation at hand.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/01/2025 12:21

leftorrightnow · 22/01/2025 12:13

I am also a parent. Somehow, my kids being molested by a trans person or wanting to be transgender (fine if they do) is pretty low on my list of worries.

Your grasp of the issue is essentially flawed, and you have a tendency to make hyperbolic, over-inflated and ill thought through comments and accusations. I'm used to better. I used to teach critical thinking at A-level. Alas, the ability to think critically and deconstruct arguments is sadly lacking in many these days...especially in those who rely entirely on social media for their political education.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/01/2025 12:22

Yes I am suggesting acknowledging them as a third sex

Fine, you crack on with that. They aren't though.

EasternStandard · 22/01/2025 12:23

leftorrightnow · 22/01/2025 12:16

Yes I am suggesting acknowledging them as a third sex

We’re not going to use the term third sex which is too removed from basic fact

lechiffre55 · 22/01/2025 12:26

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/01/2025 12:13

That sounds like pre-manufactured conspiracy theory. It ticks all of the boxes.

Anyone who has a fundamental issue with trans ideology is right wing, believes in rigid gender roles, is manipulated by Russia, is Hitler adjacent, denies climate change and so on........

As for "classist supremacist" views....I was brought up in a working class family, and have been politicallly engaged since my early teens. My father was a union shop steward and nurtured my political instinct. I set up my first women's group at college, age 16, and then i helped to set up a peace camp outside of an American nuclear base. I lived on a grass verge for two years in a tent.

I've been on every left wing protest march going; have been vegetarian since I was 16. I've lived in squats and marched against 'the city'. I've been a Labour party member. You, on the otherhand appear to know very little, apart from your 'progressive script', and your level of discussion relies on stereotypes, misinformation and the usual round of cliches.

You claim you care about women's rights, yet you cannot even correctly identify what a woman is - other than some vague set of feelings and/or imaginings utterly detached from reality. I imagine you as being in your early thirties, and most likley without children.....and certainly with far less experience than many of us here.

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I'd never heard the phrase "classist supremacist" before.
Apparently it's ok to join words together any old way. I wonder what it means.

I've seen the word reactionary used a lot in this thread. That's always a dead giveaway word for me. I know I can safely ignore all the words around it and lose nothing of worth.

Snowypeaks · 22/01/2025 12:28

leftorrightnow · 22/01/2025 12:16

Yes I am suggesting acknowledging them as a third sex

They're not a third sex, though, are they? They're just people who - for reasons - want to use opposite sex facilities or at least not use facilities for their own sex.
And surely you would need to acknowledge male and female transpeople as two additional sexes. At least.
Unworkable, not least because it starts with a lie. Much better to have protection against discrimination on the basis of belief, or gender nonconformity rather than pretend that transpeople form additional sex categories.

Snowypeaks · 22/01/2025 12:29

leftorrightnow · 22/01/2025 12:20

All you have done has nothing to do with this conversation and views on transgender people. You may have done all that and still be against transgender rights, that’s not a contradiction in terms. Clearly.

what I have done in my personal life is irrelevant to this conversation. As it happens I’ve done a ton of volunteering and left wing activism, but as this is an anonymous forum there’s no way I (or you for that matter) can prove that’s true. So let’s stick to the conversation at hand.

You're talking to the wrong woman.

JazzyJelly · 22/01/2025 12:31

leftorrightnow · 22/01/2025 12:16

Yes I am suggesting acknowledging them as a third sex

Of the sex class which produces... medium sized gametes? Speggs?

Why lie?

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/01/2025 12:32

leftorrightnow · 22/01/2025 12:16

Yes I am suggesting acknowledging them as a third sex

For someone big on the science of climate change you curiously seem to be a science denier when it comes to biology.

'Third sexes' and 'genders' have traditionally been the way some societies have accommodated same sex attracted and 'feminine' men; and provided a way for other men to meet with them for sex - without offending their society's taboo on homosexuality.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/01/2025 12:33

lechiffre55 · 22/01/2025 12:26

I'd never heard the phrase "classist supremacist" before.
Apparently it's ok to join words together any old way. I wonder what it means.

I've seen the word reactionary used a lot in this thread. That's always a dead giveaway word for me. I know I can safely ignore all the words around it and lose nothing of worth.

Neither have I...... and I used to teach Sociology.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/01/2025 12:36

leftorrightnow · 22/01/2025 12:20

All you have done has nothing to do with this conversation and views on transgender people. You may have done all that and still be against transgender rights, that’s not a contradiction in terms. Clearly.

what I have done in my personal life is irrelevant to this conversation. As it happens I’ve done a ton of volunteering and left wing activism, but as this is an anonymous forum there’s no way I (or you for that matter) can prove that’s true. So let’s stick to the conversation at hand.

You seem to have some kind of inhibition that involves not being able to comprehend posts which are explaining the fundamental disagreements people have with trans ideology.

You're quite keen to suggest the motivations and backgrounds of others, but not so keen when it comes to your own. You don't need 'BBC verify' or 'fact check' to discuss issues openly and honestly.

lechiffre55 · 22/01/2025 12:38

JazzyJelly · 22/01/2025 12:31

Of the sex class which produces... medium sized gametes? Speggs?

Why lie?

Speggs :)
Should you choose, you can take pleasure from knowing that at least one person - me - is now in a state of overactive imagination and chuckling uncontrollably at imagining what Speggs are and how they work.
Currently there's these giant eggs with little spirally thrashing outboard motors attached, scooting all over the place uncontrollably, bullying everything else they bash into contact with.
Actually sounds a bit like Trans Activists when you think about it.

JazzyJelly · 22/01/2025 12:42

lechiffre55 · 22/01/2025 12:38

Speggs :)
Should you choose, you can take pleasure from knowing that at least one person - me - is now in a state of overactive imagination and chuckling uncontrollably at imagining what Speggs are and how they work.
Currently there's these giant eggs with little spirally thrashing outboard motors attached, scooting all over the place uncontrollably, bullying everything else they bash into contact with.
Actually sounds a bit like Trans Activists when you think about it.

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I will indeed take pleasure from that!

SionnachRuadh · 22/01/2025 13:19

TempestTost · 22/01/2025 10:52

Oh my gosh, thank you for saying this.

I find this the most bizarre element of the whole thing really, in a way more so than the gender stuff, at least that, I feel I can see how that emerged.

I used to very much identify with the economic left. Not the big state social intervention left, the good jobs strong communities, protecting workers, localism/conservation, cooperative industry, left.

Of course there have always been the big state people, but when suddenly people screaming about how the left is about supporting globalism, free trade, and control of economic policy by international trade organizations, my eyes nearly popped out of my head.

Increasingly I think it's not just that elements of the left and right have shifted, they actually seem to have substantially flipped, on basic issues. People who are old school leftists aren't supporting the right now because things have become muddled, it's because that's where you find the policies they have always supported.

I think that people like Christopher Lasch, who were predicting this flip decades ago, have turned out to be prophetic.

It's not just that issues flip, but whole demographics flip. In this case it's the gentrification of the left, and society polarising around educational credentials, that's probably the big driver. You occasionally see the class work here, where someone will turn up who's very invested in being left wing, and that takes the form of deferring to credentialed experts and bemoaning "populism". You see it in a much cruder form on US Democrat subreddits, where it's very common for posters to boast about their degrees and describe GOP voters as inbred yokels.

Those Democrats imagine that they're advocating on behalf of the working class, and then they're bemused that they lost the working class vote to a guy who lives in a golden tower.

It's worth checking out Patrick Ruffini's book Party of the People for hard data on this. Ruffini is an interesting guy - a Republican pollster who doesn't like Trump, who thought Trump would go down to a landslide defeat in 2016, then figured out that maybe the crass game show host had intuited something about the electorate that he hadn't seen.

It's important because the most lasting Democratic advantage for almost 200 years, since Martin Van Buren founded the party to support Andrew Jackson's presidential campaign, was its brand as the party of the little guy opposing the elites. That's what's flipped.

What was the single Trumpiest ethnic group in the November election? Not white voters, but Native Americans. Not many of them work in prestige graduate professions. They live in unfashionable places and work in jobs like construction or plumbing.

None of us think Trump is an intellectual, but he's not stupid and he can spot an underserved market. And he's got people like Vance who does seem to understand the realigment and wants to lean into it. One thing to watch will be the nomination of Lori Chavez-DeRemer as labour secretary. She's been one of the handful of consistently pro-union Republicans in Congress, very close to the Teamsters, and the old-school Reaganite conservatives hate her nomination.

And for the Democrats, see also UK Labour, whose Camden based leadership gives off a strong vibe of "We don't really like these low-status Red Wall voters. Here, Nigel, you have them."

MarieDeGournay · 22/01/2025 13:23

Still no evidence of 'persecution'.

Sadly, many groups in society experience hate crimes, or to be more accurate: report to the police incidents which are 'perceived by the victim or any other person to be motivated by a hostility or prejudice'.
Hate crimes against women are not recorded, as sex is not considered a 'personal characteristic' in the official definition of hate crime. However, the fact that about 100 women were murdered by men in the UK in 2023-24 gives an idea of the scale of hate crimes against women.

Unacceptable thought all recorded hate crime incidents are, all 140,000 or so of them in the past year, they don't add up to the level of systemic abuse and maltreatment which would constitute persecution; and they are being dutifully recorded by the police, not perpetrated by the police, which is more common in cases of literal persecution.

OverThinkingAnja · 22/01/2025 13:25

leftorrightnow · 22/01/2025 12:16

Yes I am suggesting acknowledging them as a third sex

Ok, so now we're getting somewhere. In your legislative framework then all transpeople belong to this third sex. Some of those transpeople, in your words, dress like women some don't. Regardless of that they are this third sex and it is membership of this third sex that allows their exclusion from women's spaces. That seems a little hard on the peop!e most of us would consider females with a trans identity, but there we go that's your system. Sounds much more transphobic than only excluding males from women's spaces and sports tbh.

JazzyJelly · 22/01/2025 13:36

SionnachRuadh · 22/01/2025 13:19

I think that people like Christopher Lasch, who were predicting this flip decades ago, have turned out to be prophetic.

It's not just that issues flip, but whole demographics flip. In this case it's the gentrification of the left, and society polarising around educational credentials, that's probably the big driver. You occasionally see the class work here, where someone will turn up who's very invested in being left wing, and that takes the form of deferring to credentialed experts and bemoaning "populism". You see it in a much cruder form on US Democrat subreddits, where it's very common for posters to boast about their degrees and describe GOP voters as inbred yokels.

Those Democrats imagine that they're advocating on behalf of the working class, and then they're bemused that they lost the working class vote to a guy who lives in a golden tower.

It's worth checking out Patrick Ruffini's book Party of the People for hard data on this. Ruffini is an interesting guy - a Republican pollster who doesn't like Trump, who thought Trump would go down to a landslide defeat in 2016, then figured out that maybe the crass game show host had intuited something about the electorate that he hadn't seen.

It's important because the most lasting Democratic advantage for almost 200 years, since Martin Van Buren founded the party to support Andrew Jackson's presidential campaign, was its brand as the party of the little guy opposing the elites. That's what's flipped.

What was the single Trumpiest ethnic group in the November election? Not white voters, but Native Americans. Not many of them work in prestige graduate professions. They live in unfashionable places and work in jobs like construction or plumbing.

None of us think Trump is an intellectual, but he's not stupid and he can spot an underserved market. And he's got people like Vance who does seem to understand the realigment and wants to lean into it. One thing to watch will be the nomination of Lori Chavez-DeRemer as labour secretary. She's been one of the handful of consistently pro-union Republicans in Congress, very close to the Teamsters, and the old-school Reaganite conservatives hate her nomination.

And for the Democrats, see also UK Labour, whose Camden based leadership gives off a strong vibe of "We don't really like these low-status Red Wall voters. Here, Nigel, you have them."

Excellent comment

leftorrightnow · 22/01/2025 13:53

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leftorrightnow · 22/01/2025 13:57

OverThinkingAnja · 22/01/2025 13:25

Ok, so now we're getting somewhere. In your legislative framework then all transpeople belong to this third sex. Some of those transpeople, in your words, dress like women some don't. Regardless of that they are this third sex and it is membership of this third sex that allows their exclusion from women's spaces. That seems a little hard on the peop!e most of us would consider females with a trans identity, but there we go that's your system. Sounds much more transphobic than only excluding males from women's spaces and sports tbh.

What? females with a trans identity would of course still be allowed to use female spaces.

There is no need, in most cases, for defining who is allowed to use third spaces anyways. You have spaces for men, spaces for women, and spaces for people who ae not clearly defined as either OR anybody who would simply LIKE to use that space. Just as many able bodied people use disabled loos if there is no que. Doesn't have to be complicated.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/01/2025 13:57

And he's got people like Vance who does seem to understand the realigment and wants to lean into it.

He does. It's worth listening to his interview with Joe Rogan to see how much he sees these things as issues.

TempestTost · 22/01/2025 14:01

leftorrightnow · 22/01/2025 11:03

Record for a party who has very bad records with these groups. Most people of colour still vote democrat

Well, not always, therewas a time when black Americans tended to vote Republican.

The Hispanic community is polling about half and half these days. And the black vote has been shifting in much the same way the Hispanic vote did at first, and it's been picking up momentum. Enough that Obama thought it was a good idea to chastise them.

The fact is there has always been a black conservatives faction and they are growing, not just in numbers but culturally, in terms of influence.

Don't you wonder why it is that these groups are changing their voting, right at a time when the white middle classes are accusing the Republicans of being white supremacists?

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